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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He hates my kids so will our relationship work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - my parner keeps threatening to leave when we argue about my kids. we also have a baby, i only have one son living with us. my partner says he is honest with me and is trying to make our life better and because my 3 sons have all been in trouble with the police he says he is not ... (211 words)

Together 5 months but I don't know what kind of conversations to have with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

9 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - hi, well ive had a girlfriend for like 5 months, i really like her but i feel really awkward i dont know what to talk to her about. plz help. thanks... (36 words)

I'm an 18 year old virgin and I freak out and stop whenever I'm about to lose it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - im nearly 18! and still a virgin and every1 thinks that i am not cause of the way i come over (but i havnt told them i am a virgin 2 be honest) anywayss i have been in the situation many times!! but some how it always doesnt happen! i always stop! im begining to think will i ... (103 words)

We are buying a house together but he wants to go back to Uni and leave me paying for everything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend and I are planning to co-own a house together. We're both in our early 20s and we've saved up quite a bit after 2 years of working very hard. My boyfriend told me he wanted to go back to university so he can have a better career in the future to support me. ... (176 words)

When I was 12 he proposed to me and I said no but now I'm 13 he wants me back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok over the summer 06 i had a boyfriend and he kind of got serious and asked me so many ?s that i couldnt answer. I was 12 and now im 13 and i think i should answer them so heres the story: He asks me out and i say yes because i liked him and then like the day after he asks me ... (279 words)

My long-distance fiance is in Amsterdam and hung up when he heard my voice! What's going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we met in England. But my visa ran out so i had to come back home, he said he would come with me once he got his visa. Just before i left he proposed to me. It's been a month and a half since i left. He would call and ... (164 words)

Will our flirty friendship develop into something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hi Got a bit of a problem, see what u think! Ive known this guy for a few years now, we were friends from day one of college and connected straight away. He had a girl friend at the time so when i told him that i liked him. he said he was flattered and he was sure that i... (197 words)

I am afraid to stay in my 13 year relationship but also afraid to leave for a past love - what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - I have been with my husband for over 13 years, married for over 6. We have had many challages but the past 2 years have been extremely difficult. I want children, he does not, this I did not know until after we were married. I have been a devoted, faithful wife, he is old ... (430 words)

What is the point to relationships if they always end in tragedy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (M)

- I'm 20 and might be starting to date women. You'll probably notice the "might be". The reason why is that I would like to have a relationship with a women, yet everywhere I look it just ends in catastrophe. People getting divorces, people having affairs, people more miserable ... (103 words)

What's the point of being in a relationship if it's just always going to end in tragedy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

9 January 2007 (M)

After 2 years together she wants a break! Do I get over her or keep hoping?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - hello there , im 18 years old and i spent christmas in wales with my mum. my gf lives back in england and got very upset about it. I get back from walea after new years and then she came over and spent the day with me, it went fine and i loved every min of it!. the next da... (207 words)

He still talks about other girls in front of me even though I have asked him to stop because it upsets me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and am quite an insecure person. Whenever he talks about other girls, be they famous or otherwise it really gets me down and i get upset. I have asked him to stop and even broke down crying one day because he made me feel so ... (70 words)

Things are going to far and I'm not sure what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) - -x- Hello, I'm only 13 and i use to like this guy, he's 17, my mates told him, and he got the idea i really liked him, i've met up with him a few times, i mean i loved him so much at first! But there are a few bad things about him 1. hes dating one of my best mates, and i do... (193 words)

I like my best friends girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6225 days ago

9 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Hey....Well I got a mega problem....I like my best friends girl friend and my best friend is like my own brother almost...And in the past he treated her badly and i have feelings for her but i don't know what to do becuz he is my best friend/bro... What should i do becuase i ... (79 words)

He has different sized nipples and it's turning me off!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a really small nipple on one side and a huge one on the other. theres almost a 2 cm difference! its a major turn off what should i do?... (32 words)

