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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

He has an obssession with "shemale" porn! What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2624 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - I NEED HELP IVE WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR TWO YEARS NOW AND I THINK SOMETHING IS WRONG LATELY IVE BEEN SUSPECTING ABOUT HIM DOING SOMETHING ON THE COMPUTER HE HAS BEEN LOOKING AT SHEMALE PORN WE HAVE TWO COMPUTERS ONE IN OUR BEDROOM AND THE OTHER IN THE EXTRA ROOM WHEN THE DOOR IS ... (164 words

Just started dating her...so when should I kiss her and how do I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

19 January 2007 (M age 22-25 - Hi, I'm 15 and have just started going out with this girl. We're both pretty shy, but I think our relationship is getting less awkward day by day. What I wanted to know is when should we kiss? We've been going out for 3 weeks now and havn't really got anywhere close to doing ... (111 words

I have a lot of angst about chatting to girls...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

19 January 2007 (M age 22-25 - Hi, I started college in september 06 and i still havent got any female friends from there. I jus cant bring myself to go and talk to any girls. i think to myself "what do i say", "what if i look bad", "what if i dont act right" and so on. even if i did approach a girl i ... (92 words

We're now known as the "6-sluts-of-scool" even though only one was really slutty!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - omg help please i was at my friends sleep over (im 13) and her parents left to go to the store which was 60 mins away. aways we were watch this funnny movie and doing nails and hair. when this really popular girl who happens to be my neighbor says she needs the phone so she ... (299 words

How can I meet a boy who shares my interests and can be my friend, too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2643 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - lately, iv pondered that the thought that i dont have a bf maybe more my fault then the fact that there arent any boys for me. i go to a very small high school, and there are only so many boys to choose from. lucky me, none of them are what i want. well except maybe 2 o... (648 words

My husband and I seem to be the opposite of everybody... I need sex 3-4 times a day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2345 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - I come from a prepared wealthy family vs his (2 sets of parents etc.). I feel I am always wearing the pants in our relationship and for once I want to be the damsel in distress, rescued by her knight in shining armor. See, I’m the one that brings home the bigger income (b... (413 words

He treats me so bad! Why do I love him? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hello, My heart is so broken. I am in love with a man who for some reason does not respect me and can not treat me consistently and kindly. He keeps me stringing along, says he loves me and then ignores me. Wants me to live with him and marry me, but wont see me on a regular ... (254 words

I don't want to date this guy and he asked for my number from my best friend! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - i have this kind of awkward problem. my mate's older brother (Jake) is friends with this guy (Brandon), and Brandon told Jake he liked me. Jake then went to tell my mate, (Alison). So Alison thinks it would be great if him and i went out, but i dont even know the lad! hes not ... (186 words

I told her I didn't want to go out and she hung up on me! This gets to me..should I confront her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - One of my friends asked me to go out the other day, and i said i didnt want to. And she put the phone down on me. I have seen her do this to a few of her other mates and then she starts talking behind their backs. Should i confront her. I think she is being very childish, or ... (83 words

I love him but don't have the courage to tell him! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - I am in love with this guy and I do not have the courage to tell him how I feel. i dont know how he feels. we have this connection with each other. ever since we met, he tells me things about his personal life that even my best friends wouldnt tell me. I never had this kind of ... (409 words

I'm shy..so what signs would I give him, to see if he likes me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - hey everyone i was just wondering what steps cud i make to show the guy i like that i like him..taking into consideration thati am very shy when it comes to guys, especially him! i look at him he looks at me..but that isn't a good way for actually knowing precisely!! u know ... (72 words

I'm a terrible housekeeper and I need tips...badly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - I was diagnosed some years back with attention deficit disorder...it has not be a big hindrance to me professionally but I have paid a price in my private life. I struggle with keeping my condo neat and clean...no matter what I do I cannot seem to keep it not just tidy but ... (130 words

Its like I love him so much, but how do i trust him better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F - I seek advise, I really really REAALLY love my bf sooo much but im really worried about him with other girls. He rocks like sooo much and its like i love him but how do i trust him better???n how do i try n keep him????... (47 words

