New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244977 questions, 1084364 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in January, 2007, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (41), 2 (58), 3 (82), 4 (65), 5 (55), 6 (53), 7 (58), 8 (66), 9 (57), 10 (65),
11 (47), 12 (49), 13 (65), 14 (67), 15 (65), 16 (83), 17 (86), 18 (54), 19 (69), 20 (47),
21 (64), 22 (74), 23 (88), 24 (48), 25 (51), 26 (48), 27 (59), 28 (46), 29 (79), 30 (66),
31 (59),

Archived questions from: 24 January, 2007 (see latest questions)

(More questions from January, 2007)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We hooked up in the dorm and now I am afraid to tell him my true feeligs! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm gay, and my roommate from last year in the dorms was also gay. Within the first 2 weeks of school we were hooking up but not telling anyone about it publicly or even discussing it to ourselves. Things stopped for awhile then all of second semester we would hook up still ... (352 words)

I'm 11 and I'm worried..he never says he loves me! What's wrong?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I am 11 years old and I am really upset. I asked my boyfriend to the movies. He said 'yeah, i was going to ask you anyway' so i got all excited, this being my first date with him, (i've been on others) but then he ruins the moment by telling me that his friends are coming, ... (183 words)

He seems distant--Is his exams really stressing him or is it me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi ive been with my boyfriend for about 8months we met through friends but we only see each other on weekends as were at different universitys we phone and text all the time probably ten times a day but for2weeks he hasnt been texting so much or calling when i asked him if ... (102 words)

He moved back home and I am to join him--but I haven't heard from him in 4 days! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a guy for 2 months, we've spent alot of time together, and got on so well. I've fallen for him big time. Thing is he's from another country, and has now gone home. I'm going to move over for a year to stay with a friend in 5 months. We talked about having a ... (129 words)

We want to live together..we're both in different cities though. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend and I were discussing about living together. We currently live in two different cities about 1 1/2hrs drive apart. We spend a long time thinking whether I should move up or he should move down. If he moves down, I would be able to be with my family and friends, ... (195 words)

Does anyone had any tips on how to keep a guy interested in you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

- Hey, I have been with this guy for about 8 months now (we're 17) and generally its going ok. However, recently - hes been a little bit more distant from me and hasnt been complimenting me as much as normal. I don't thnk its that hes loosing interest but more becaus... (99 words)

He dumped by telling a friend "that everything was closing around him'...what did he mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me, saying i was too good for him. A friend asked him why he did it and he said "it felt like everything was closing around him" what does this mean???... (37 words)

My brother is abusive and stresses out our family. My parents don't deserve this - what can be done??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My problem is too complicated to explain here, so I've simplified it a bit... I'm 17, my brother in 14. He is out of control. He gets in trouble with the police, he grafittis, he has been expelled from school, and he's just generally abusive, especially to me and my mum, w... (209 words)

She was asked if she would date me and she said "eww no." Is this my fault??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - So... I think I've totally screwed up my chances with a girl, and want to know if there is ANY chance that she'll even consider dating me now. Thing is, she's apparantly a manipulator sort of. If she knows a guy likes her, she uses it to get them to do stuff for her e.g. car... (275 words)

I told my gf I'm not ready to live together and she said "Im not sure how much longer I can wait."

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of four years is ready to get a place together. However, I am not. I just got my own place and moved out of the dorms, I have great roomates, and really am not sure if Im ready for such a leap in our relationship. She however, is dead set on the idea, and when ... (185 words)

I think my bf didn't want me to meet his friend b/c he did something he wasn't supposed to while on a trip.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - Am i being paranoid.. my b/f went on a trip last year for a week..he said he hung out with mostly with this one guy from work and this other guy..a lot of the other guys are older...but recently one of the older guys calling to go ride motorcycles possibly and i would go t... (207 words)

I think my ex still cares about me, but it seems like he's trying to hurt me at the same time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and i havent been together now for 2 yrs, but still talk every now and then. Hes been with someone for 2 yrs also.(off more than on) We never really had closure to our relationship. One night he asked me back out, then told me he had to take another girl to her homecomi... (1101 words)

I think she'd be better off w/out her bf, but is that b/c I'm jealous? Should I ask if she holds feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi all, this is a long story so i'll try to keep it brief. Basically, about 9 months ago me and this girl became friends. i did know her before from college, but never really spoke to her. after a while of being friends and getting along really well, she admitted that she used... (270 words)

He helping his best friend open a strip club and this really bothers me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, Im having a problem or should i say a crisis in my relationship with my boyfriend of 6 months. Our relationship has been kinda rocky for about a month now and i don't know what to do. Im really stressed and i feel so alone in this whole thing. Everytime i try to talk to my ... (279 words)

