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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm really confused about my feeling for my bf. Should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - i hate everything my bf is interested in.all he ever talks about is music and bands that i hate and always have done. any time i try to talk about my music he just critisizes and claims how his is better. i dnt like his dress sense i hate his hair. absolutly hate it. i like it ... (359 words)

Dating 2 years nd he doesn't want me at his father's funeral!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age - Have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we have a close relationship. I never met his father in all the time we've been together. His father sadly died on Christmas Day. He has taken it very badly understandibly of course, it was very sudden and unexpected. I have been there ... (128 words)

I want to support him by moving with him but I don't want to lose the closeness I have with my parents. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age - I've been married for about a year now. I have a great marriage. I'm an only child and my parents live quite close to us. We're amazingly close. I talk to them arounnd 2-3 times a week and see them around twice a week. Now here comes a dilemma. We live in Texas and my hus... (196 words)

I think he may regret us ever getting together. I don't know what to do. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I met and fell head over heels in love with this wonderful man. From the start we were fighting against all odds, you see I'm 28 and he is 52, he grew up with my parents then moved away, we met 5 years ago. Over time we became friends and then eventually we started a ... (333 words)

I'm not attracted to my girlfriend sexually. Should I tell her this? Do I tell her the truth?

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

2 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I'm in love with my girlfriend but i'm not sexually attracted to her? What happens is that i loose interest half way through sex, but i didn't want her to know the real reason and made out that's because i'm unfit, smoking and drinking too much. This could be the case but i ... (70 words)

Girls seem to like me, but then completely cut me off for no reason. Is there something I need to change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I've just returned from a trip abroad with some friends. On New Year's Eve, while we were in a nightclub, I met a girl who lived locally. Despite not being much of a playboy and not too successful with women, it's not too rare for me, with my inhibitions slightly diminished, to ... (634 words)

Do I have a low sex drive because of us fighting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I have been in a controlled relationship for almost 2 years.we are always fighting and i have NO sex drive at all and im 20 it shouldnt be like this but what can i do? Am i not wanting sex cause im unhappy or is my body telling me it isnt right with him...hope u can help ... (59 words)

My bf's ex is obsessed with ruining our relationship!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

2 January 2007 (F)

- ok my bf's ex is sending me mental she is still madly in love with my bf so is trying to break me and him up. here sum stuff she been doing looking at my myspace and texting him about any chnages i have done ( this one back fired when she told him about me putting i really... (198 words)

Hubby treats me like sh*t , since I have been staying home to look after our child.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - married for 3.5 yr now with a 2.5 yr old daughter, was in good paying job till 6 months back, left the job due to move to different country without any family or friends. My husband has a great paying job in this new country and treats me like shit now that i dont have any job ... (86 words)

He's separated from his wife and wants things to get serious with me. I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I really need some advice on my relationship. I have been seeing a married man who is twice my age for 18 months and we are totally in love with each other, however I always told him I did not want anything serious with him, because of his stage in life. He has separated from ... (250 words)

Turns out my husband had a bj in the toilets at work because "it was on offer"... can men just not say no?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) - I have just gone back to my husband following a break of 2 years. I left him for various reasons but i have never really got over him. We have a child and both want whats best for her obviously. I have had one serious relationship during the break and my husband has had ... (406 words)

I think he may be meeting "internet ladies"... !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - my boyfriend has alot of female friends on the internet and it kind of bugs me.. i also think he is meeting new women on the internet? we have been together for 4 months... what should i do???... (38 words)

I want to live with him, but I have trust issues with his compromise! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need some advice I want to live with my boyfriend of 5 years, but he said the only way we can live to together is if I work and pay the bills for 6 months and then he works and pays the bills because he said that he wants to go to school but I was thinking if ... (108 words)

Should I try to get back with my ex even though I don't know what I want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Should I try to get back with my ex even though I don't know what I want? Me and my on/off ex boyfriend of over a year broke up in October but continued to fool around whenever he wasn't in a relationship. He started a relationship with a good friend of his who declared her ... (417 words)

Our relationship is being affected by our families..how do we deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6336 days ago