He's very good looking, he has noticed me but he's married! Is he just being friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F - I have to teach English to a very good looking man, the boss of an important department I have noticed him looking at me as if he found me sexy or something, I am very serious and would not mess with a married man, he is very polite though I feel a bit nervous sometime and do ... (130 words

He stares at me and laughs at my jokes. How can I tell what he's thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F - How can you tell if someone fancy's u , theres a boy at school , he laughs at my jokes that arent funny, and try's hard to talk to me , sometimes he stares at me . how can i tell what he's thinking ? ? ... (46 words

Cheated on him 4 times in 7 months! How do I stop doing this to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - hey im in a bad situation with my relationship. ive been dating this guy for 7 months now and ive cheated on him 4 times. i promised him i would stop but i just keep on making the same mistake, and each time he forgives me. i love him very much and i honestly want to stop ... (72 words

Torn between 2 women! Do I tell my ex gf 'thanks but no thanks'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

19 January 2007 (M age 22-25 - I dated a friend of mine for about a month, then we decided we were better off as friends. So we moved on, and I started going out with this lovely girl who I absolutely love to pieces. But then today, me and the old girlfriend hooked up because she thought that we might still ... (105 words

She's unavailable and I had a crush on her-you can imagine my shock when she told me she liked me too! Any thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

19 January 2007 (M - For the past couple of weeks, I had a crush on a girl who I knew a had a partner. I couldn't understand my attraction and I found myself thinking about her a lot despite the fact that we rarely saw each other. I was under the impression that she was flirting with me but I ... (530 words

We're married and we can't cannect on work schedules and having children. Are we ready for a divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - How do you know when you're ready for divorce? Bubble, Bubble, Toil and trouble...yep, that's my marriage right now. We're totally drifting apart and I don't see us connecting on some major issues. I want him to work close to home, he wants to work in another state (and he ... (104 words

I still care about him but he won't even look at me in school! What can I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I (of 1 1/2 yrs) broke up this last december(dec. 24th.. :-( ) I broke it off with him cause it just wasnt wrking out. We still cared alot about eachother but it just didnt seem like we were even datig anymore(its complicated, our best friends were dating, they ... (180 words

I have vaginal odor and my friend has big 'lips'! Are we unusual and why are we like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - hi i am just a young teenager and i really think that my discharge smells (not nice) it's not an unusual colour or anything but i am so worried about it. i have not told anyone except one friend who would also like your advice she thinks she has really really big "flaps" ... (65 words

Happily married but I want to 'swing' with the couple from our church! Any thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I’m a happily married female, but flirting has gotten me into trouble. A few months ago my husband and I went on a dbl date w/a couple from church. We have become very good friends now. Recently I have noticed her husband checking me out. I’m not physically attra... (327 words

How do I tell him these harrassing phone calls are from a bully and are not me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - i have recently meet this guy. we started going out and everything was fine. previously my last relationship ended due to persistant bullying from an unknown phone number. to prevent this happening again i changed my number. this was a real turning point in my life. afte... (246 words

Why do girls back off from me? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi. I have had issuses with my love life i dont seem to be able to hook up with someone.Recently i met this girl i tot we would hit it off , all of a sudden she backs out for no reason at all.....such has been the story of my life. Now i there is this girl coming on to me but i ... (88 words

How do I tell my Mom this guy and I are more than just good mates, without worrying her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2637 days ago

19 January 2007 (F - Right...my new bf is 17, im 14. I told my mum i met how i met him and she thinks were just m8s. how can i tell her were goin out without worrying her? how do i start tho convo? she doesnt no how much i talk to him or anything. help plz xxxxx... (54 words

He smacked me and I left! But.. I am hurting so bad. How can I stop letting my emotions get the best of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years now and married for about a year. My two daughter's and I moved in with him and his son 2 years ago. I have raised his son like my own. I have tried to be a good mom to him because his mother died when he was eight. He has stayed ... (233 words

She wants an "open' marriage...should I be worried that she has those thoughts of other men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

19 January 2007 (M age 36-40 - My wife of ten years just told me that she wouldn't mind an open relationship but doesn't have one because she knows I wouldn't be able to handle it. Should I be worried that she has those thoughts of other men? She also states sex is not love for her just a means of getting ... (83 words

