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Oral Sex Phobia? What's his problem?

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Question - (9 August 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. I give him oral sex at least 5 times a week. He has never performed it on me and when ever I ask him, he doesn't give me an answer as to way he won't perform on me. He has never given oral sex to any of his ex-girlfriends as well. I don't understand what his phobia is, but he absolutley love to receive it. I told him I was going to stop if he did not return the favor. What could his problem be?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008):

My boyfriend of 11 months loves to get oral sex, after he touches my breasts and puts his fingers inside of me for a few seconds he moves my head down for me to perform oral sex on him, I can go longer I'm good at it, than he stops me, gets on top for a bit, comes, then hands me my vibrator to finish myself off, sometimes he helps, sometimes hewatches me, that's it. I know he has a past history with S and M and wondering if that has something to do with it. I asked him to try a little with me, or why he hasn't and he said I'm not like that, our relationship is not like that he likes what "we" have together, he says he loves me and we both want to get married, I love him very much, he talks very little about it, but gts angry if I bring up his BDSM experiences -help

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A male reader, Limits Ireland +, writes (9 August 2008):

Face him openly: ask him if there's something wrong with your downstairs...if it is try anti bacterial delicate wash; it works for my gf. One more advice: don't threaten him that you'll not do more oral on him, just reduce the no of times slowly until he starts to put more interest in your downstairs ! good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008):

Leave him. It's a deal breaker.

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A male reader, Rhandy Philippines +, writes (9 August 2008):

Rhandy agony auntjust tell him openly regarding sex, tell him about any position or you may ask wht he fells when ur down on him? and tell him that you want him to down on you and put some feminine wash so that your BF will like it or try ask him 69 position. lol. Good luck and Enjoy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008):

tell him that you'd really like to try it, ask him to try it just once and if that doesnt work ask him to try 69 with you. you'd be giving oral sex to eachother at the same time. i hope you can get him to try it, it's an amazing experience.

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