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I care for her and she called me to her aid, when her bf hurt her. Should I read anything into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend came to me 3 months ago and said that we needed to go on a break but that she still loved me and definitely wanted to get back together with me fairly soon. While this obviously upset me i still comforted in the thought that she would get back together with me. ... (331 words

She met an older guy online and now she's got a one-way ticket to Russia, for Thursday! I am scared for..what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - Okay, I am at my wit's end here. Please please help! I am 18 years old and my best friend (let's call her "Laura") is making a huge mistake. Laura is 19 and I've known her my entire life. She's never done anything remotely rebellious or out of the norm. She's your typical ... (483 words

I need tips on dating this girl I like. Help me out here!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (? - thanks alot guys for all the help. i'm askin about how i can ask this girl to go out somewhere with me so i can get to know her more as i like her. i know how to ask her, but i dont know how to use something as an excuse. if i ask her straight wanna go cinema, or wanna go ... (103 words

Should I tell my Mom that Dad looks at porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hi, I'm 13 years old and about three days ago i was searching through my parent's computer's search history. To my horror, I found that my father had been looking at porn. I went to google desktop to find that he had been looking at it since Aug of 2005 (and probably before ... (99 words

He gets off on porn so why can't he get off on me? What's going on with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for years now..hes always liked to watch pornos,which I'm OK with..i just don't enjoy them myself. So lately we've been having sex only once in about a month or month and a half..Ive tried everything to excite him and get him going but he always has ... (105 words

What do hockey players (guys) look for in girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - This is a weird question, i know, my friend has a crush on a hockey player and was too chicken to ask... :P What do hockey players look for in girls? i know that not all guys have the same taste, yada yada, but most hockey players tend to be alot alike and i'd just like ... (139 words

Besotted with this other woman because of boredom in my marriage! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - Hi. I am in a bit of a muddle - not sure whether it is fate or love... I am 21 and have been married for 1 year and been with my wife for 6. She was the first love of my life, and I seriously have never taken my eyes off her! However, a girl at our dance class (mates w... (245 words

How do I get over a guy who is dating my friend? Any advice is appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

23 January 2007 (? age 22-25 - Dear Anyone, I really need help. I've been in love with this guy for almost 5 months now, he fills every thought I have... 2 months or so ago, I told him this (after a failed attempt at explaining how I felt) and he said he like me as a mate. since then he has began seeing my ... (213 words

She's older and more experienced! We've kissed so what can I expect next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 22-25 - hello, my problem is I dont know what to do in my relationship next. I love my girlfriend much and we have been going out for about a month. She is older than me and is a bit more experienced,as i have never had a proper girlfriend before. we have kissed and french kissed but ... (63 words

He doesn't trust me yet he wants a threesome! I feel like he doesn't wwant me..what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - Well,i've had this boyfriend for 6 months,and it's been crazy the whole time.he always accuses me of cheating on him and i never have.he always tells me he doesnt trust me,and it bothers me because a relationship is built on trust. my main problem is that he wants to spice up ... (81 words

My family is angry and hates me! What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1428 days ago

23 January 2007 (F - well here i go! sorry if it is long i have to get alot off my chest.... im 17 years old! everything in my life is going wrong at the moment. Everything i seem to do makes my mum and stepdad angry. My mum will ask me to do one thing and when i do it she has a go at me saying ... (563 words

Is it normal to have a late period after taking a morning after pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - Whats going on? I had unprotected sex last month and i took the morning after pill, but i think my period is a few days late... I dont understand, is this normal?... (34 words

I don't wanna embarrass myself by asking him out, so how do I know he won't laugh and say no?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

23 January 2007 (F - Ive started in a new school, i like a lad, but I've just found out hes my best mates cousin in my old school, and everyone in my new school think hes a dick, i don't wanna embarrass myself by asking him out, how do i know he wont laugh?? and say no?? x-sid-x... (54 words

Guys I like never like me back, they always take a liking to someone else! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - why does it seem like every time i like a guy he likes my closest friend?? it happens to me all the time and i really do hate it. i am not ugly i have a nice and slim body but everytime i like someone he likes the girl NEXT to me..and then guys i dont like, like me and they are... (132 words

Can anyone convince me and tell me why councelling is beneficial?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - I'm clinically depressed and my doctor is suggesting I try having councelling (I'm on prozac but it's not helping). I'm pretty sceptical about it; talking to a complete stranger about my private life isn't my idea of fun, and I really don't see how it can help me. I also feel ... (111 words

