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36-40,
*ortney
writes:my husband also cross dresses and at first i was like ok as long as it stayed between us in the bedroom but it got to where he wanted to every day all day and even with the kids awake and around i made it clear i diddnt want it around the kids and he went behined my back. now my baby copys him.im upset about it i feel like i wasnt good enough for him to stop becuse it got out of control he collected gay porn spent rent money on bras and pantties and bought sex toys for himself i felt like he diddnt care about my feelings we eventualy split up and it was becuse of domestic battery i blame myself i think hes mad at me for not accepting it even though i wanted to but he kept lying to me and changing his answer when id ask about it to understand.so i kinda want to understand what is this? i know hes going through a lot trying to accept himself so does he love me even though he couldnt stop or min mize it and should i accept his way about it? and if there are any men who can help...do u do it around the kids whats your opinion?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): Sorry babes, you were quiet clear that you wanted men to answer, and unfortuantely any cross dressers we have aren't brave enough.... Your partner has been unfair. You were kind enough to allow cross dressing in the bedroom, but that wasn't enough and he did it in front of the kids. He may love you, he may not... but cross dressing is so important that he's willing to give up you and the kids... This is probably not a sexual kink for him, he's probably transexual, a man trapped in a womans body and the next step is surgery. You did all you could, but your not dealing with a normal hetrosexual man. Your relationship is doomed, and you really must move on. You've done nothing wrong, you've been a brilliant wife, but unfortuanately that's not enough for him.. You must move on and find a hetrosexual man, and become a strong mother to your kids... Your partner has issues, so don't be surprised if he goes all the way and becomes a woman someday... Sorry, blessings, you must move on. This guy is not right for you because he prefers with all his heart to become a woman.
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