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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

His Mom is an alcoholic and he's depressed as a result, causing me to worry! How can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriends mum is an alcoholic. She openly drinks in front of others but doesnt think she has a problem and claims that a "few" glasses of wine relax her after work. she can easily have a whole bottle to herself and regularly buys between 4 and 6 bottles of wine to "stock ... (437 words)

I told her about my affair with a married women and she was upset! Have I lost her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

20 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I like a girl but i don't know if she will ever feel the same as i upset her before. I first met this girl about five years ago. She was a friend of my sister and we started going out mainly as a group of four and although we seemed to get on well we never really got thing... (444 words)

He's moving and I will miss him so much! How do I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - theres 4 of us and we are all great friends. one of them said that he is leaving to move some where else. that means we wont be able to see each other no more. all of us were really good friends but me and him are closer. what should i do since im going to miss him so much... (98 words)

My husband puts more effort into pleasing his dad than pleasing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - why does my husband seem to constantly feel the need to please his dad? he puts so much time and energy into it that he has none left for me and he also works for his dad. he is almost forty so i find this odd. he is always so exhausted when he gets home we really dont ... (144 words)

Ready for divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you know when your ready for DIVORCE? Both financially and emotionally?... (13 words)

Should I forget about the work guy or finish my long term relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I fancey this bloke at work and slept with him once. i know now he likes me and i like him. He is not making any further moves because his friend likes me. The other problem is im with someone else and have been for 6 yrs its getting very boring i dont know if i love him an... (109 words)

Met this new guy but don't what to do with the current bf. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey every1, I have a problem I have been with my bf for about 3 years and things are Ok but i have recently (3 months) meet this new guy and we have become quite close and my feeling are all over the place, My bf i rele close wit my family n stuff so i rele dnt noe what to do. ... (65 words)

He stares at me a lot..so how do I know if he really likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hey, i need some help! there is this guy, he is in my class but we don't talk toghther but there is eye contact between us! when i walk for example to throw soemthing in the garbage as coming back to my seat i notice him looking at me! so i need some further advice for me to ... (119 words)

How do you walk away from someone you love a lot but can't get along with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have recently broke up from my lesbian lover,i totally love her but we just cant get on,we just dont understand each other,how do you walk away from some1 u totally love but cant be with,no matter how we tried to make things work,we couldnt,now i need to walk away,but how do ... (56 words)

We brke up..how do I make him regret what he did? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well my boyfriend and i have recently broke up, he dumped me on aim!..we were fighting because he was wid a girl and lied about it..then he is on the phone wid one of my best friends like ervynight and she the first one he i/ms...and now her and her b/f broke up he is tellin me ... (123 words)

I'm wondering-is there potential with this guy and how can increase the attraction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All This is a follow up question to my previous "dating drama". Background: My date - He's 41, tells me he is single and used to be a commitment phobe, but now has overcome this and is no longer fearful of commitment(!) He is incredibly busy - works 7... (731 words)

We broke up but he said he misses me but he hasn't replied to any of my texts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so heres the problem.. i was with this guy for 5 months and we both liked each other alot until one day he stopped talking to me.. it jus ended like that. I was devestated but i eventually moved on and realized if this guy was gunna hurt me it wasnt worth it. So like 4 m... (166 words)

My BF broke up with me because an operation might make him lose his testicles!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, My boyfriend made exams and has an inguinal hernia and several cysts and will need surgery where he may loose his testicles and gain Erectile disfunction. He hid everything from me and just broke up with me giving me no reason. Finally he told me why and Im miserable, ... (114 words)

I have fallen for my friend, should I take the risk and tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

20 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a teenage male who has a lot of mates who just use me. I finally found someone who actually cares about me and I feel strongly about her as well. I have feelings for her and we always joke about things (sexual or otherwise) so i dont know if she feels the same way about me. ... (139 words)

He says he likes me but he stood me up and he ignores me...should I dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid ive been going out with this guy for several weeks i fancy him ( a bit )and he says he fancie me however he hardly ever talks to me and theres no physical contact what so ever.hHe manages to talk to my best freind fine .Im not sure whether to wait around or to dump ... (74 words)

He sucks at sex... comes to soon, lies on top of me, never brings me to orgasm... what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know whats wrong with my boyfriend - he's really bad at sex. We have sex daily but he comes so quickly. He comes within 3 minutes and it's really frustrating because obviously I need more than that. We will end up having sex like 3 times a day because i'm not satisfied ... (187 words)