We broke up but I'm finding it hard to move on because he hangs out with my friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I am feeling seriously down and out. My ex broke up with me a couple of months ago. I finally thought I was doing better. We had a good conversation last week. Then, next time I talked to him, he went off on me like I was trying to get him back. How arrogant. Anyway, he ... (135 words)

I found his number on the net but should I call since he didn't willingly leave it for me in the first place?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F)

- I need advice. I went away to the other side of the country last week and was at a bar with friends. I noticed an attractive man and he followed me outside as I was going to get a cab. We wandered the city together till the early hours. He came back to my hotel with me and one ... (216 words)

I neglected him, he left me and now I see my mistakes - how do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - im having a real difficult time. My partner and i have been together for three years, and i neglected him as im not high in self confidence and was trying to find myself, i have always loved him and he has always stood by me, we argue alot but i feel that was my doing as he was ... (197 words)

Are most romantic relationships lop-sided? They are with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

9 January 2007 (F)

- Are most romantic relationships lop-sided? Meaning, one person is more in love, more attracted to the other. This seems to be the case to me. When I was married, my husband was way more attracted to me than I was to him. He was always wanting sex, always pawing at... (217 words)

My sister is gay but she can't accept the fact I'm with a man 23 years older than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (F)

- hi everyone:) from last november onwards i had been speaking to a man online (not a dating site - just a footie forum!) - i was 17 at the time and he was 40, and at first it was just friendly stuff, and we got on really well:) and then we both realised we had feelings for each ... (479 words)

I broke my 'butt bone' and the painkillers aren't working! Anyone been in a similar position?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (?)

- hey ppl. i've broken my coccyx. its sooo painfull n the pain killers i've been prescribed aren't workin. i just wanna know if anyone has done it n what they did to help the pain. thanx sexylinz xxxxx... (41 words)

My ex confessed he still loved me but after a stupid drunken night he now doesn't know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - my ex and i met up a month or so ago. i told him that i still had feelings for him and because we were both seeing other people i said i thought it best we had space. he confessed that he still loved me and that he would never find anoyone like me again. he spoke about the ... (243 words)

Could I make a claim for these dental troubles, do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (M) - I don't know if this is the right place too come but I need some advice. Over the past year or so, I have had numerous dental procedures that have not being delt with properly. I first had an affected tooth, and the root had too be taken out. My dentist failed too take ... (297 words)

My sex drive has disappeared since I found out he was cheating... will it ever return?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - My current boyfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years now. I've never felt more complete or safe with anyone but him my entire life. I could say I trusted him 100%. A 1 1/2 into the relationship, I found out that he had been cheating on me with 3 different girls. ... (197 words)

After 10 years he told me he loved me but doesn't know if he wants to be a couple after all this time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - dear cupid,a very long story cut short!from the age of 16 i fell for a guy that for the past 16 years has been in my life apart from a gap of 18months when i had another relationship! my problem is weve both had children by other people and neither have been faithful when with ... (195 words)

I try to make my wife happy... but she doesn't do the same for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6225 days ago

9 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I'm at odds with my wife. I tell her my problems but she dismisses them. She says she will change things and sometimes promises to. She doesn't keep those promises and when I get upset about it, she refuses to take responsibility or apologize. I try to make her happy but ... (67 words)

Should my ex gf tell her new, soon to be roomate that I will be over at their place, staying over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

9 January 2007 (M)

- my ex girlfriend said to me on new year's new eve she's wanted her own place. so i offered to move in with her she said it was a good idea she told me it would make sense. to split the rent down the middle with someone she trusts. the week after she txted me saying it was... (566 words)

I still love her and having problems accepting her current boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I was originally not a member and I posted a question, now I have joined and my problem is still here and I need some help. My problem is this http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-her-more-than-she-knows-what.html Now I have told her the next day how I feel. I said to... (430 words)