She doesn't pay me much attentions anymore and I don't want to lose her. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a huge problem ! OK, me and my girlfriend are going on 6 months with each other. in the beginning thing were great. We hung out more we talked more and our love life was good. but recently she has taken things down a few notches and we don't talk for long on th... (279 words)

He used to stare at and be obsessed w/ me - now he ignores me! What happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,i'm a 17 year old girl with a big dilemma about a guy. well,last year i started my first year of college and in my history and law lectures there was this guy who used to stare at me. he was seriously sexy in an intense way but all the girls were all over him cos he was ... (161 words)

What can I do to get rid of the acne scarring left behind on my face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

- I have acne scarring and want to do something about it. It's not bumpy or anything, they're just red marks where serious spots were on my cheeks. Does anyone know of any treatments that work for this kind of scar? Thanks... (41 words)

Do you think he's been cheating with the girl from his 3-week training couse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am unsure whether to trust my boyfriend of one year. I knew about my boyfriend before we started seeing each other and I know he has cheated on one girlfirend with someone from Spain and dumped the English Girlfriend eventually to get together with the Spanish girl, but he ... (297 words)

She sent me her pic, but I deleted it w/out looking. Since, I found it online and want to call. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (?) - this girl saw my picture online and got my number. she kept calling and texting asking for me to go out with her. i kept saying i dunno and i wanna see her pic. she agreed. i deleted the picture without seein it coz my mate nearly saw it. but she has stopped texting and calling ... (114 words)

She's 15. Should I wait or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello to anyone that replies to this question I really need some advice. I'm 19 years old and my girlfriend is 15.We'be been going out for 6 months and recently talked about going all the way as it were. I want to know whether I should wait or not. I really dont know what to ... (58 words)

I'm in love with my cousin and he broke it off w/ me to be w/ my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am still in love with my cousin. i lost my virgity to him and were togther for 2years behind close doors. he stopped everything recently claming he could not take it because he wanted to be with me the way he should and now he's dating a friend of mine. he's moving on and he ... (75 words)

Having such a hard time getting over my break-up...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so stupid posting on here. But, I am so distraught. I know that no one can really say one thing to make me feel better but I need a helping hand. I am going to see a counselor, too. But, I am falling. I had a break up a couple of months ago. I am not doing well at all. I ... (156 words)

I feel I can't trust my bf, but am I just being a clingy gf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, i just need some friendly and honest advice. I'm 18 years old and have been with my Boyfriend for nearly 2 and a half years. he's in his first university which is a big (difficult) change for both of us, at the beginning things were great, but i was a bit paranoid ... (127 words)

I love my boyfriend, but I don't think he feels the same about me anymore. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

- i'm in a relationship that i thought is so perfect but it seems that is not the case. i love my boyfriend so much but it seems that is not how he feels about me at least that is what he is making me think. his behaviour lately has been on and off and this is something that ... (127 words)

My husband and I are perfect, except for the sex. He said I could have other partners so long as I came back to him... but now I've fallen in love with one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can you offer me some advice. I am married and have been with my husband for 5 years. We have one 2 year old boy and I am 6 weeks pregnant with our second child. We are happy together and we are made for each other but he just does not do it for me anymore (sexuall... (251 words)

It doesn't feel like my boyfriend and I are in a proper relationship.How do I bring it up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

- I'm 18 and my 'boyfriend' is 22. I'm waiting for the 'all-clear' from him. We met in June 2006 and then in September I found out he only saw 'us' as sex. So I dumped him. Then in November out of the blue he texted me asking how I was. Now I thought it was over between us so I ... (340 words)

My libido has gone and the porn on his PC has only made me more upset!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My sexual libido has gone. ive been with my bf for over 2 years now and recently moved in with him. I ve also put on weight so i dont feel sexy anymore or comfortable in his presence (i dont even like getting changed infront of him). now ive found loads of porn on his comp... (108 words)

I feel relief... not tears!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have finished with my partner, he was a lazy, critical, unemployed pig whilst I worked, did the housework, childcare everything basically! I havent cried yet tho could it be cos Ive cried buckets in the past? I feel relief if anything! ... (43 words)

I've got this girl's number but I'm scared to call her! I don't know what to say. Please help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, the other night at a concert i got this girls number and have yet to call her. i mean i like her and all, she is an awesome girl, but i don't know if she likes me back, you know wat i mean. i asked for it and she gave it to me. but i dont know what to say or anything. i'm ... (95 words)

My ex gf has moved on, she wants me to leave her alone. It hurts so bad! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6287 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend broke up recently after 11 months, we fought a lot, bt we always seemed to make up. We both did things we weren't proud of, but recently she decided she wanted it to be over. She went out within a few days and has already kissed someone else, even though ... (161 words)