Why can't I experience orgasms like the girls in porn? Any thoughts?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1981 days ago

19 January 2007 (F - I keep watching porn and seeing these girls come loads! I mean like waterfalls of come! Is this real or fake? Why can't I do it? Thanks... (27 words

Is he addicted to porn? Nor sure what to make of this. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ok, my boyfriend has a huge collection of porn - i mean thousands of images on his computer - i knew he looked at porn when i met him - but it is now bothering me that he has such a big collection. We have been together about 18mths and live together. He is 39 and says he has ... (159 words

Can anyone offer an explanation as to why he is giving me the runaround? Did I scare him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - An ex that I truly loved has now been trying to see me again. We became a long distance relationship (we only dated for 6 months but were friends for 3 months beforehand, and I was so deeply in love with him)... It ended because of the distance (although treated me ba... (361 words

My bf cussed out the guy I have a crush on! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2170 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - I have a problem with my boy-friend being to overprotective. He just cussed out the guy i have a crush on, in front of me!!..and he knows that i don't like that, but what can i do because now he's asking me to set the up to fight..and the only thing i want to do is end this ... (87 words

I like him but he doesn't want a gf! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - i want to go out wit this lad but he dnt wnt a girlfriend wat shall i do ???... (19 words

He has hit, kicked, and punched me before, but i just let it slide because it's just so hard to get away from him! Any thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2304 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - Should i still be with my boy-friend because i think that he is just using me for the money and my sex just like what he did before..Sometimes he tells me that he loves, but how am i sure that he just wants to be with me for more money. He has hit, kicked, and punched me ... (130 words

Met him through online dating and I don't think he's being consistant. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am unsure about online dating. I found a profile I liked and sent an email. For about 2 wks now we have been chatting, and finally met face to face for coffee on my lunch break. he is a doctor with 2 mos. residency left and on call. I feel like I caught him off guard last ... (302 words

I have boy trouble and need advice! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - Heyy Well im in year 10 at school and have boy trouble! I went out with this boy but i figured out i liked his best friend so i dumped the guy i was with, this was months ago, but nothing ever happened with his best m8t and me except ultimate flirting. He always flirts with me ... (121 words

He's older than me and I'm afraid he'll go clubbing anytime he wants! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - well im 15 years old and bf's 18 and im really afraid that he might be going clubbing anytime he wants and when he's not suppose to. I don't really trust him because we both played each other in the past before and we've both done many wrong things to each other.. And he we bo... (118 words

It's a dead relationship but can't break up as I wouldn't want to lose him as a good friend! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hmmm this is pretty complicated..but basically i'm in a dead relationship...I love him but more as a best friend. He means so much to me and I tell him everything. But i just dont have thos feelings anymore..sex feels so wrong..i feel like crying after. But I just can't bear to ... (86 words

Why are the muscles on one side of my neck bigger than the other side? Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1624 days ago

19 January 2007 (M - dear cupid my right side of my neck seems to have more muscles at the bottom nearing the shoulders then my left side one, i would like to know is this normal or is it rare, as i have been to the doctors and he said its just muscles and did not give a proper explaination. if... (106 words

I'm a recovering alcoholic. I'm just wondering, in new relationships is it best not to mention it until later?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

19 January 2007 (M age 36-40 - It's been four weeks since I split with my ex. I can now see what a damaging relationship it was. She had so many issues, played so many mind games and lied so much that I can now see that I should have got out much sooner. I have not made contact with her, and have no intentio... (194 words

Can one's feelings change the moment something is said. Has anyone experienced this same situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

19 January 2007 (F - Has it ever happened to you that in a relationship something in a moment you can pinpoint, makes you realize that you have seen the light and your feelings towards the other person change? I'll elaborate a little: in my last relationship, i was completely and madly in love wi... (198 words

He said he doesn't want sex b/c he's "got something" that's none of my business. Then I found a vile text from him to another woman!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My partner had been tempted to have a fling with a girl he met at the gym and I found a text he was going to send her, which was vile. He swore nothing came of it and never would. It forced me to look at myself and why he may want to do so. Despite me losing a... (201 words