If I could change him, things would be great...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My ex moved in w/ me 5 mos. ago so I could pay for school/living expenses. We don't have sex, but have fooled around twice since then. I know he loves me, but he's almost 20 yrs. older and acts like a kid. If I could change him things would be great, but realistically I can't! ... (71 words)

He loves being on the phone but should I call him!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - i have a guy who always stays home, is always on the phone because being on the phone is his hobbie. He love the phone but he doesnt like to call people. should i call him everyday or does that mean he got mr under control because im always the one calling him? Should i worry ... (76 words)

How can I stop my insecurites over his porn viewing, even to the extent I cant bare him seeing women on the TV!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) - Im driving myself insane and probably ruining my relationship in the process! HELP! Ive posted on here before about my struggle to deal with finding that my boyf of nearly 4 yrs masturbates occasionally over page 3 girls and that I found a small stash of soft porn (which he let ... (431 words)

Husband is behaving secretively...is he having an affair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - my husband has been very secretive lately, i am really worried he is having an affair, he is 50 and i am 38, we have been together for 19 yrs and have 3 kids, i admit i have not been easy to live with but neither has he. but things that he tells me are not adding up like all... (212 words)

Husband wants me to have sex with my friend. Is this normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My husband wants me to have sex with my girlfriend. Is He normal?... (13 words)

I'm down! Is it because I don't know what to do with my future, career-wise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (M) - I keep getting negative thoughts and feeling slightly emotional, allthough I don't cry. It gets worse usually when it gets dark, and i feel no hope and have nothing too look forward too. I am happy around my girlfriend but not so much my family and they have noticed and call me ... (86 words)

Am I picky about who I date, or just intuitive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old, I feel that no matter how I struggle, how much I try to pull myself out of my hole. I am making no head way. I am single I have no children and a non job so to speak. I have debts coming out of my ears and feel that I havent had the chance to live. I woul... (169 words)

Is it healthy for two people who have broken up to remain in the same house?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Is it healthy if two people broke up to still stay in the same place/house?... (15 words)

Is love supposed to be painful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Is love suppose to be painfull?... (6 words)

My ex treated me badly, but I still love him. Now I'm fearful of him manipulating my feelings since he started contacting me again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles... I have a problem with my ex. After 2 months of no contact, my ex now wants to see me again. He has treated me badly in the past - dumped me by just not answering my calls etc....I was madly in love with him, and really thought he felt the s... (537 words)

We have a history, but he's afraid of commitment. Would a friends with benefits relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) - I have known my ex for a very long time since 8th grade. We dated a year after gradution. We dated for 3 months. Things got pretty serious between us. I was suppose to move in with him back in october cuz my ma and me were fighting and she wanted me out. He decided it was best ... (909 words)

We are engaged, but after our last row I feel I deserve better. I don't want to regret this decision!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I have been with my fiancé 5 year and engaged for 2 and due to get married this summer. We have alway got on really well, never lived together but started building a house which is nearly complete. We don't row much but when we do I alway's seem to give in to keep the peac... (328 words)

My partner only seems to want sex to pleasure himself and not me! What can be done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F)

- My partner of nearly 2 years has spent the last 15 years simply having one night stands with girls he knows a little or has just met. He is faithful to me and I do trust him but the problems of his habits are still there for other reasons: He is in the mindset that sex... (196 words)

He looks at pics of naked women, so why doesn't he want to dress *me* up and play around with photos?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Please help me - my boyf has always been honest about the fact he looks at porn at thats cool cause i doto sometimes but its like he is addicted to it i know he looks at ametuer sites whenever possible and thats what gets me its just photos of women and he has thousands of ... (135 words)

His sister's fiancee and I seem better suited for each other. How do I find out how this guy really feels?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Im in love with my boyfriends, sisters fiancee. We flirt when we are together and when we r together he does all the a typical flirting body language. I know hes due to be married, but i feel deep down we are better suited. I think we are both to scared to admit it, in cas... (92 words)

