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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I getting an orgasm or steps leading up to one?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - ok so sry if this gets a bit in detailed but im not sure if i get an orgasm or if its just a little thing before i reach orgasm. so after a little while i will start to shake (writhe) and my breathing will increase and i will get really wet then there will be a shiver up m... (134 words)

I just want to be happy with the girl I love, but am struggling. Can I achieve that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I've been living with my gf for a few years now and her behaviour has changed rapidly.She has 2 children from a previous who i have a good relationship with. she recently stated she wants no more children now but did when i didn't!Instead she treats the dog like our child. ... (218 words)

Do the labia grow during puberty? Concerned parent.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - I'm a little concerned: my 8 yr old daughter told me she had a rash on her thighs and asked me to look. It simply looked like a heat rash to me, but I noticed that she doesn't seem to have labia. Will these grow during puberty? ... (51 words)

We get on so well and I want to take it further. Why did he say he liked someone else though?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - There's this guy at my school, that i really like,and i have known him since September, and we're really good friends.I was convinced that he liked me too, until his friends teased him about fancying me, and he said that he fancied someone else (carefully avoiding my eyes, ... (185 words)

Met an attractive man at a party. He lives a fair distance away, but should I contact him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - Thank you in advance to all who answer this. I broke up with my partner about a year ago. I went to visit friends last week and spotted an attractive man across a room. I noticed him but decided to leave the party anyway. He followed me outside. We went for coffee. Things got a ... (242 words)

Once i'm triggered, i'm really aggressive! How do I stop doing this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 51-59 - Hi there, i have just failed in another relationship after 6 months, my problem is i become very jealous, insecure, etc when my partner and i are in a social environment, i try to drink before hand to help me relax, but then once something triggers me off there is no stopping ... (98 words)

I want to let him down easy when breaking up. How do I o this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 14 and i've been dating this guy for a few weeks now, and when we first started going out i thought i realli liked him and i thought it was going to last, but i've started liking other boys and flirting with them behind is back (not doing anything more of course), i no this ... (96 words)

She broke up with me, but still frequents all the bars I go to. My heart's broken, I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - I (21) was with the girl (24) for the last three months, she chased after me all summer n finally when i caught on we got together n were really good together.. we ended up starting a relationship and we did fall in love, she told me she loved me very early on n said she was ... (411 words)

Should I text my ex I've been sleeping with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6329 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My ex and i split 8mths ago. We've slept together twice since. He came for dinner a week ago and text to saw it was lovely. I've not spoken to him since. He left my place of work on thurs. Doubt i'll see him again. We saw each other and neither said goodbye. Should i bite the ... (109 words)

Do I have Seasonal Affective Disorder? Does anyone know more about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) - I don't know why but recently I have felt a little low, and a bit down. I have been quite tired a lot too and felt worn out. I have been working quite a bit, and my job is very physical with lifting heavy goods. I go too the gym three times a week too. I'm just lacking ent... (215 words)

I like them all! I'm torn as to who to pick..what do you all think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) - This girl I work with told me her friend likes me, and her friend is very attractive and cute. However, I like the girl I work with as well. Unfortunately, her friend has to go back to school next week, so I'm torn now to decide who to pick. Also, I told one of my best frien... (139 words)

I cant take his lies anymore. He says he will change but he doesnt. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - have been dating my boyfriend on and off for about four years now. he is a good guy and i love him, and he still tells me he loves me. we have had our problems but usually we work things out. recently though he did something that made me feel very upset and disappointed. he ... (257 words)

She's special to me and she's dealing with the grief of losing someone close...how can I further help her with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - about a month ago i met a really special woman! She is the one i have been waiting for, and it just feels realy perfect when we are together! We both feel the same way, but about a year ago her boyfriend died in a accident, and she is still battling to get to terms with it... ... (146 words)

He keeps playing games with me...why can't he leave me alone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) - Please help! My boyfried of 6 months dumped me without any warning or explanation....6 months ago. I was madly in love with him and really thought he felt the same way. Anyway, we recently got back in touch...we met up, and whilst I was trying to be cool with him....he... (230 words)

Am I suffering from a stress rash and if so, how do I get rid of it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

6 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - does anybody suffer with this problem because its really getting me down. when i go out with friends have sex with my boyfriend of 2 yrs or just at college i get a rash on my face which travels down my neck to my chest ive been told its a stress rash but i cant get rid of it im ... (64 words)

