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Dear Cupid,
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During sex, when a guy goes too deep it really hurts. Is this normal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - Does anyone know what if this is normal or not? When i have sex its fine but if they push too hard or especially too deep inside me it really really hurts! i have recently had a full STI/STD screening and everything come back negative....so i dont know...im 18 and only 5.1 ft! ... (70 words

He's showing all the signs of liking me but we're both really shy. Do you think he actually likes me though?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 531 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - Does he like me? He's in the same group of friends as me, so we see each other quite often. He'll often sit next to me or stand near me, or follow me into a different room. He often looks at me from across the room and smiles at me, and when we're in a group laughing about ... (120 words


   

My boyfriend wants us to have sex and I need tips on how to make it good.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 13-15 - hi, i know i'm a bit young but my boyfriend wants me to go back to his house on Friday so we can have sex. I love him but how will I know when i'm ready to.Also some tips on how to make it a good experience would be appriciated. Thank you... (53 words

My boyfriend likes to wear my knickers and play with dildos and vaseline! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - i am in a relationship and i recently discovered my boyfriend wearing my knickers with my dildo in one hand and the vaseline in the other. I thought he would deny it but he asked me to join in by wearing his boxers and helping him. What shall i do? please help.... (52 words

How do I tell her how I feel without scaring her off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age 30-35 - I am a 30 year old man. I have been celibate and have not dated since I caught my fiance in bed with another man seven years ago (which ended our relationship). I have recently reconnected with an old friend from high school. I had a crush on her years ago, and I find those ... (136 words

   

I don't think he's serious about her but am I just being jelous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - help! i recently broke up with my ex we have 2 kids together. he's now living with someone who already has 3 kids, my daughter does not like going there to visit, my son has no issues. i on the other hand don't like her, he came over on the weekend and we slept together. i ... (89 words

She has no pictures of my kids up in the house! Do I have reason to be upset by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I have been dating a woman for 16 months and we just got into an argument over a bulletin board that she has in the kitchen. The bulletin board has every one of her friends and families kids pictures on it, but not mine! I feel hurt that the woman that says she wants to... (133 words

I really want to date this guy and would like for us to be more than we are. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - I am in high school. I like this guy. I have heard great things about him. He loves sports like me, he is nice and that we would be good together. The thing is we aren't friends with the same goups of people. Wednesday is the last class together before we switch to a different ... (156 words

He's scared to play wrestle with me because he accidently hurt me. I miss the fun-how can I convince him it's ok?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - While wrestling about two and a half weeks ago, my boyfriend (not liking to use his own hands to 'hit' me), grabbed my wrists and started causing me to lightly slap myself in the face. It was one of those teasing 'quit hittin' yourself!' things and it was fun. We rough-house ... (266 words

Is having too much sex unhealthy for a girl's body?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - how many times in a week or a day should u have sex?..and is havin too much sex unhealthy for a girl's body?... need some answer!!..tnx!!... (27 words

I'm 14 and looking for advice about orgasms! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 531 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 13-15 - I Am 14 and am in a very good strong relationship and we are now having sex. it seems good but it always seems like hes getting alot more fun out of it than me, i dont even think i have orgasms...can you suggest ways in which we could both reach orgasm and not just him? And ... (114 words

I feel bad! Should I have kissed a guy when he has a girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 530 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 13-15 - should i have kissed a guy when he has a girlfriend??? He likes me and i like him n he doesnt like his gf anymore and we kissed :S im confuseed n i feel bad!! xxxx Some Advice Would Be Helpful Thanks!!! XxX... (47 words

I like watching lesbian porn, does this mean I am bi sexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 13-15 - i have a boyfriend but i like to watch lesbians kissing and naked girls and i find some of my friends and even girls i walk by very attractive...does this mean i am bisexual? please help me im a confused 14 year old girl! x... (45 words

My friend tells my secrets so I stopped sharing them w/ her. Now she's angry about it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 13-15 - Well I have a bit of friend trouble!! I've got a friend called "Mary" and i cant trust her!! If I have a secret or something thta I dont want anyone to know and I tell her and tell her not to tell anyone! The first thing she does after is tell everyone! XXX she is one of my ... (104 words

My mom and I are taking care of my depressed bf. I'm sick of his baggage and want to move. What should I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 531 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - Sorry this is soo long.....But you need the details. I met my boyfriend online in August of 2005. He moved from Baton Rouge, Louisiana to live with me in Maryland in March 2006. (He was living with his mom and hated it.) He has a degree in criminal Justice but currently wo... (613 words

