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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

How I can try to "hook in" a man once he shows an interest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 570 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) - Dear All I need some advice in dating! How can you just "be yourself" when you have been badly hurt in past relationships? I have just met a new man who seems really nice. However, I have a problem with keeping men - have no problem in attracting them. I have come to ... (287 words)

He acted weird when I called him! What is up with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am having a relationship with this guy who is in the navy.weve been talking and sharing our feeling for two months now.but something happened , he went out last night wiht his friends to spend the new year with them.around midnight i called up to greet him happ... (167 words)

Is it possible not to be able to have an orgasm?! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 568 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - is it possible not to be able to have an orgasm?! ive been with my boyfriend for 5months now and were sexually active and everytime we 'do it' he waits for me to cum first but i never have, i never have before i was with him either. In this relationship i feel like i am s... (91 words)

He revealed to me-some past indiscretions with other females and I am hurt. Should I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 22-25 - Hi. My bf and i have been together for about a year and we love each other very much. Yesterday though, he told me that during our first month of dating he kissed a girl that he worked with and he kissed her again about a month later. The second time he kissed her occured the ... (446 words)

I cheated on him and didn't regret it...should we just break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - my boyfriend and i have been going out for 4 months and we both lost our virginity, to each other, about one month in. i'd known him for a year so i was comfortable with it. now its like sex is all he thinks about. i wonder whether i should break up with him. not just about ... (142 words)

He makes excuses for his ex wife's bad behaviours and this bothers me. Any thought?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

1 January 2007 (?) - Please don't be too judgmental to my situation. Actually, you don't have to respond at all. I'm just ranting because I have a lot of stuff to get off of my chest... I am engaged to a man that I love very dearly. Recently I've had time to really look at the relationship... (1332 words)

What else can i try for our faded sexlife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 570 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - ive been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now and we're having some trouble, we aren't having sex much at all anymore, is there anything you can recommend to get things back to normal? i have lingerie and massage oil but they dont help as much as we need. please help... (52 words)

She says her brief fling meant nothing but I can't get past it! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (M) age 18-21 - This is a bit of a complicated one. I had been dating this girl on and off since i was 14 (making it 5 years). We'd been dating solidly and intensely for two years until about 3 months ago. We've always known that we're madly in love but i became depressed for some reason and i ... (319 words)

We seem to have this chemistry but I worry that she might have the wrong imporession about me! Avice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 570 days ago

1 January 2007 (M)

- hi there, I have been on and off flirting with this girl i work with since september. There is major chemistry between us. We share long glances followed by smiles. We whisper things across the room to each other, and she remembers things i have said ages ago. We are both... (223 words)

does sex hurt the uncircumsized male?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

1 January 2007 (M) age 18-21 - does sex hurt when you are not circumcised?... (8 words)

i have to share him ...why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i met a guy i care a lot about.but he lives with a woman he got pregnant many years ago.the child is now grown.i don't understand why they stay together.he says he loves me.but he thinks i should be ok with this because they don't share anything except the house together.am i ... (56 words)

kissing dilemma

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 522 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 13-15 - hey my bf keeps trying to snog me and i do want to its just i dont have a clue and evry one says go wiv him but i tried and went like rong i kinda just pretended i needed the lo help plz lots of love xxmemexx... (49 words)

My relationship is not progressing after 3 years and I want a life-partner! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 570 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Think I know the answer to this question already BUT HERE GOES. I`ve a boyfriend that I`ve been seeing for 3 years or so but the relationships never progressed beyond great sex and nights out. This was all I wanted any man for a long time as I had previously been through a bad ... (131 words)

He cheated on me and I feel ashamed and dirty. So why do I want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, i have been dating a man since June, taking it slowly and carefully as there are children involved on both sides. I called his landline on Saturday morning somewhat unexpectidly as i was confirming our meeting to see the New Year in together. Upon answering said ... (133 words)

My parents disapprove of him-my friends are saying don't get back together with him! What shouldI do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 26-29 - Hi, I was going out with my boyfriend for three years last june. We fought quite often but he split up with me on the phone three days before my birthday. I was devastated as he was an amazing boyfriend. He said he couldnt picture us living together again as we fought too much ... (222 words)

17 dating 13?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

1 January 2007 (M) age 18-21 - i am a normal male guy who just turned 17 and there is this girl who i have been talking to and we get along really well she says she likes me and i like her but she is 13 nearly 14 is this wrong if so why do i like her?? any help would be nice... (57 words)

Does my Ex still love me and can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 560 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Does me Ex still love me and can I get him back. My ex and I split after a year in MAy 2006. I did not take it well as it was so unexpected and we had only spoken about marriage 7 days before. We argued after we split, but I slept with him on his birthday in August. We a... (255 words)

did i impregnate my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (M) age 18-21 - can somebody help me please. new years eve i was really stupid and had sex with my girfriend and didnt use a condom. however, i didnt ejaculate and i pulled out. i am not really worrying if my girlfriend is pregnant or not. can somebody tell me the chances of her getting ... (63 words)

she had a nice time then left me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (M) - ok people i need help if u dont mind.... i went on a date the other day and the girl said while she was on the date that she was haing a good time rite thats good rite?? and then when she got home she txtd me sayin "hey had a good time last nite but things have changed and ... (92 words)

second base scenario

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

1 January 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 7 months now and we are getting closer than ever. She recently told me that if i wanted we could go to second base. i don't know what to do, i'm only 14 but i love her more than anything. i'm worried about what will happen ... (83 words)

i want him but hes taken

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - Hy, Ive recently become friends witha guy form college and we flirt now and then, I really like him, I think he has a thing for me too. but he's in a relationship. I know I should stop flirting with him in case something happens between us, because I don't want to end up the ... (95 words)

