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Why do girls back off from me? Any advice?

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Question - (19 January 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2007)
A male Nigeria age 41-50, *erry joe writes:

Hi. I have had issuses with my love life i dont seem to be able to hook up with someone.Recently i met this girl i tot we would hit it off , all of a sudden she backs out for no reason at all.....such has been the story of my life. Now i there is this girl coming on to me but i dont know if i like her.She's decent and cool but im afraid it will end up like the last one.What do i do im confused.......Perry

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A female reader, vina_101 United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2007):

vina_101 agony auntJust because a girl didn't like you in the past doesn't mean girls won't like you in the future. Don't judge this girl based on what happened before you met her. If you have negative expectations the chances of things turning out negative will increase. Try to be positive about this new girl and if it goes wrong take it as it is and try not to see it as history repeating itself. Just see it as 'one of those things- better luck next time' and then move on to the next girl.

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A female reader, dancer United Kingdom +, writes (19 January 2007):

i think you should give the new girl a chance, you never know she might be different to the rest of the girls you have met.i have had the same situation with men. but leson learnt was not all men are the same and it give people a chance.i think they might back off because the girl might not know where she stands and you might cool off from her because your confused. chase her

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (19 January 2007):

cd206 agony auntIt's impossible to say why this keeps happening but in my experience it comes down to one of three things.

1. You come on too strong and the girl gets scared.

2. You don't come on strong enough and the girl thinks you're not interested.

3. You've just had a lot of bad luck.

Whichever one of the above it is it doesn't really matter. If you can identify which one it is and do something about it then great, but don't let it stop you taking chances with new girls.

CD

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