2 January 2007 (F)

- HELP! I am feeling like my blossoming anew relationship, which has already weathered several storms is now being torn and shredded by our unaware families -- my family has a Christmas I want to be apart of, but with rigid schedules that he can't make, plus far away, th... (109 words)

She fancies me but I don't see her in the same way! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - There is a girl that fancies me but I don't really want to go out with her so what do I say?... (22 words)

My bf hates condoms and there is no way, I'm having unprotected sex. Any other options?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are ready to have sex, but my boyfriend doesn't like condoms and there's no way I'm having sex without protection. There's no concern about STD's, so what other options are out there? I'm sure he'll eventually break down and just use the condom, but what ... (83 words)

I really loved him but he broke up with me. How can I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6336 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - My bf just split up with me after almost 3 months of been with him, i loved him loads and he said that he would never leave me it really upset me. I love this guy loads though and i don't know what to do with it. i've asked him to come round one day to talk about it. was that ... (75 words)

How do you know when someone likes you back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6336 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Right where do I start there's a boy I think I really like but I don't know if he likes me back I have never pulled before and I know he has I don't want him to be my first pull as I am scared of what he will say, in our friendship groups were in the same position eg: were both ... (105 words)

I hate swearing and he does this a lot when he's mad! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hello, I am frustrated because I have a really attentive boyfriend and he does all the things that a good boyfriend should, like he cares for me when I'm sick, cooks for me, we can talk forever and he likes to cuddle and hug and make me happy and all of those things but the ... (173 words)

We broke up because she can't deal with my temper. Should I move on or keep trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

2 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a agony aunt on here as u will knwo i just joined the other day but i cant take it anymore it hurts the inside of me so badly that i doe feel like i wanan do anythin with my life. well it all started wen me and my gf (x gf now) started havin arguments and it got worse... (1131 words)

She ended it all 3 months ago...my confidence is gone and I am devatstated! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

2 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Hi, I’m posting because I desperately need help. This is quite long and messed up, but if you have the time, please I would greatly appreciate any advice. In November 2005 I met my recent girlfriend, we clicked immediately and started dating and soon enough we fell madly in... (925 words)

He's choosing this other girl over me..as she has more to offer. What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - So my brother has this friend and i guess this friend has liked me for 9 years. This past chirstmas I finally told him I was attracted to him also. This friend has been dating another girl for about 5 weeks, but still choose to go on a date with me. We really hit it off and ... (233 words)

Do I tell him his mother ruined his proposal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend (now fiance) and I took a trip to Australia with his family last March. The day before we left for the trip his mother e-mailed me and added the words "almost mother in law" beside her name. Well this was pretty much a dead give away that my boyfriend was going ... (129 words)

I want to know what a woman wants but am confused! Please help me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

2 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - what does a woman really want in a guy? I hear stories that they want a sweet, caring loyal man who they can cuddle up with and will treat them write yet there are woman going out at night getting drunk and looking for sex. So please tell me what a woman really wants, I know ... (81 words)

Period is late, not sure whether condom split! What are the chances of me being pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had sex last week and I am worried as I am 2 days late on my period. we used a condom but I am worried that it split although I didn't hear it. What are my chances of being pregnant?... (44 words)

I want to help my ex-girlfriend in her relationship but don't want to intrude. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

2 January 2007 (M)

- I'm one of the aunts on this website and I am in a sticky situation so to speak so any advice is welcome. I'm 20 and I used to go out with this girl, who I still think is an amazing person. I was her first boyfriend. However, we split up about 2 months ago because she wasn... (803 words)

Lying boyfriend is cheating on me again! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I was with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years when I found out he had slept with another woman in our home. Leading up to this I had found numerous other text messages from other woman and phone numbers indicating that he was going to cheat or already had. When I found out I left. ... (251 words)

He's too possessive, jealous and controlling! He even tries to tell me what to wear! Help!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hey, me and my bf have been goin out 7months, he is very controlling, he doesnt like me tlkin to other people and wants my attention 24/7, he hates me going out with my mates and hes scared all the other guys always stare at me. he also doesnt like me wearing skirts and calls ... (131 words)