Girls aren't attracted to my friend b/c of his beard - he has it for religious reasons. What advice can I give him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age 18-21 - im asking on behalf of a mate simply cos i dunno the answer to his problem. he is an 18 year old male with a beard. he believes he cannot attract gals simply cos of the beard. he doesnt want to shave the beard off cos its against his religious beliefs. its not even that bi... (144 words

I feel she's too young to have as a gf - how do I handle this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 516 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - 16 year old in love with me? I'm 26! Hi, I need help on one particular and delicate issue. I'm 26 years old. A girl of 16 seems to have fallen in love with me - These feelings are cannot be reciprocated since I am 26. An age gap of 10 years would be hard to explai... (348 words

I still like him but he ignores me now..how do I cope with these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - hiya i was just wondering what to do when you are in love with somebody and they used to like you but now they dont. you see ive been in love for about 2 years and he used to like me but now he doesnt beacuse so many people at the moment like him and i no i dont stand a chance ... (145 words

Somedays I am so edgy and cranky! Am I hormonal or what's really wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I’m having a serious problem and an even harder time getting people to believe that it’s for real. Whenever I’m having a bad hair day, I become really irritable. I’m edgy, cranky, and I get extreme mood swings. It’s almost like being hormonal. My boyfriend doesn’... (112 words

My uncle is touching me inappropriately and offering me money! What should I do?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 498 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - Hello. My uncle has been touching me up around the chest area and i don't know what to do. He also keeps texting and asking to see me and offering me money. My Ex-Boyfriend has given me a few choices as follows. - Tell police. - Tell parents. (no f**kin way). It w... (103 words

Ashamed of my sexual past and he insists on knowing it all! Plus he calls me ugly names! What should I do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 479 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - OBSESSION ABOUT SEXUAL PAST? I became involved with a married man 7 years ago. He was divorced in summer ‘06; separated in spring ‘05. 5 1/2 years of the 7 years was long-distance and he often sent mixed signals (duh, he was married.) The adultery part is something neithe... (948 words

My Mother called me a 'waste of space ' and a 'failure'! What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age 16-17 - I am fed up at home. I am 16 so take my GCSE's in the summer and have just done my mocks. The problem is that my mum's expectations for me are huge. apparently I have always been very bright etc. but I am under a lot of pressure with my gcse's. for example the first two ... (273 words

I'm not gay and I date a female, so have I developed feelings for my male teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 531 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age 16-17 - I am a 16 year old student at an all boys school. But I have developed feelings for one of my male teachers and don't know what to do. I have had these feelings for him for coming up to 2 years now. They started off as just thoughts and now I keep thinking about him. ... (187 words

How do I kiss him with an open mouth and tongues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 16-17 - This is VERY EMBARRASSING!!! Don't laugh at me :D lol OK My boyfriend and i recently started kissing, and i want to start getting off with him (open mouthed, tongues) How do you actually do this?... (47 words

After not seeing me for a while, my ld gf told me she doesn't feel the same. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age 18-21 - What do I do? Im involved with this girl over a long distance relationship. We've never been togther at the same place for more then a week at a time but its now a year and 3 months and I never thought things were better. But after a painful 6 week christmas apart w... (196 words

After trying to get back the spark, I still feel something lacking in our marriage. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - Is it possible to fall out of love with someone after 20 years of marriage? My husband and I married quite young (19 yrs.old) we have no children, though I've always wanted a family -- he did not. I think I knew after within the first 5 years of marriage that he did not ... (297 words

How do I turn this friendship into a relationship with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - my crush lives down the street from me. when im with him im always smiling and i tend to always have a fun time. i feel that he likes me because i gave him a small note a month ago and found it still on his desk in his room. certain things make me feel like he has feelings for ... (136 words

Our relationship was amazing for ages and I still love him - how do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - How, how, how can i get my boyfriend back? he broke up with me back before christmas - first called a break as he was upset and unsure whether we could have a future together. He had always thought we would, recently had had doubts, and then concluded if we got married etc ... (322 words

I feel like I'm not big enough - while we were at a party, my gf blurted out that I have a small penis and she fakes orgasms!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age 22-25 - Ok, this is my first time posting, i have been strugling with a issue for a while now, a while back i dated this girl for about 2 years sex was great...so i thought. during the relationship shes at her frinds house at a small party and anounces private info to everone in ear ... (219 words