Has anyone ever had an out of body experience?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - i know this has nothing to do with love..but Has anyone had an out of the body expierenced??... (18 words

My friend who is only 17 is hell bent on having a child! But I think she's too young. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

23 January 2007 (F - well this is about my friend, i'm not quite sure what to do. She turned 17 in october. She is in a long term relationship and she recently told me her and her partner had fallen out.They are still together though I asked her why and she said because she wants a child and he ... (116 words

My bf resents that I talk to a good male friend. What should I d0 about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

23 January 2007 (F - Ok, so my boyfriend and I are studying away from home (in Canada). We live together too. He goes home every 4 months and spends time with his family and friends and has a total blast, partying and all that! I go home every 4 months too, but since my parents and brother moved to ... (547 words

My boyfriend (who I love) has told me he'll be away for 2 months. Then he said it's up to me if I want to move on! I don't want o break up with him though! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - okay...i havn't see my bf ever since the 5th of this month. which is okay but i got a call from him 2 days ago saying that he has to stay at Browwsoo (its like 10 hours away from where i live) for another 1 or 2 months. usually we talk on the phone every single day and he told ... (161 words

My girlfriend is such a hottie. But when other guys show her attention I get jelous. Should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 22-25 - hello, my problem is i have a really nice girllfriend whos a bit older than me, and she gets a lot of attention from other blokes and it gets me kinda jelous/angry. we both go to school and i get innapropriate comments, and so does she, even though they know we both go out. i ... (98 words

I really want to experience some girl on girl action, but my boyfriend doesn't want to take part. Should I cheat on him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - Ok..i feel embarassed to be asking advice online so its a good think u don't know who a I am lol.. anyways.. so i am 20 something and I'm straight in a healthy commited relationship. I have no complaints about our sex life.. but here i am fantasizing about having lesbian sex..i ... (213 words

How do I get over her but remain friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2620 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 22-25 - hey guys thanks for the help so far. you guys are amazing. in my current situation, i was with a girl for almost 2 years. if we werent hanging out, we were talking (24/7). however we were never "official" bf/gf. i was the one always saying were just friends and she would always ... (434 words

My mate secretly asked out my ex! I'm a bit angry and upset about this. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2637 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - i went out with this lad but i didn't like him like him so i dumped him after 3 days. But while i went out with this lad i fancied another. he's perfect and we are really good mates but i don't wanna ruin that. Recenly my mate asked my ex out for me and i didn't know about it ... (79 words

My boyfriend has been "disappearing"... Once a cheater always a cheater?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

23 January 2007 (F - Dear Cupid I am 22 and I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years he has a history of cheating he said that for the past 3 years he has'nt cheated on me anymore things have been good but for the past few weeks he began disappearing for long hours and sometimes he tells me were... (170 words

I've moved into the big city with my boyfriend, he loves it here but I really miss my family! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2640 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - So i've been with my guy for years..we met in my home town where i grew up.When i graduated the two of us moved 5hrs away from there to the 'big city'. We both decided it wasn't for us but instead of moving back to my hometown we agreed to move to his to be with his family.I ... (203 words

Mum confronted me about having an EATING DISORDER! I feel so low what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F - Today my mum confronted me, rather acused me, of having an ED (eating disorder) she heard be being sick yesterday. I am weight concious and i suppose to an extent i have an ED. Some days i try not to eat and others i binge then throw up (but i dont throw up alot, just every ... (131 words

Does he fancy me or just see me as a friend he can talk to?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

23 January 2007 (F - Male answers please. I have had very strong feelings for a man for over 2 years and he is one of the managers. From the start we had a very special kind of rapport but we both have other relationships issues to resolve and we are not having an affair. We are both in very res... (360 words

Why doesn't a guy call when you give him your number?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2203 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - This question has probably been asked so many times... but if you meet a guy at a party, and he spends the whole evening talking to you, seems really into you, gets your number and tells you hes going to call you... WHY DOESN'T HE?! It's been 3 days- does this mean he just ... (66 words

I'm 13 and this guy wants me to give him a blowjob. I agreed to this because I'm in love with him. What shall I do now?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 1124 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hey, I really like this boy and he really likes me, He asked me to give him a blowjob next weekend and I said yes, he wants to do more than that and i said maybe. I love him sooo much and he said he really likes me but hes got a girlfriend. What shall I do?? I cant forget ... (75 words