I feel like I'm being used! Where do I stand with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Where do I stand? My partner and I have been dating for just over 4 months but it seems now that I am always chasing her.I see no future unless she lets me into all aspects of her life. Her parents have decided to move abroad and they only decided to tell her a mo... (234 words)

Does anyone know any websites regarding sex education or masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

- I need help. I'm 20 live in the UK and have had virtually no sex education. It was poorly talked about in class, and I'm too embarrassed to talk to my parents about it. Can anyone give any websites about sex ed, masturbating etc.... (44 words)

My gf has been very graphic about her past, now the images are stuck in my head and it's too much for me. Should I end the relationship?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6287 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I've been seeing a girl for around 6 months now. We met at a works do and after a few drinks we got closer and we got very close to sleeping together. I'd never slept with someone in a situation like that so backed off - even though she made it obvious she was prepare to h... (286 words)

I used fake pics on myspace and met a guy. He knows the truth, but loves me for my personality. But now, he wants nothing to do with me.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently met a fantastic man over the net (myspace) but i made the stupid mistake of using someone elses pics as im a little insecure on how i look! we chatted over the phone for 4 months and hes just found out about me lying over the pictures.....he said he'd fallen in love ... (224 words)

My parents are so judgemental. I have a new bf and am afraid of what they may think.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an issue. I am sort of dating this guy, who is 29 years old, and I am 20. He is so incredibly nice and wonderful, and I do enjoy his company and how everything is going. However I am paranoid about what my parents might think of him as they are so judgemental, beca... (126 words)

Do you think I stand a chance of getting him to give us another go ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - PLease help. My boyfriend broke up with me a couple of months ago, although I begged him to change his mind he said he couldnt. The reason he broke up with me is cos he was worried that he couldnt see a long term future for us. BAsically, he was always v independent whil... (226 words)

Not sure if I need this as a piece off my chest or I need advice!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't know if I need advice or just to speak my peice. My wife and I have been married for 5+ years. Durring which we have ebbed and flowed to the point that I would beleive at times she has another relationship. This is the only night of the week we are together and we spent ... (229 words)

My Ex-Girlfriend is lying, I want to confront her but how without letting on that I've been spying!!!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

- My Ex Girlfriends Lies yesterday (tue 23rd) my ex girlfriend walks through the door after work to say she got a phone call from a lad from manchester a friend of hers so i thought nothing of it at first until i noticed she was trying to hide her phone away from me. afte... (698 words)

It was my first time sex, we used a condom, but im worried about the "wet bit" is this a concern ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - The first time I had sex was yesterday. I just got off my period 3 days ago so there is a lower risk of pregnancy. We used a condom and he seemed to know what he was doing. However, between my butt it was extremely wet. Could this have just been from him slipping out of me once ... (97 words)

I cant ignore the fact shes got another guy as shes the only one I like! What can I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i had a girlfriend and we broke up but i still have feelings for her. right now she is going out with another guy and i would like to ignore it but i cant because she is the only person at school that i like. is there any way to get around this?... (54 words)

He says he like me more than his girlfriend, is he playing games or should I meet him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy who already has a girlfriend but i was talking to him way before he ever knew her.we met over myspace we've been talking over the phone for over a month and he would always want to meet me but i was always scared to meet him due to rejection.he would always call ... (173 words)

During sex, is laughter a normal thing to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - During Sex, is Laughter normal? Understand that until recently I was a virgin and all I knew of sex I gleaned from pornography. I was having sex with my new gf and I started laughing uncontrollably. She asked what was so funny like I'd offended her. My reply was it was the n... (92 words)

I want to have a sexual relationship with my straight best friend. How do I go about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm straight (slight bi tendencies but I prefer women)and I have a straight best friend named Adam who I've been having sexual fantasies about since we were in high school. Lately, I have been doing it more and more frequently. We have both been with only women but a mutual ... (90 words)

I find condoms desensitizing, and it kills my mood for sex--any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend used to be on the pill, but currently is not. I am not sure how long she has been off it. Currently we use condoms, but I really hate them. Now we would be safe and get tested if she were to go back on the pill. When we talked about it, she explained that it is ... (184 words)

Gf left me for someone she just met! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What can i do when my girlfriend of 6years leaves me for someone whom she just met??... (17 words)

Partner has erection problems..is he no longer interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

24 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - sometimes my partner does not get an erection does this mean he no longer fancies me and sometimes when he is aroused it becomes soft for no reason... (28 words)

She wants us to be more intimate. What does she mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has told me that she wants our relationship to be more intimate, what does that mean and what can i do to be more intimate?... (27 words)

Odd things happen when I masturbate..is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

24 January 2007 (M)

- When I masturbate, sometimes white stuff comes out and my testicles are "hard like" when it happens yet sometimes if i have been doing it often in a short period of time (eg. 3rd time in 1 day) my testicles are soft and a clear stuff comes out. Is this normal and what is it?... (55 words)