How can I stop biting my lips, fingers and insides of my cheeks?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - I have a really big problem with biting my lips, the skin around my fingers, the inside of my cheek. I am usually making it bleed or hurt really bad. Does anyone have any idea why I do this all the time, even without noticing? And how can I stop? ... (50 words

I think my lesbian sister is pregnant w/ our cousin's baby. Should I tell my family?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - help! i dont know what to do. my sister is a lesbian or so she says as she has slept with men on occasions when she has been drunk. the thing is i am at my wits end she is 9 weeks pregnant and wont say who the father is but i have worked out that the baby was conceived on a ... (181 words

My bf says Dear Cupid has messed w/ my head and given me ideas. But I'm just watching out for myself!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - My boyfriend thinks that this site messes with my head, gives me ideas, etc. He thinks because I get on here and read these questions and try and give help, that I get ideas from what I read and that's why I'm suspicious about certain things that he does. All I say is that, ... (126 words

She frequently calls another guy between 2 - 4am - should I demand an explanation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - Ok, this is a followup to something I wrote previously. But, it looks to still be an issue. So, I'd like some opinions on what to do. I had previously written that I noticed some weird calls on my girlfriend's phone. These usually were at 2-4am in the morning -- right... (258 words

Will having a lot of sex make me loose down there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - Hi, you might think i sound too young but I was really wondering if having a lot of sex makes a girl loose down there, and less fun for the guy? Would having sex about 3 times a week with the same guy become boring for him? or loosen the vaginal muscles?? thank you!!!... (54 words

Another guy walked in on us having sex and joined in. I told him to leave and he wouldn't! Is this rape?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - Ok. i have been thinking. I went to a bar a while ago and eneded up going home with a guy i knew of from high school. well we were having sex and another guy popped in and began messing with me as well. I didnt want this other guy there at all. but he sorta just stayed as much ... (112 words

He moved back in w/ his ex, so I won't let him see the baby b/c I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - Im in a real fix. I have a 5 month old baby, and the dad has left me and moved back to his ex girlfriends house. When the baby was born we got on well, (although we never lived together - he said he was happy sharing a flat with a friend) but he stayed away too often "drinking ... (412 words

I'm in a loving relationship - so why am I depressed about us??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - Please help. I am 21 and have been seeing a guy who is 19 for 4 months now and he is amazing. We love eachother so much - we say the same things at the same time and laugh at the same things. The sex is amazing and he constantly tells me how he can't believe we found eachothe... (299 words

My g/f is ignoring me and changed her myspace profile to private! Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age 18-21 - Why is she ignoring me? I posted a similar question up a little while ago about my girlfriend not replying to texts. Now it seems to have gotten worse! I texted her on Tuesday and got replies. I then texted on Wednesday but got no reply. I then texted last night (Sunday) ... (145 words

He said he sees a future w/ me, but hasn't said he loves me. I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - ive been with my boyfriend for over a year, he told me that he thinks we have got a future together but hasnt told me that he loves me. Im now confused at what he's feeling because he doesnt tell me anymore.... (43 words

I feel like our relationship is going to end. She's even emailed her ex about getting together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - I'm in a relationship with the woman of my dreams and I feel like its going to end any day now. We have been seeing each other for about 8 months now and have been living together for 6 months. I think/thought that she would be the one!, but now all it seems she does is find ... (231 words

He doesn't answer his phone and makes up excuses as to why he's late. Is it b/c he's older?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 530 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - hi im 18 my boyfriend is 25.i love him and we get on really well.but he lets me down alot if he goes out he doesnt answer hes phone to me and makes up an excuse why he was late. hes not very romantic either do u think its because he is alot older than me.... (56 words

I confessed to my friend that I kissed her stepdad. She hasn't brought it up since - should I ask her if we're still going on holiday together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 16-17 - Right this is a long story but here goes... I am 16 and i have been really naughty. On new years eve i snogged a mates stepdad (he 25 her mum 32), then the following saturday i slept wiv him. On new year eve a friend saw us kissing and thretened to tell my friend so i was scar... (141 words

He emails his old school friend, pics of him in underwear! Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - Am I deceiving myself or could this really work? I must admit, in the past few weeks that my boyfriend and I have been dating, I've taken up snooping on him. I know it's wrong, but, for some reason, I've felt I've had to. I've discovered that he's been corresponding with a ... (278 words