My 15 y/o daughter is now partying, drinking, skipping school and more! I miss the old her so much. Please help

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

2 January 2007 (F)

- Im using a friends account.. I have a problem that will effect a great deal of things. Im starting to hate my 15 year old daughter. Well not hate, but becoming more and more disapointed in her. I feel she has no future as she skips school and has no interest in anything exce... (366 words)

He has no paternal responsibility for their child, but wants it. Can this be done outside of court?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (M)

- A friend of mine is not married, but has a child. Him and his partner split up and the child lives with the mother. He has no parental responsibility for his daughter. How would he go about getting it without having to take her to court? She is unwilling to visit the solicitor ... (93 words)

I slept with a coworker, but now I feel there's tension between us. How do I break the ice with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Dear cupid to cut to the chase, i slept with an older guy at work, we're both single but ive not seen him since it happened before xmas. Ive been back in work today and he wasnt, he phoned to speak to one of my colleagues but she wasnt in and i spoke to him, i tried to keep ... (133 words)

I'm only 28 and I have a low sex drive! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - i have been married for 10 years and have a very low sex drive me andmy husband are happy but this is really starting to afect us i am only 28 years old what can i o about this thank you... (47 words)

It's as if she just wants me for things I provide and not for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

2 January 2007 (M)

- Not sure whether to carry on. My wife and I have been together for 15 years. We have 2 little ones 4 and 6 We seem to spend a lot of time unhappy and are drifting apart. I have been battling with the problem for years now. She says she doesn't want to have sex and d... (119 words)

Can precum make someone pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend had sex twice, one with a condom one without... and it was my first time, he didnt cum inside of me, i guess im asking if PRECUM is enough sperm to get someone pregnant? and we had sex January 1st and my period was over December 23rd..does this make me fer... (58 words)

I kissed my husband's best friend on New Year's. He's fine about it, but I feel awful - what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F)

- On New Year’s Eve, my husband fell asleep and I ended up kissing his best friend at midnight. It only lasted two seconds, and then I freaked out and ran over to where my husband was asleep on the couch and tried to pretend nothing happened. Then two minutes later, he woke up ... (281 words)

How do you know if a older guy who likes you, isn't just a perv?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) - How do you know if a older guy likes you if he isnt a perv or anything nasty but really sweet and kind and shy? We are 10 years between our age. ... (35 words)

His ex texted him to wish him a happy new year - I'm livid! But should I really be concerned?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) - An ex i was worried about contacting my b/f on new years eve did text him. I guess i just dont like the idea that some girl he slept and went out with sometimes is in contact with him. It was like 12:45 am. The text i guess was sent to a lot of people b/c it said..happy new ... (852 words)

We clicked, but now we're going through difficult times - now he's texting his male and female friends about our sex issues!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6333 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - I had been alone for many years bringing up my young daughter. In May 2006 I met a brilliant man on a dating website and we definitely 'clicked' we have been living together since the end of October and have been through some difficult times (I am currently in my 10th month of ... (422 words)

I met a great guy ata party and he was convinced I wasn't interested! But I was..what can I do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Hi there. Happy New Year to you all! Well my problem is very trivia but wanted to share it. Lately I have been having problems dealing with feelings that I have for my best male friend. So New Years Eve I went out with all good intentions to have fun and move on. Well I ... (261 words)

My head says to move on, but something is holding me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

2 January 2007 (F)

- Hello again I'm sorry to take some of your time up but 20 days ago I set you a e-mail about my self steem being down because of a boy who asked me out and went out together a couple of times b4 he told me he had female friends to have sex with and dumped me because of me ... (436 words)

I've fallen for my best mate's ex... girls - need your input on what she may be thinking

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Very long story slightly shorter, I got back from a stay out of the country to find that one of my best friends had a pleasant new girlfriend. She was around whenever he was around and we were on good terms very quickly. They dated for almost 2 years and were very close, but in ... (386 words)

Is it really impossible for men and women to be "just friends"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - i have a question. is it impossible for men and women to be "just friends"? it seems like all the guys i get close to, end up having some sort of feeling for me. then they say that i should have known, because guys and girls cant stay just friends. but i dont understand why ... (134 words)