Broke it off with this great guy due to distance...did I do the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Hi im louise. Well were do I start, im 16 years old, was going out with my boyfriend for 6 months. I broke up with him because he lives a good bit away from me, you have to know one thing about him tho, he sooo quiet, but i liked that as he wasnt a jerk like alot of fellas i... (144 words)

She lies, she drinks , she says hurtful things--what can I do about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - ive recently split up with my partner of 5 years,we have a 3 month old baby boy. She has always had a bit of a drinking problem, not so much an addiction, but when she starts she get carried away and on occasions has got violent and may or may not have been unfaithful. Yet ... (348 words)

I love my bf to bits but I cant help comparing him to my ex! What's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

6 January 2007 (F)

- hi, im sorry if this is abit of a silly question but its been bothering me alot. im 22 y/o and have been with my current bf for 8 months now, we got together 3 months after my ex boyfriend dumped me. Recently ive been really down, and thinking about my ex alot and i still do... (162 words)

Im only 13 and watching porn sites. Is this normal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I need some help. I've been looking at porn sites, but i'm only 13. i do it almost everyday, but a few weeks ago i stopped. Just last week i' starting to view them again. is this normal?... (38 words)

I am worried that my relationship is stagnating sexually! Any good advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

6 January 2007 (F)

- I am worried that my relationship is stagnating sexually because we are both so exhausted from overwork and job and family stress. I don't want us to evolve into a cozy, sexless beer drinking friendliness. Ugh! Please help! I barely have time to wash my hair and do laundry a... (65 words)

Am I a lesbian. Please need advice.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 26-29 - hello i am quite young and i do not know if i am a lesbian or straight i really want to be straight but when i see pictures of naked girls i want to have lesbian sex and things does this mean im a lesbian? please help... (47 words)

I'm 17, he's 27. I'm falling for him, but know it can't happen. Any opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Well this is the first time I seek help on anything of this such, however I do believe it needs to be done. As the story goes: I am a 17 year old female, soon to be 18 this September. As far as my dating history goes I have always been the younger one, I've never dated an... (314 words)

I'm a 47 year old male and cannot under any circumstances gain an erection. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age - iam a 47 year old male and cannot under any circumstances gain an erection.i have tries pills and pumps but to no avail..........what can i do??... (26 words)

Should I still remain in a marriage that I am in, just for the satisfaction of my family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - I have been married for 18 years and we have 3 teenagers. I have only been "content" in my marriage, not really happy. I have been friends with a another man for about 7 years. He was in a bad marriage and is now going through a divorce. Seven months ago our friendship went to ... (242 words)

I want to move with him abroad but now am not sure if he's a cheater or a liar!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, i,m having a long distance relationship with a wonderful guy who i love dearly and am thinking of moving abroad to start a life with. Recentley i ve been getting parranoid that he has slept with someone else,as he started to act abit distant with me on the p... (243 words)

I don't understand why he doesn't want to sleep with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - hi, i wrote about this problem i have a while ago and while i got some answers im still confused so i thought id ask again! rite. iv been going out with my boyfriend for around three years. he is a really nice guy and we get on really well together. we live close to each ot... (575 words)

I'm in love with my best friend's brother and might be pregnant! I have no idea what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Im a 16 yrs old and Im in love with my best friends brother who is 25. Im so scared because I lost my virginity to him. I am freaking out. I think Im pregnant. I cant talk to my mom or dad because it will hurt them that I had sex with a 25 year old. Also I have been sore down ... (76 words)

Does no contact really work when trying to get someone back? I'd like to hear some experiences please!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age - my partner dumped me,and i want her back so im doing the no contact for 2 reasons,1 in the hope that with time to think she may feel differently,and 2 if that fails it will mean im on the way to recovery,my question is has anybody done the no contact and does it ever work,or ... (72 words)

We just got together for sex, but he said he likes me! I like him too, but should I just get out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Please help me!I recently started university, had a one night stand with a guy two years older, it was great!so he came back a couple more times. We text each other in the day quite a lot too, Plus he always rings me when he is drunk, even if we are both at home which is 60 ... (188 words)

My ex and our baby are living w/ me. I've found new love, but my ex says she'll move out and never let me see the baby again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - a year ago i had a baby with my now ex partner.we split up.After a while she had no where to live so i agreed that they could both live with me till she got somewhere else as i would never see my child on the streets. I have now found new love but my ex says that she will move ... (81 words)