I love him like a brother, not a partner! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - hi, i split up with my partner of 10 years 6 months ago in that time we both have had another relationship. but 2 months ago i thought i had made a terrible mistake and asked him to come back. i dont want to break his heart again but i feel as though i only love him as a ... (61 words

His porn usage makes me feel insecure! How do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 524 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - im a very open minded but i just wonder if any one can suggest how i can tell my bf that his porn internet surfing makes me feel insecure. I look at porn and we watch it together but when i find out he's been looking i worry he will realise there is better than me out there. ... (59 words

My boyfriend has changed for the worse. Please help me I'm so confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - dear cupid, i had this hard time with my boyfriend for 7 months and as time goes by, he changes. like he used to call me and send me text messages almost everyday, but now he just sends me messages twice a day and gets angry when i send him messages asking how he i... (140 words

My husband and I enjoy sexual experimenting. We are thinking of having a threesome. What's your opinion on this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 5 years and to spice things up we watch other couples on internet having sex and let them watch us. We are thinking about taking this to a next level and maybe doing wife swapping or maybe a three some, we have strong relationship and... (80 words

I have a fairly healthy diet but for some reason I have put on weight. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - I have recently put on weight and surpassed a point on the scales i have never been at before. But I am unsure as to why I have put on weight. I have not changed my eating habbits and I eat fairly healthily without starving myself which i know causes the body to store fat. I go ... (118 words

During sex I enjoy being urinated on. Am I strange?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a girl in my twenties and I get very aroused when a guy urinates on me. I've seen it in porn and find it quite arousing. My boyfriend and I have tried it once and I enjoyed it very much. Am I strange? Can anyone else relate to this? Is anyone out there into this as ... (62 words

I really like this girl and I want to call her but I don't know what to say. Help me out please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age 18-21 - i met this girl at a concert the other night, and i really like her, and i'm pretty sure she likes me too because she grabbed my hand when she was not by me and pulled me to her. and i do not know what to do, i'm bad with girls and plus she lives like an hour away, i want to ... (83 words

Should I get back with my handsome ex...even though I don't trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - My ex sent me a photo in underwear, he's really good looking and wants me back but he was so beasty to me in the past... he wanted sex from the first day and I refused so he told me he had just asked to check if I was a slut and then kept on asking me for sex every day and ... (316 words

My husband wants us to live with his parents but I don't really want to. I need your help..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - i have been married for over a year now and my husband and i are renting a place as we cannot afford to buy a house just yet. the problem is my husband wants us to buy a house together with his parents, but of course them living in the main house, and we would move into the ... (140 words

What did I do wrong? Why has he done this? I feel like my heart has been ripped out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - i've been going out with this guy for less than a month, but we spent so much time together. Just last night we went to a friends together and he was hugging me and everything. today i messaged him asking how his day was and he didn't reply. that was strange for him. Later he ... (144 words

This guy seems to like me but I'm super shy! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - please help! i am 18 years old and a few nights ago my friend set me up with a friend of hers from her work to go on a date, and we went out with her and her boyfriend as well. i had fun and i really like him and he seems really nice. however we didn't get to talk much because ... (340 words

How long should foreplay last?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - how long should forplay last for?... (6 words

My gf seems to have had a more exciting life than me. Maybe I'm jeleous but I don't know if we'll work long term. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age 18-21 - Hey everyone, I've just started going out with a girl that has had a much more "Exciting" life in the past compared to me. She's had so much more sex partners (i've only had sex with one previous girlfriend whereas she has had loads of one night stands). She's been on loads of ... (215 words

He's seems really interested in her, but he denies it! Should I break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - I think my boyfriend is interested in this girl. I have seen on his computer that he searched for her information, and i asked him why. He told me that he just wanted to know what kind of volunteer or fund raising that she did. But I don't think he would be really interested in ... (245 words

I give my bf sex when he's in the mood but when I'm in the mood I get nothing. I'm tired of his excuses! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have a good relationship....apart from the sex. When we are having it it is fine but its only when he's in the mood. The relationship has always been like this and we can go for weeks without having sex at all. If I try to make the first move during these ... (145 words

My wife has told me she has had enough and refuses to communicate with me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age - I am a young 86 year old in second marriage with splendid Christian service to a lady 14 years younger who has been splendid. I had a blood clot heart attack in March 2005 and have been looked after wonderfully. Also as a war disabled veteran extra care has occasionally been ... (286 words