Why are my friends trying to screw me over?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - Ok here the deal, Its kind of complicated but one of my best friends (Rach) went crazy at me today because she thinks i'm talking about her behind her back. Obiously I haven't, but no matter what I said I couldn't make her see that. So eventually I just stopped replying, just ... (156 words

During pregnancy, when should a full figure woman expect to feel her baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F - Hi, i am 17 weeks pregnant but i am a size 18 in clothes and i dont think i have started to show yet and i dont know when i am suppose to feel the baby coz i am a quite fuller figure woman.... (44 words

I'm 16 and in love! But he doesn't feel the same. Should I just forget him then?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - i am 16 and in love! The problem is the guy i love doesn't like me like that! he flirts all the time with me but tells me he doesnt like me! He has told me a few times that he likes me but if i confront him about it he acts like he was joking. He is completely different to wha... (126 words

I'm crazy about her but she's married! She says she feels 'something' but is commited to her marrige. What can I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1444 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm a single guy in my thirties. Last year i met this great woman at a place i don't go to very often. I asked her out as i thought she was lovely and amazing. She refused as she's married. A couple of months ago, i met with her again at the same place, not by design. ... (219 words

I want him to show me affection and not just during sex. I don't know what to do.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2508 days ago

19 January 2007 (? - hey. my boyfriend doesn't know how to show love or affection. he can't cuddle me or kiss me unless there is another reason. the only time i ever feel this real love and affection is when we are having sex. i know he isn't just with me for the sex as it hardly ever happen... (171 words

His wife doesn't seem done with their marriage. I feel guilty for being w/ him and don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend at work, he is a customer. We got along famously like old friends. I learn that he is seperated but I let the friendship continue even though I know I am attracted to him. I even gave him my phone number when he asked after about a month or so. Weeks go by ... (284 words

My partner has lost her sex drive and I think she's getting too close to her friend.I don't know what to do. Please help me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - I need a little advice. I have been with my partner for almost 6 years, we got married last summer and I have always believed it was the best thing ever. However things have been a little odd lately. She seems to have lost her sex drive entirely, in fact she did kind of tell ... (284 words

When I'm not in the mood for sex my partner gets upset with me. I feel pressured sometimes. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - I was married up until last year and had an affair with someone else, since then I separated from my husband and I am now living with my new partner. When it was an affair we were having sex at every opportunity! Now we are together properly and we have just recently bought a ... (212 words

He's goes behind my back and contacts his ex, and takes numbers from other girls! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi My boyfriend and I went out at university and he cheated a few times (it was long distance). We broke up but a year later we got back together because he is finished universty. I said there was a lot of things that needed to be done on his part to make me learn to trus... (196 words

At first things were great, but now it feels like I don't matter anymore. Why has he changed towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - i've been with my long distance boyfriend for over a year now. Dispite the distance, at first things were great. He made me feel so wanted and loved..which before was something I didn't think i'd ever feel.But now things seem to have changed so much..i just don't seem to matter ... (113 words

My boyfriend's ex wife won't leave us alone! We just want to be left in peace. I can't take the pressure!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

19 January 2007 (F - Hi Everyone, I Would like some help please, as i am really getting upset. I have been with my boyfriend for a year this week and i love him so much. My problem is his ex wife, she won't leave him alone. I was best friends with my boyfriend for years before we got together. Th... (274 words

I don't trust my fiance, but we're getting married in February! Please help.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - I just cannot trust 'George'. I have been in a relationship with him for the past 2 years. We broke up once last July when he got engaged to another woman. We only split for a couple of months... and he called off his engagement with that girl because he said he loved me so ... (89 words

I want to forget about her and move on but I still love her! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi, could you please help me with this….. I have been in relationship with my partner for year and half. I have to say, from the first few months of knowing her I felt that we might not be right for each other, but I kept saying to myself no one is perfect, and people ca... (612 words

