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writes:Right...my new bf is 17, im 14. I told my mum i met how i met him and she thinks were just m8s. how can i tell her were goin out without worrying her? how do i start tho convo? she doesnt no how much i talk to him or anything. help plz xxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, katzkitten +, writes (28 January 2007):
katzkitten is verified as being by the original poster of the question yey! i dun it! i told her!!!
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reader, jacktheripper +, writes (19 January 2007):
Hmm... I would begin it with "Mom... I love you" lol! Nah seriously though, just start by telling her that you have something to tell her and then just blurt it out, explain to her that you are mature enough to say 'no' to sex even when pushed (well, i don't know if you are but still) and just tell her ALL the facts. Also explain to her that you were worried as to how she would react. I do think that she will be worried about the age difference, but as long as you can demonstrate maturity in the relationship you should be fine!
Hope this helps! Good luck mate! And don't forget to tell me how it went lol!
-Mattie-
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reader, cd206 +, writes (19 January 2007):
 I think she will worry however you bring it up. Three years won't be a big age gap in 5 years but right now it's massive. The only way you can get ur mum to be ok with this is to tell her the truth at all times and make sure you respect her wishes if she tells you she doesn't want you alone in the house or whatever. Talk to her honestly, treat her like a friend and hopefully she'll see your maturity and trust you to be in a relationship with this guy without getting hurt.
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