I feel resentment. But should I let it go and walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - The floor fell out from under my feet when after two years of what I thought was a good relationship my boyfriend told me that he was seeing my close girlfriend ( I believe he put it as a “midlife” crisis). It suddenly made sense why she had been asking me so many questions ... (563 words

Our sex life is great, but I don't seem to get wet enough. What can be done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - Me and my bf have a great sex life and i always feel real turned on but i never seem to get wet enough Sometimes I feel like im coming and end up peeing a lil Its so embarasing Does anyone have any ideas I feel a bit silly going with a tube of lube i my hand What will he thi... (65 words

Have we been going out long enough to say I love you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - hi I was wondering if anyone else has ever felt the way that i do at the moment I have a fab bf who I have been with for 7 months I see him quite a lot but when i leave him i ache for him again I saw him last night and ill see him tonight but i just wanna be with him aga... (198 words

Is there hope for us or do you think she's trying to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (M - my ex girlfriend as met someone new. on saturday i told my ex " i can't have what i want because what i want is you " and she told me she loves me more than anything and doesn't wanna r-ship with anyone. on saturday night she went out with a friend. came to my house at... (872 words

How can I prevent myself from obsessing over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 534 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi Guys Im in such a dilemma. I broke up with my ex, because he is getting married to the woman he made pregnant. When we dated he told me she was an ex, but later found out she was pregnant by his baby. The problem now is that I cant seem to get over him. I have been trying... (408 words

How can 2 people with such goodness together have such a geographical problem and get through it to be together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am a divorcee of 3 years now and just turned 50 this year. I met and have been seeing and much in love with a new significant for 8 months now. I live in NW Arkansas and he lives in S. Missouri. We are 96 miles apart but are weekend warriors to see each other except in bad ... (217 words

I have cheated on my wife numerous times, because she doesn't take care of my needs. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 530 days ago

22 January 2007 (M age 30-35 - I have been married for 5+ years and have a 3 year old and one on the way. My problem is my wife is not as excited about sex as I am and I have cheated on her numerous times. I have not had sex with another person since the summer but I have had oral sex given to me multiple ... (143 words

Should I start on the pill in case we do end up having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - I guess I have a bit of an odd, and to some, perverted question. In a month and a half I will see a friend with whom I had a fling during the summer. I have never had actual sexual intercourse but I have both given and received oral sex. Should I start on the pill in case we do ... (128 words

Just engaged and now he's planning a for an extended holiday with buddies. Im' hurt! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 534 days ago

22 January 2007 (F - I just got engaged last month, and I always knew that my fiance was planning on going to Florida with his friends in the month of March, but now it is extended to Feb. also because he's buying a golf cart to drive around. I'm coming to visit him on my spring break for a week in ... (128 words

How do I communcate with a boy I really like? He calls me but I just dont know what to say I need help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 533 days ago

22 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - How do I communcate with a boy I really like? He calls me but I just dont know what to say I need help!... (24 words

What are the signs that my gf is cheating on me?

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22 January 2007 (M age 18-21 - i need help to find out if my g/f is cheating on me people are telling me she is all i say is i need pic proof or something well i dont want to wait know more i want to know the true now i need to know becasue im about to give her a ring plzzz help me tell me signs.... (62 words

I love sex but he doesn't satisfy me. What should I do?

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22 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - I really like him and sex plays a big role in my book but he's not very satifying. What do I do???... (22 words

Sexually, I don't get wet with my boyfriend like I did with my lover. What do I do?

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22 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. I love him and want to be with him the rest of my life. He's still in Law School and I found a job in another city 7 hours away. We don't see each other much because of the distance, expenses to travel back and forth, and ... (333 words

My boyfriend can't turn me on as much as my 'lover' did. What can I do about this?

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22 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. I love him and want to be with him the rest of my life. He's still in Law School and I found a job in another city 7 hours away. We don't see each other much because of the distance, expenses to travel back and forth, and ... (333 words

Should I ask him if he wants to move in with me?

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22 January 2007 (F - ive been with my bf for 3years now and im thinking about asking him if he wants to move in together, the problem is he is in the army and is rarely home. i have never lived on my own. what is your opinion on this?... (46 words

My husband of 10years doens't want sex anymore. What can I do?

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22 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 20yrs married for 10 havent had sex for 6yrs when i question my husband he says there is nothing wrong, he won't see a marriage guidance counceler and i'm at my wits end. what do i do?... (44 words

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