I gave him till the end of the month to decide! Any tips on how I can sway him!!!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - i'v been seein this guy for 5 weeks now, and we are not bf and gf yet, but it really feels as though we are,and everyone thinks we are, as we do everything that a couple would do! i realy want a relationship with him, but we are not together yet, as he is holding back! fr... (180 words)

He looks at Shemale Porn is this normal!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been living together for 2 years now. we have a great relationship and good sex. my only concern is that he looks at shemale porn. is this normal? i'm a little nervous to ask him about it.... (46 words)

He can't come inside me... any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - I have recentley started seeing a new man, he is 33 and I am 36 everything is lovely except he is unable to cum inside me and always ends up masterbating to make himself cum. He says he thinks its nerves and tiredness and its not me. Any ideas am at wits end ! ... (56 words)

My bf looks at gay porn and we hardly have sex anymore. I have to beg him to have sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now, we were together once before but I broke up with him after the birth of our son. Now I catch him looking a porn and pictures of men with men on the computer but I have to beg for two or three weeks for him to have sex ... (84 words)

Mobile phone call log help Razr. Any help appreciated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) - Hi, I need some people to really help me out with this one. I would really appreciate it. I need to know something about one of the features. I know the verizon razr has an ALL calls option(well my one friend has the razr and she says it doesnt but maybe she has a diffe... (431 words)

Is he genuine, or does he consider me to be forbidden fruit?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - Thank you for your kind advice. I have posted a question earlier with title "I wish never met the other guy. I do not want to have an affair" Since then, I have spoken to husband Peter and tried to work things out, we have talked a lot. Lots of talk but no action. Peter s... (626 words)

Since the birth of our child, he never wants to have sex. I feel ugly and low on confidence.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - my boyfriend never wants to have sex with me. i had a baby a year ago and since then he never seems to want sex. it's really upsetting me and i'v tried to talk to him about it but he gets upset and angry with me for mentioning the problem. he says its because he's tired or not ... (83 words)

He can get an erection, but can't ejaculate. Any thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend is able to get an erection but cannot seem to ejaculate. We are in the early part of a relationship and have not yet sex yet but have been doing a lot of foreplay. As you can imagine this is causing a lot of tension. Any thoughts on why he is able to get an ... (61 words)

His mum hates me. Is it because of religion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

9 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok this is an odd one to ask but i would like some help as im a little lost as to what i can do or say to help im very upset at mo i found a friend had died this morning and i have another problem thats weighing heavy on my mind.. , my bf loves me very much and says he wont ... (368 words)

I buy sexy outfits but he is just not intrested,I'm really hurt, why won't he respect me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hi there, I know this is long but I have a long term relationship where I have encountered a number of problems and I don't know if I can go on, and I can't face breaking up with him. I have been seeing my boyfriend on and off for 3 years, and I am worried because I don't... (495 words)

I'm a woman in love with another woman. But she is denying her feelings. Where do I go from here

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

9 January 2007 (?)

- I'm a 45 year old female in love with another female. She is married and loves her husband as a friend but say's she hasn't loved him for 6 years. She said she got married to get away from her step dad. We have been terrible flirts with each other and have shared a lot of ... (300 words)

Is he going out with someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - im 13 and there is this boy i like and i dont know if he is going out with someone. How do i find out without asking him?... (28 words)

Should I let go of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age - should i let go of him i have met a man i am happy with hes divorced hes got a ten yr old boy he always used to see till the exwife found out about me yhen she stoped him seeing his son he loves his son alot but we have a flat and he lives there ilive at my married h... (200 words)

I want to help my boyfriend with his drinking problem. Please advise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I am currently in a very serious long distance relationship. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 year, and have been close friends for longer than that. I am still in high school and he is in first year university. My problem is I think he is drinking way too much than he ... (120 words)