I'm pregnant and the father told me to keep it a secrte. I told my 2 teenage children and now he wants nothing to do with me! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - i have been separated for a year and a half. i met a bloke 4 months ago, he swept me off my feet. I didn't know what real love felt like until i met him. 2 months into the relationship i fell pregnant. at first he seemed happy about it, we agreed that we wouldn't tell ... (191 words

How do i show him that i would like more with out scaring him off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

19 January 2007 (F - Well i have read problems and i've been giving suggestions but now i am at a complete loss! I have been chatting to a guy on the internet and last night we met! While we were chatting, we said that we were both just looking for friendship and if anything happened then i... (229 words

Should I be worried that he's stopped calling?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1072 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - should i be worried that my boyfriend hasnt been calling me? he usually calls almost everyday i know hes been stressed lately but is that an excuse for not calling for several days? ive tried calling him and theres no answer so i leave a message and still nothing! should i be ... (84 words

Walked in on my girl bonking a guy I know... what should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - Hullos ,it is quite sad that i got my girlfreind cheating on me with another guy whom i happen to know .i found them having sex together so what i did i told the guy to simply dress up an leave the place .There after i was my girl who immediately started asking for forgiveness ... (139 words

Should I confront her over her flirty messages to her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - So my girlfriend and i seem to be doing great. Theres an obvious connection. She attends the highschool while i attend a nearby college. ive been noticing messages between her and her x boyfriend containing references to flirting etc.. I feel like if i confront her about the ... (96 words

He says he doesn't want a serious relationship... So what did his mention of a child mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - I met someone almost a yr ago. It took him along time to kiss me. He came out of a relationship. HE is divorced no kids. This is my problem he doesn't want a serious relationship (which to me serious we hang out about 3 to 4 times a week which we already do). Today he goes ... (141 words

Should I stop his boot fetish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am 33 years old and my boyfriend has a boot fedish. In the beginning I didn't bother me but now it is out of hand. I feel he doesn't care for me if I don't wear them. Should I just turn the other cheek? THX... (50 words

Am I just his back-up girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - Well i like this guy and everyone at school told me that he liked me to and he even asked me to the movies but i found out that he has a girlfriend in a city that is three hours away he told my friend that he liked me but basically using me as a back up in case things withhis ... (93 words

We came back from vacation and she dumped me for a man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - Gosh people i need help BIG TIME! I am a 24 year old woman and have being dating my best friend whom was also a woman for almost 7years but recently we took a trip together and ever since we came back she dumped me for this guy whom she has been secretly seeing for a wee... (144 words

Does marriage counselling help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - I seem to have let love slip away. Now I feel no love or respect for my husband. I am ready to leave but feel that it is worth it to try to get it back. Does marriage counseling (or one of these highly advertised alternatives that you can order) really help? Can it really make ... (71 words

Why is the kissing and getting intimate not making me hot?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (M age 22-25 - Alright so this girl and i have been going out for a few weeks (ive actually known her since we were like 8 or 9) --but we just starting going out. Ive always liked her and i like being around her... But today i went to her house and we hung out and i kissed her for the first ... (272 words

We have great sex but he can't come! Is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend never gets off during sex. He says it like his whole body just relaxes and then he is limp. Hes hard the whole time and then just goes limp and doesnt get off. this is a first for me,is he just not attracted to me or does he have something wrong with him?... (58 words

I'm 24 and leading a double life with two different men!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - I love two men. One of the most complicated things that ever happened to me. Ive been struggling with this for almost a year. I have been living a double life, because they dont know about each other really. One has been my boyfriend for 6 years he is wonderful but something ... (145 words

I'm 16 and 6 months pregnant and I'm worried coz we don't live together yet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

19 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - I am sixteen years old and pregnant...my boyfriend is 15. I am sixth months and i am really starting to worry about the fact we dont live together. What do you think I should do? I dont want to move away from my mom and his mom says i can move in with him but he cant move in ... (65 words

I'm 18 and need motivation tips on losing weight!

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19 January 2007 (F - Hey everybody. I'm 18 and trying to loose weight. I've put myself on a diet and I've banned myself from eating bread, dairy products and anything sweet that isn't fruit. So now I snack on fruits throughout the day and for dinner I have mostly vegetables. Also I have enforced a ... (196 words

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