Worried that other people think he's "sick and twisted" because of our age-gap!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - Hello, My name is Chelsea and I am 18 years old. I've recently become involved with one of my good friends named Matt. Matt is 9 years older than me, so he is 27. We've been friends since I was 17 and now we're dating. Matt and I are really good together...we have common i... (299 words

Why did he change in just 2 weeks? And why is he choosing the slutty girls over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2640 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - Ok, I'm 17 and i really liked this guy who used to be one of my best friends. All the signs were that he liked me back (well, not so much signs, he told me) but I went on holiday for a week and when I came back everything had changed! He told me he just wanted to be friends, ... (162 words

Boyfriend just doesn't seem the same as he used to. Any insights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - I'm a little confused now-a-days. February will be four years with my boyfriend. For the first 2.5 years of our relationship, it was bliss. He was sweet, kind, caring, cuddly, romantic and always there for me reguardless of how stupid the problem might have seemed. He was ... (368 words

Desperate for a boyfriend... but what would I do or say on a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F - I really want a boyfriend...I find it hard to get one at school and never really meet any guys when I'm out with the girls...a guy that i met on myspace has asked me to meet him and I want to because I think it may be one of the few chances I have...problem is, I'm really shy ... (88 words

I fancy a girl at school but FEAR being laughed at if I ask her out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2355 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 18-21 - I really fancy a girl at my school, but I just know what to do! I can't ask her out for fear of being teased or laughed at but I really, really like her. I am 14, by the way. Please help!... (42 words

She dumped me yet owes me £30,000!!! How could she do it knowing she won't be able to pay her bills now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 51-59 - just before xmas my partner of 7 years dumped me,ever since i have known her she has struggled for money,her dad died 4 years ago and this had a devastating effect on her,her spending since then has spirraled out of control she now owes £30000 wiyh no way of paying it back,i ... (102 words

I'm 15 and have a mad crush on my Business Studies teacher! Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - How do i stop feeling so much love for my teacher? i'm nearly 15 and have such a crush on my business studies teacher who's about 24. he's amazing and every lessson i have with him i just love him more and more even though i keep trying not to. its making life so difficult and ... (65 words

I never used to like porn but now I think it's ok. Should I tell my boyfriend about my change of heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok so i've been with my bf for almost 10 yrs. when we met i was just 16. I have always been against porno where on the other hand he likes it. We used to get into fights about him watching it because it made me feel inadequete.Although i told him i know its normal, its just not ... (161 words

Open condom packet!!! He says he hasn't cheated. I believe him but... I've been cheated on before!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2581 days ago

23 January 2007 (F - I recently found an open box of condoms in my boyfriend's nightstand draw. We haven't used any condoms since the beginning of last year. I've been in that draw numerous times before but never saw them before until now. None were missing and when I confronted him about this, ... (158 words

Perfect bf but slept with someone else and I fancy his mate! Have fun or stick with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - I am 18 years old and i have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 11 months now. He is my first love. Everything has been perfect but recently i am getting other feelings. I wasn't a virgin when i met him but i am finding it difficut to continue the relationship as it ... (227 words

I think my friend has mental problems!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1886 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - Dear Everyone, i have a friend who is going to get engaged but i dont think he is mentally stable to do that. first of all he says he is agnostic then he says he is spirtual but not religous. i dont know does he really know what he is saying. and the worst thing he s... (106 words

I can't cope through this breakup!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2192 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - I feel so stupid posting on here. But, I am so distraught. I know that no one can really say one thing to make me feel better but I need a helping hand. I am going to see a counselor, too. But, I am falling. I had a break up a couple of months ago. I am not doing well at ... (170 words

Met this girl - scared to ask her out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (? - right my final question! just briefly: i've met this girl i like once before. since than she's asked for my msn and just now mobile number. i want to get to know her more and go somewhere as friends, dont wanna scare her off but accordin to her i'm special and make her laugh, ... (107 words

I'm not gay but... I have feelings for my teacher!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1299 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 22-25 - I am a 16 year old male at school and realised that I have feelings for one of my male teachers and have done pretty much since he started teaching me in september 2005. It's strange because im not gay, in fact I have very normal feelings towards girls etc. but he seems to be ... (267 words