The ex gf and I still sleep together! Should we try to make a go of it again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

20 January 2007 (M)

- Werid Ex Girlfriend Get Jealous and then deletes txt out of her phone y? my ex girlfriend on wednesday night told me " mark u need to move on meet some new people sleep with someone new because i don't wanna feel guilty that i will move on and your not " so i took her advice ... (669 words)

What would you make of a disappearing condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - If you counted condoms one time at your b/f's place AND was pretty damn sure you counted right and said 9 to yourself and then another time count them and you are pretty damn sure one was missing..would you automatically assume your b.f was cheating? My thoughts are a person ... (71 words)

Should i still allow him to come over for sleep-overs hoping he would change his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I like a colleague at work very much. He thinks of me as a good friend too. Anyway, he slept in my house the whole of last week and all the sleep-overs were platonic. The farthest we got to was a tangled mess of limbs last night. While we're idly chatting, i told him that i've ... (127 words)

My girlfriend is a nymphomaniac and it makes me edgy when we're apart... is she making music with other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

20 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My GF has a REALLY high sex drive i mean whenever night or day she is ALWAYS up for it. We have sex everyday even sometimes twice a day. She's had loads of one night stands. 15 guys that she can remember (maybe more) and she's 19yrs. she told me sex to her is just somethin... (220 words)

My girlfriend cries in public !

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

20 January 2007 (M) - Last night whilst out for a meal, my girlfriend of just over a year began too cry randomly. This is now the second time she has cried in public and the fourth she has cried in front of me. I had not seen her for a week before this so had obviously missed her. We had a few ... (321 words)

I slept with him but havent heard from him since ..why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i met a guy for a first date.he's 28 and im 25.we got on really well. you could easily tell we we're comfortable with each other, he told my best mate before we met that he wanted a gf.so durring the date we jusy went with the flow, both thinking whatever happens, happens, he ... (279 words)

long distance break up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age - I have been having a long distance relationship now for aout 3 month. my question is one weekend i got a strange e-mail well i tried to call and i guess i called to much now he says he needs time to reaccess the relationship so i broke it off. I miss him will he ever get in ... (67 words)

Is this normal as part of rough foreplay!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - bit of an embarresing question but im really worried. if foreplay is too rough is it normal to get a friction type rash around you clitirus. also i always seem to be really red and swollen after sex which flares up over the next few hours and sometimes takes days to die down. ... (82 words)

My husband takes me for granted so I cheated on him with a guy at work. But this guy is married aswell. Who should I choose? My husband or the married guy at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 20 years to a guy who takes me completely for granted, we have no kids because he doesn't want any (I do!)Just lately I have been attracted to another man at work. I got a new job working in the same office as this man, I have known him for years and ... (170 words)

Should I mention my "fordyce spots" on my penis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

20 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have lots of these spots on my penis. Ive researched it and they are called fordyce spots. Ive met a girl who is new at my school, weve been getting on great and its very clear that its going to lead to more. Weve both never had sex before and putting it bluntly im quite ... (96 words)

He lies to me about everything ..why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend cheated on me in past but now we are back together. Whats bothering me is that he continues to tell white lies ALL the time - like if i say are you still at work he'll say yes but then at end conversation he'll say no he's at home. Or he'll ring me after a ... (143 words)

Four years and four million reasons not ot trust her !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Help! Very confused! I really hope someone answers this question as i feel like banging my head against a birck wall.I met my girlfriend whilst in the first few months of an attempt at university. We got together very quickly and it was the first serious relationship for both... (931 words)

My girlfriend is going away can i trust her ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend around 9 months now and we are totally in love. However she has recently decided that she wants to go and work abroad for the summer for around 6 months (shes only 18 so wants to live her life a little which I understand) but the thought of her ... (194 words)

I'm 14 and having Quads ..please help !

