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*seless
writes:I have a problem with my boy-friend being to overprotective. He just cussed out the guy i have a crush on, in front of me!!..and he knows that i don't like that, but what can i do because now he's asking me to set the up to fight..and the only thing i want to do is end this guna b fight..and boy-friend's so stubborn and won't listen to me..because he said if i don't set them up he might or will also hit me..What should i do???!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008): you should tell your boyfriend how you feel about everything that you have choose him but you feel he is being to over protective...I mean fighting is no way to deal with his problems and threatening you is not going to help the situation in any way...it will only make matters worse...so just know he is your boyfriend and will listen if you talk to him...so tell him how you feel...
~~Meggie~~
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reader, stina  +, writes (20 January 2007):
 Am I missing something? I don't see anywhere where it says she actually told her boyfriend that she has a crush on this other guy. From what I read, it just looks like this guy has a problem with the guy she's crushing on, but not necessarily b/c of the fact that she has a crush on him.
I just took it that this girl doesn't like when her boyfriend cusses at people in general. That's why I thought he was like a little nuts.
Useless - did you tell your boyfriend that you have a crush on this other guy? (i guess i misread your post or something...?) If you did that was a stupid, stupid thing to do! No wonder he's all crazy! But that's still no excuse for him to threaten to hit you.
But yeah - anyway, I still say get yourself out of this mess and be single for a while.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (20 January 2007):
 Okay, your boyfriend is a little crazy. But honey, I think you're a little crazy for telling your BOYFRIEND about ANOTHER GUY that you have a CRUSH on. My God, if my boyfriend told me about some girl he had a thing for, I'd be pissed too. I'm not one to start fights, but that girl would NOT be on my friend list.
You need to learn a little more about being a girlfriend before you commit to a boyfriend. And yes, Ponungalungb... you are hilarious. Always cracking me up.
xxIndia
P.S. Ditch your boyfriend.
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (20 January 2007):
 This is some seriously crazy whacked out crappadoodle doo. Whack everybody. That might change the situation to something more manageable
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reader, moomoomoo +, writes (19 January 2007):
 lol nice one ponuga
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reader, stina +, writes (19 January 2007):
Hi Useless,
What should you do?
1. Dump your boyfriend - he has major issues; he's threatening you and this other guy with violence; you have a cruch on someone else already
2. Tell someone what he plans on doing - first thing I would mention is that he threatened you with violence; second I would mention that he has it in for this kid (or at least tell the guy you have a crush on what's up)
3. Stay away from and stop all contact with your soon-to-be-ex because he's abusive
Seriously - this drama is ridiculous and you shouldn't have to put up with your boyfriend acting like this. He needs anger management sessions!
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007): Eh? Why on earth did you tell your boyfriend you like someone else? I think you ought to break up with your boyfriend and not get another one until you're mature enough to handle it. The other guy is right. This sounds like playground politics.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (19 January 2007):
 What did elementary school just let out somewhere? LOL!
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