Love each other no matter what.... BUT I'm tempted to CHEAT!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for 9yrs.We have a normal relationship,we love eachother no matter what and definatly want to be together forever. What he dosnt know is that ive been tempted to cheat on him!Im not looking for a new relationship in any way im simply physically attracted ... (112 words

One of my best friends has such mood swings! I'm sick of it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F - Me and my two best friends have been that way for ages. We do everything together, and have the best time. However, recently, one of them, lets call her Tina, has been annoying both me and my other friend, she has a fiery personality, and you can easily get on the wrong si... (150 words

He's taken to watching porn, but says its my fault as I cant have sex at the moment!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - now it is worse! I have gone broadband after my bloke convincing me it would be faster for me on ebay etc, I did this on the 12th jan. all good, but on 18th i go out for my daughters 11th birthday to find he has been using it for big boobs porn and over 20 links in the history! ... (338 words

Dating two girls but I'm concerned, one of them is dating another guy now! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 22-25 - The thing is am in college.. am going out with two girls.. both girls are nice to me.. and one girl most of the time talks about sex while other girl is quiet.. she talks me about why she likes me and tell her friends I'm a good friend of her.. but now a days the other girl ... (82 words

He wants to date my best friend but still wants me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - I feel my boyfriend wants to go out with my best friend but still wants to keep me... (18 words

We're in a nasty cycle of verbal abuse and fighting! How do we stop this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - ive been living with my boyfriend for 8yrs.As any normal couple does we fight over everyday things. the only problem is lately when we fight it turns into nasty name calling and somtimes it turns physical on both sides. Weve been calling names so often that were accustom to it ... (115 words

I paid her debts and helped her get back on her feet..then she dumps me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 41-50 - 2 years ago I met this girl who was living with another woman and her 2 children. we fell in love and she split with the woman. we got engaged a few months later. she fell pregnant and had baby. i paid off her debt, bills, fixed her house, bought furniture, electrical gear. ... (144 words

How do I show my moody boyfriend that I really love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - for the last few days my boyfriend has been causing arguements with me or just getting the face on for no reason which is making me feel worthless i want to show him how much i love him and to show him that he is the one i want please help!!... (51 words

I want to be with her long term but I don't think she's sure about us yet. How do I give her the space she needs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 30-35 - My "girlfriend" and I have issues. Things couldn't be better when we are just hanging out and not discussing our situation. We are very honest and open with each other. The problem seems to be that we are approaching this relationship from opposite ends of the spectrum. I am ... (214 words

My boyfriend's mom doesn't like me. She makes me feel so unwelcome. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2302 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - my boyfriend and i are very much in love but his mum keeps interferring, she wont even let him come round mine anymore, i know his mum doesnt like me and makes me feel very unwelcomed but my boyfriend is old enough to make his own decisions and she is really putting a strain on ... (104 words

I feel inadequate after seeing a photograph of my boyfriend's ex. But am I just being silly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - I've been in a reltionship with my boyfriend for 4 months. We love each other very much, and I am completely open with him. His last relationship was with a girl that lasted 2 years, and they were engaged. He told me he broke up with her because he didn't see her for two months ... (115 words

I think my girlfreind is going to dump me after valentines day! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 30-35 - It all started when my girlfriend started texting my mate telling him that she's dumped me and fancies him. And she asked him if he would go out with her. Now I think she fancies him and her mates told me that she's going to dump me after Valentine's day. What should I do? ... (57 words

Is my relationship here ...going anywhere or should I call it a day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2620 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - My situation is a complicated one. I have been dating a wonderful man for just over 2 years. I am 30 yrs. old and he's 29. I have 2 beautiful daughters from a previous relationship ages 10 and 11. My boyfriend has always wanted to be a commercial pilot. The cheapest way to ... (570 words

Do you think it's ok for an 18 year old guy to date a 16 year old girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 22-25 - Hi everyone. I've been talking to a girl online for about 2 years now and we get on really well. I was thinking of asking her to be my valentine this year. The age thing gets to me though for some reason and I would really like to know your opinions. She's 16 and I'm 18, I know ... (81 words

I'm 31 and still a virgin. My boyfriend wants us to have sex but I'm scared! Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2630 days ago

23 January 2007 (F - Hi guys and gals, please help me! i've been dating my boyfriend for about 9 months. I'm 31 and still a virgin he's 28 and slept with 27 girls. 3 of them long term, and has an 8 year old from his first serious relationship. He knows i've never had sex and doesn't pressure me, ... (205 words