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with my boyfriend daniel for 1 year. and last year when i was 13 we decided to have sex. we used the pull-out method but it obviously didn't work. i kept on being sick so dad took me to the doctors. that was when they told me that i was pregnant. with four babies. da... (186 words)

She's dumped me but says she still loves me... can I bounce back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl friend of one year has decided to end our relaionship. She's says that I won't change, and dosn't believe me when I say I will. We have had fights over the same thing many times. We had plans to be married and now she says she dosn't see a future with me. I can't ... (88 words)

When I asked him out he said "let's get to know each other better, first". Is this his polite way of saying No?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

- ive liked this guy for a while now (about 10 months) and he claims he liked me the same amount of time but when ever one was singel the other was taken and finally after 10 months we both single. we have flirted loads and had a few kisses. last night when we was walking to get ... (128 words)

He's gone from my life and I can't move on-in case he comes back! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this "lad" got talking online about a year ago now and we fell for each other. We live about 5 and a half hours away from each other also we became best friends weve been threw alot together and stuck by each other through thick and thin. Weve only ever met/seen each ... (125 words)

After I found out my wife was going out kissing women, our sex-life has died and not restarted!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (M)

age - I have been married to my wife for 19 years. We have 3 children and have had a great sex life. I started doing artwork on the computer most nights last year and she felt I was neglecting her. She started going out with friends and I started suspecting she was playing away. I ... (145 words)

Thought I was completely over my ex, until we met up again. She single so what Should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex whom I dated for a year and a half broke up with me about 7 months ago. It turned out she left me for someone else which was heartbreaking at the time, but now im over it. Anyways I stumbled across my ex after not talking to her in the longest time randomly today. What ... (300 words)

Fallen for my therapist, but she's never been with a woman before...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - Hi there, I wrote a long time ago about being friends with my therapist. We had the agreed time apart between our professional and now private friendship so that it was 'ethical'. We have a great relationship and we really get each other as people. The only problem is that ... (201 words)

Do I risk hurting my sensitive bf and date this other guy that I have fun with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i dated this guy for two weeks but its still very early..and i like his freind before i met him..my bf is really sweet, but kinda clingy,and hes very sensitive..and i really hate to hurt him! and his freind is so fun to be around..he makes me laugh..and hes very talented. h... (150 words)

What the best way is to find a boyfriend as I am looking for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a few questions to ask. For one, I have a friend that is a guy. I think that he likes me, but I have no feelings for him that way at all. I don't want to say anything to him, because I am not sure if he does. The thing is, I want to flirt with other guys or maybe even ... (116 words)

I love my bf but...Is this older guy at work making a move on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - I am 17 and have been dating my boyfriend who is 2 years older than me for 7 months. I absolutely love him and don't see any other guy as possibly being right for me. However, there is a 21 year old guy I work with that flirts with me. The other night I had a dream that I was ... (141 words)

What's the best way to apologise?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (M)

- I'm wondering what you think is the best way to apologize to your significant other???... (15 words)

Did our landlord have the right to just "pop by unannounced"!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (?) age 36-40 - Ok, I moved into my first apartment about six months ago. It's a small studio apartment, which means it has one big living room, a kitchen, and a bathroom. That's it. When my friend moved back from out of state, I agreed to have her live with me.(I haven't told Landlord about ... (354 words)

I told her I wanted marriage-she went cool and broke off with me! I want her back...advice please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

20 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How can I win her back? I've been going out with this girl for almost 7 years, then out of the blue she broke up with me. She stated that she loves me, she can’t marry me and that I should find someone better then her. I stated that I’m old enough to make that decision and I lo... (338 words)

Does he explode?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - what happens when you overlove a guy ... (10 words)

Is this guy jealous and/or 'marking his territory'? Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age - A guy I dated found out I was dating someone else, and now he is acting more interested in me. Is he jealous? Is he "marking" his territory? ... (28 words)

I'm in such emotional turmoil over this guy! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, so here's the story. There's a guy I met a few years back while I was doing a project for school. Really nice guy, kinda reminds me of myself. Semi-emotionally troubled, confused, etc. The only problem is, while we did work on the project together, he lived about 4 hours ... (280 words)

I only see him 2 days a week and I feel it is not enough! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

20 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hello. my drama is that i have been dating this guy for three months but he lives in new jersey and i live in new york and we both work full time jobs. i only get to see him on weekends. it seems like he reserves fridays for his friends and then saturday and sunday for us. i ... (120 words)

Moved to NYC and fell in love with my real estate agent... so why wouldn't she meet for a date?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

20 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I hope I get some answers to my question here b/c I’m not getting any answers from this woman. I am in my mid-30s and I just moved to NYC from Midwest following a great professional job that pays very, very well. While I was looking for an apartment in NY, ... (280 words)