Should me and my bf break up and move on for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - I have been with my bf for nearly two years but in those two years we have argued a lot, we have no trust because he cheated on me, he sometimes scares me when he gets mad. I don't feel like i used to and i want to spend my life with someone nice and someone that would never do ... (158 words)

moving on would literally mean moving!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 570 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 22-25 - Hi, I have recently split up with my boyfriend and am totally gutted. we have been together for a good few years and then he decided he didn't want to be with me anymore. i really thought we would be together forever and i can't believe this has happened. it is really diffic... (213 words)

My husband is against this pregnancy...do I terminate ot take my chance and have the baby and risk that he'll leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 26-29 - I am with my boyfriend of 2 years. He has 3 children from two previous relationships. He has full custody of his 11 year old son and see's his sons full sister every other weekend along with thier half sister. He is a very loving, devoted dad and I have accepted his children ... (408 words)

Should I tell her how I feel again... or just have a good time as friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (M) age 18-21 - First off I apologise if I ramble, but I just need to get it all out, but thanks for taking the time to read this I just finished the first Semester of University and have made lots of friends...but only one who I've really clicked with. I've never met anyone like her. We'r... (339 words)

does this guy fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 570 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 13-15 - I fancy this boy he shows a bit bak but i dont no how do you no... (17 words)

I love him and we split. After continued contact though-I can't get over him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 26-29 - Please can you advise me. I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. I have been in love with him since March, our relationship finished badly in May after him saying he loved me (he just ignored me). Then he got back in contact with me in July, and he explained his ac... (267 words)

My girlfriend, 24, has gone off sex... how can we get it back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (M) age 22-25 - You must get this question alot but my girlfriend is no longer interested in sex. We are both 24 and since having a baby (18 month boy) our sex life has gone down hill and we only have sex on average once a fortnight, what fustrates me is that she really enjoys it when we do it ... (131 words)

I want her back...Do I carry on, and try again in a few months or so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (M) - Hello. I split with my girfriend a couple months ago after a relatively long relationship. For the last 2 and a half months i have still been seeing her and trying to win her back. Sometimes it seemed like i was gettin somewhere and at other times it was like takin a step bac... (268 words)

I tease, I flirt, I get them hot... how can I stop this dangerous game!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - so i have this game that i play to keep myself entertained..let me start off by saying im a sex freak that doesnt have sex. wierd huh? i think about it most of my day, i blatantly check out guys..their face, body, buldge..whatever it is i check it out. and of course the ones ... (210 words)

I tick all the boxes... so why aren't guys interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - im always told how gorgeous and preety i am..all that crap. but ive been single for 2 years now. i just moved to the suburbs from nyc..i hear the guys talk about my looks, but they'll never actually talk to me. ive lived here since the school year started and i think thats ... (186 words)

what he says and does are two completely opposite things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - I recently started seeing a guy from work (which may be my first no-no) and he's asked me out and/or over every night for 2 weeks now. I've explained that I'm not high strung when it comes to my boy's friends or activities and he's expressed multiple times that I'm the only one ... (100 words)

We only have sex once a week he stares at porn the rest of the time!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 566 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - My significant other watches a lot of porn and we have sex about once a week. I want to be with him more. I feel like hes cheating on me because he is fantisizing about other woman. I feel very low and disgusting although I have very men hit on me and tell me I am beautiful ... (69 words)

I really like him but the problem is he is just like family to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - ok i like this guy and i know he kind of likes me back. but the thing is, he is like family to me and i care about our friendship. what should i do?... (34 words)

How do I flirt without looking like I'm showing off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 568 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 10-12 - i like a boy who is a says he's a lady's guy so im never sure if he really likes me. how do i find out? and how do i flirt whit out trying to show off 2 him?... (39 words)

Why are girls who sleep around called sluts, but guys who sleep around called studs? Is this fair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 34 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Why are girls who sleep around called sluts, but guys who sleep around called studs? And why do women enforce this stereotype? I mean when a woman sleeps around she is called a slut and looked down upon by men and women. Men love her because they can use her and women hate h... (161 words)

Our daughter is going through puberty and my husband refuses to hug her..he thinks it's inappropriate. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 568 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - My husband and daughter have always had a close relationship. However now my daughter is 15 now and is going through puberty and growing breasts. I don't know why but my husband has stopped being physically affectionate with her. It really hurts my daughter, as she wishes he... (138 words)

There is so much love and just no trust... can that part be fixed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (M) age 22-25 - I recently just cheated on my fiance. I love my ex fiance very much and i wish there was a way to tell her. I would never cheat on her. I proposed to her because i loved her, without realizing that love was only half of what is involved in a marriage. Its was a drunken one ... (496 words)

She's my fiance, but I think she's actually having an affair with me behind her 'husbands' back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (M) age 51-59 - I feel powerless. I have no control over my life except to say "no". I can stop the things that cause me pain but I fear that solution will only push me further and faster toward the edge of despair. I am at an emotional crossroads, a fork in the road at which I fear taking ... (591 words)

The greatest person I have ever had in my life is gone...how do I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

1 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Hi I really need some help. I have been with my girlfriend for just about 7 years and a couple days before christmas she left me. where do I start.. we met and became friends with benifits rather quickly and years went by. Our relationship was great and she d... (1689 words)

He says he would never cheat but I'm not sure. How can I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 571 days ago

1 January 2007 (F) - My bf said hes been cheated on before. Ive been readin about cheatinonline about signs, and he kind of fits some of the dscription butif i should believe it? Ive checked his emails and phone, it doesnt look like hes cheatin the way he talks to his frens that are girls, but im ... (221 words)