Should I leave my boyfriend and get back with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - Help! I went out with my ex for about 3 years. We split up the year before last and he started going out with someone else-although that finshed because he said he couldn't stop thinking of me. We drifted back together-but the relationship was strained because he was still ... (253 words

Should I leave my wife for a friend I met years ago when I was at uni?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2624 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 41-50 - I am 33 years old, married for 5 years and have a 5 month old daughter. When I was in Uni, 13 years ago, prior to meeting my wife, I fell in love with a girl that I was in my same class. On the occasion we did flirt, cuddle, kiss etc, but no more than that. She is Asian and at ... (501 words

I really like this guy but I don't know if he's single. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - Since rodeo season is over i had to find another sport to keep me occupied until the summer... it ended up being hockey. I went to a few games, but since i can't drive (yet :P) i couldn't go to a whole lot. But i went to one last night and saw the most AMAZING guy... (he was ... (213 words

Can an abusive person be made to leave our home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - If you purchase a home with someone and that person is abusive can he be made to leave?... (18 words

I can't bear to be apart from my bf! Not even for one night! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F - Hi. Does anyone have any advice on how to get over my problem? I have a great boyfriend, i see him often but we started out long distance. Now i'm going to see him tonight but I won't see him the next day. I know this doesn't seem like a big deal but that one day without seeing ... (180 words

I've been sleeping with my guy friend for a while but now I'm falling for him. He says he is too but then nothing has changed between us.I don't know what to do. Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - here is a little back ground: I have been sleeping with a very good guy friend for almost a year now. at first it was something that happend when we were drunk! every once in a while and i didn't think much of it. and was like well he is a friend that is it. but months later i ... (213 words

He's off to a motor bike rally and doesn't want me with him! Should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

23 January 2007 (F - Hi, I'm not sure if anyone here has heard or been to these biker rallys but this is where my b/f is going and here is what I have to say: I have been together with my b/f for about 2 years. I know you are supposed to trust but i feel its hard depending on the environmen... (613 words

She dumped me and I want her back so bad. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (M - Hi i have a seroius problem i been seeing this girl from october last year and now in fact fri she says she doint want to know me any more but the problem is iam still really in love with her sooooo much still and that now that she left me the pain of itis sooo bad i just caint ... (130 words

Boyfriend doesn't seem interested in sex like he used to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - I used to think me and my boyfriend had a wonderful sex life, we would always want to (I have a very high sex-drive) and always enjoyed it. Now things are different. He makes it seem like a chore, and when I want it and he doesnt, it makes me feel like 1) I'm not good enough 2) ... (137 words

Images of my gf and my best friend haunt me! How can I get rid of these images?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - Someone please help. I have been dating this girl on and off for almost 6 years now. At one point, we dated for 2 years. Right now, we are dating again, and have been for 2 months. She is fine, she is head-over-heels for me. But about a year and a half ago, when we weren't ... (403 words

Husband or my long love? What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

23 January 2007 (F age 51-59 - Married for 11 yrs, been in love with another man for 29yrs, he lives 1,800 miles away. Went to see him after 10yrs of not seeing each other and he tells me that he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He's everything I ever wanted in a man and I wish I ... (116 words

My boyfriends gets me NOTHING for Christmas, Birthday, Valentines.. NEVER!

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23 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - SHOULD I BE UPSET WHEN MY KIDS FATHER (MY BOYFRIEND)DOESN'T GET ME ANYTHING FOR CHRISTMAS, MOTHERS DAY,VALENTINE DAY..BUT HE GET HIS MOM THINGS... (23 words

How do I stop my bisexual thoughts towards my cousin!?!

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23 January 2007 (F - hi! ok im bisexual and i have feelings for my cousin (girl). i know nothing can happen because she is a very good friend aswell as a relative. i was worndering if anyone knows anyways to stop myself feling this way! thank you! xxXXxx... (52 words

Am I selfish for saying that I should come FIRST?

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23 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - Am i being selfish when i tell my boyfriend of 11years that my wants and needs come first over his mom and sister want and needs.... (26 words

I got DUMPED but how do I convince her to stay?

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23 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - Well i was wondering if anyone out there have ever experience this situation..or have any comment about this situation. Well it's a new year and my partner left me for a guy whom she just met for a week and now he keeps calling her and i am getting annoyed because we live ... (139 words

My boyfriend DUMPS me by text!