I like this girl and I need to know..how do I talk to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

2 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Well I an not the that good at talking to girls and i really need some tips because i like this girl and she knows but i need tips on how to talk to her i need some answers and fast plz and thank you... (50 words)

our relationship is rocky and we need to stop arguing. What can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, my relationship's on the rocks. Im engaged and was very happy, but now I'm depressed and stressed in my job and take it out on my fiance with my mood swings. This resulted in when the bells going off this New Year, and me not even looking at him. I'm punishing ... (144 words)

I don't want to be single forever...so I need tips on how to speak to girls.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Well i got a problem i think im a ugly person and i dont know how to talk to girls and i dont wanna be a single guy forever...I need tips on how to talk to girls... (38 words)

Am I kidding myself... does she just not want me or is it because of all her problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (M) age - ive been with my partner 7 years,2 years ago she finished with me,i won her round with a mixture of flowers AND chocs being a friend and slowly we got back on track,althro it never quite got back to what it was,then just before xmas she finished with me again,in the last 4 ... (118 words)

Sometimes I feel he's not showing enough love..why is that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) - I am happy with my boyfriend for 4 years, we are happy there are also lots of things we enjoy to do.. We also plan for our future but sometimes i don't feel love when he doesn't kiss or hug me,and no sweet words came from him when he is busy... When i'm alone sometimes i want... (90 words)

The ex and I are talking again...is it possible to get back with him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - OMG .... Dating EX Friend I have been talking to a guy for eight months now I really dont see the relationship going anywere and ready to throw in the towel. I want to get back with my EX I called him for Christmas Eve we hooked up caught a movie and a bite to eat. H... (252 words)

He cheats and lies..even when I catch him in the act! What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - i have a very selfish husband whom i have 2 small children with, and he lies, cheats and refuses to tell the truth - even when i catch him in the act, what can i do?... (36 words)

Just the sight of him touching another girl is enough to put me on the brink of tears? Am I over sensitive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm what most people would probably call overly-sensitive. It doesn't take all that much to bring me to tears. Take last night for example. I was at a party at a friend's house, and the word around the house was that my crush was making out with another girl... (287 words)

Why in the world are adults now checking out teenagers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I was out with my 15 yr old niece the other day and I was a little disturbed by what I saw. Shes growing into an attractive young lady. A lot of teenage boys were checking her out. I became kind of protective of her but I guess its natural. However what really disturbed... (142 words)

We aren't honest to each other and we fight a lot-is it time to end this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) - I'm in love with this guy.He has been my boyfriend for 3 years and I want to spend my life with him.But I just dont have feelings for him like I used to.I think he likes me a little more than I like him.I also like other guys and want to get with them but at the same time I ... (128 words)

Will it mess up the relationship if I agree to make out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) - So i have never made out with a guy. I have had plenty of boyfriends but just have never made the move. I want to really bad someday but am too scared i will mess up or something. so if anyone can give me some tips that would be greatt. : ] ... (55 words)

We have online sex...is this considered an affair if we have partners?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Short n sweet: having a textual affair with a man from work... if i am with someone, and he is someone, is it still considered an affair.... (27 words)

We date now but I can't forget how smitten he was with his ex. Am I just his 2nd choice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and apart from the odd tiff we get on well and have a good relationship. There is one problem however that i think lies more with me, but i dont know how to resolve it. You see, we were friends before we got together romantic... (278 words)

Guys, why would he keep dumping me and then contacting me over and over again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) - Hi everyone. A quick question about my ex-boyfriend please... I was madly in love with my boyfriend, whom I dated for 6 months...and I did believe he felt the same way about me. But to cut a long story short, he moved away suddenly (abroad) to be with his family, as... (418 words)

When we tried to have sex..I could only get semi-hard. But when I masturbate-I get hard! Why is this happening?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

2 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - hello, im 16 and me and my girlfriend for about a year and we recently tried to have sex, but it didnt happen. i could only get a semi erection, wich i felt was realy odd as i find her really attractive, and i never get a problem when im on my own. but when we went to have sex, ... (84 words)