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23 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - Please help, this is what my boyfriend (16yo) of a month sent me word for word last night: "Hey beautiful. Wot im about to say has nearly killed me coz i luv u 2 pieces, but i really dont think im cut out 2 b ur boyfriend... Ur the most precious thing in the world but im rea... (218 words

I'm not worthy!! What??

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23 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend keeps saying, "I am not worthy of you," and though that seems like a backhanded compliment of sorts, every time she says it, it sets off a series of alarms in the back of my head. I know that I heard about this from some relationship advice pamphlet I read, but I ... (111 words

Just thinking about her or reading an email from her turnes me on. What is going on?

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23 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - I am 21 - well past puberty. I had a relationship 4 years ago where I fell in love but wasn't loved back. Since then i've been afraid of relationships and haven't really dated. I am finally in a relationship again with a girl I'm crazy about and who feels the same abo... (145 words

How long will my doubts last?

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23 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for 5 years and this past year he has been kinda of acting out. Saying things like I don't know what i want to do. Whether to proceed on to the next step or be my himself or what. I'm wondering how long does this type of doubt usually last and ... (65 words

How do I get over this big obsession about his ex! What should I do?

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23 January 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have been seeing a guy over 3 yrs, and he left his ex and kids,but now his son is having problems in behavior and might have to stay there. How do i get over not getting upset with him ex there causei really don't like her. I know he loves me. Please help me get over this ... (63 words

How do you ask a guy how he feels about you, without giving away all your feelings?

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23 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - I really like this guy I work with and I'm pretty sure he likes me too but the flirting and the hinting has gone on for so long now, I just want to know if he likes me in the same way as I like him. But I want to think of a way of asking him how he feels without laying all my ... (76 words

How do I get him to want to be with me more? Any tips?

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23 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - i just want my bf to want to spend more time with me... he says its impossible to send a lot of time together but the truth is its just too much work for him and he doesnt want to...how do i get him to want to be with me more???... (51 words

I haven't got my period! Am I Pregnant?

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23 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend. We have had sex twice and we used protection both times. I still think I might be pregnant because my period hasn't come yet. What do I do?... (37 words

My bf left me for a friend of mine. I need closure from all this...please help?

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23 January 2007 (F age 51-59 - The floor fell out from under my feet when after two years of what I thought was a good relationship my boyfriend told me that he was seeing my close girlfriend ( I believe he put it as a “midlife” crisis). It suddenly made sense why she had been asking me so many questions ... (587 words

Do I accept the relationship is over and move on... or try to save it?

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23 January 2007 (M age 51-59 - my partner of 11 years has recently told me that she wants to seperate,she says that there is no one else involved and that she simply does'nt love me anymore.we have an 8 year old son who has'nt been told yet.the family home has been sold and she is now looking to buy a ... (109 words

He wanted me back -now he doesn't! What should I do?

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23 January 2007 (F - My ex-boyfriend acted like he wanted me back around christmas time. we got chatting again even though i avoided him since our break up, and ended up kissing at a mutual friends party. I only went ahead with this because I was reassured by his best friend that he wanted me back. ... (131 words

He has a 'pee' fetish and it weirds me out! How do I handle this?

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23 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - Ok ive been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs, were really good together and have a great sex life. The thing is he recently revealed a bit of a fetish to me, he told me peeing turns him on. I mean ive heard of it but its not something i ever thought happened in the real world n to ... (153 words

We met on an adult dating site for casual sex. But now I want to go to the next level! Any advice?

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23 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - Right now I am sort of "seeing" this guy. We met on an adult personal site, and it was just suppose to be just casual sex, every so often. Well, we stopped talking for a bit, then we started talking again and then stopped and now, just in the past week or so, we have been ... (380 words

How can I ask her out as a friend without scaring her off?

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23 January 2007 (? - i met this girl once went all my mates went out she came as well. we got on well. later she added me on msn and than asked for my number. she made me swear I'll text her back. i want to take her out but we've only met once but talked a lot on-line. how can i ask her? i don't ... (88 words

When I say no to anal sex, he gets in a bad mood! I don't want us to break up over this...help!

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23 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - I've been dating this guy for three weeks now, he's 19 and I'm only 16 so when it comes to sex i already feel as though i don't know enough and it makes me feel inferior. We have a very sexually active relationship, we can't seem to keep our hands off each other when we're ... (116 words

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