Accused him of cheating from the start-he thinks I'm crazy! Do I leave or stay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Ive been with this guy, for about a year and 5months. recently someone said that they saw him with someone else. so a couple of weeks ago i kinda watched outside his house to try and catch him in the act. he said i was crazy and we should slow things down, now we talk maybe tw... (84 words)

He plans to visit strip clubs when we are on holiday in Amsterdam. I am offended by this-what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age - Dear Cupid I am a 54 year old woman and have been married for over thirty years. Later in the year l am going for a short break to Amsterdam with my husband and another couple. I was really looking forward to my trip as l have been there many times and really love Amst... (177 words)

I am in love with my brother's wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 51-59 - i am in love with my brothers wife. I am going threw a devorce with my wife she left me for a woman but that is another store. i t all started back 7 years ago we all met at the race track at the same time. i fell in love with her then her and my brother got maried about 2 ... (324 words)

He found out I was unfaithful in a past relationship..is this why he's gone cool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - hi I have been in my current job now since the summer, which is not a permanent fixture. There is this guy who works there who i have fancy alot, and is ten years older than me, im 21 and he is 31, and we are both single. He is everything i could want in a guy, he is sensi... (336 words)

I know it makes you blind, but is this another side effect?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

6 January 2007 (M)

- Is it true that when you masturbate it kills thousnads of brain cells?... (13 words)

I'm not confident with guys and worried..I am way out of his league! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hey, um ok so i like this guy and he likes me, he loves partying and having a drink, he has had a lot of girlfriends in the past- some quite serious relationships too. the thing is that i dont drink, hardly ever go out, not very confident with guys and im worried that im way ... (72 words)

Worried about partying with her friends when she's slept with half of them... and I'm a virgin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Im desperate to know whats going on. Im so confused about so many things in my current relationship. First off, I am 18, and yes, you may say everything you want about being young and having relationships, but love comes in many forms. Anyways, i've dated plenty of women, but ... (208 words)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (F)

- i like this guy at school but hes really really really popular, popular enough to make a girl he dated for 8 months the most popular girl in school! and everyone evnvies her but i dont want that, id rather not be popular im happy the way i am but hes the perfect guy he talks to ... (205 words)

My boyfriend's parents constantly belittle and bully him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Is it healthy for a relattionship when your boyfriends parents put him down in front of his girlfriend all the time by publicly insulting him even infront of a large family gathering? Example 1: His parents asking his girlfriend You want to go out with "THIS" and acutally poi... (209 words)

bf has a psychologicial issues and won't get help. Any suggestions of what I can do to help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My BF of 8 years won't go see a councilor about his psycological issues. Is there anything I can do at home to help him?? He suffers from inferiorty and guilt complex, phobias, fears and some anxiety. Any recommendation to self help CD's/tapes is appreciated. Thanks!... (49 words)

Is excessive talking on the phone, affecting our relationship, here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 29-year-old male and I have been in love with female colleague of mine who I love truly. We have not had any sexual relationship as of yet and we just go out and have some nice time. We talk a lot and lot on phone and more often than not we end up fighting. We som... (105 words)

Have been unable to lose my virginity to my husband...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I've been married for a few months now and I can't lose my virginity I feel like it is something so traumatic that I cry. And I love my husband very much please help.... (34 words)

Should I back off? Should I send her flowers? What should I do!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I need you guys' help. I am 30 and my girlfriend who recently dumped me is 20. Don't ask me why but we just hit it off. Recently we have been arguing a lot lately and she has changed a lot over the last month and a half. Total time we have dated is three months. She said ... (485 words)

She needs compliments 'all the time' and it's draining me! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - please someone help! i think my gf is crazy. she thinks i look at other girls all the time but i dont and is really self concious. like for instance shes getting at me because i apparantly call her hot and not gd looking and so she thinks she isnt gd looking but i only call her ... (127 words)

My best friend tried to make the move on my gf at a party! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - hello, i am 15 years old, and i have been dating a girl for about 2 months. i really like this girl, but i'm not sure if she likes me. whenever we go on dates, she seems like she is kind of having a good time, but its always questionable to me. i haven't kissed her, and i don't ... (168 words)

I feel like he's only staying with me to spare my feelings... so should I break with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My fiance and I have been together for 5 years, and we've been long-distance that entire time - he is in the UK, I am in the US. In the beginning, we decided that the only way the relationship would work is if we planned at what point we would be able to be together ... (257 words)

All my trust in her was shattered when I found out she's still in touch with the guy she cheated with!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - A year ago I found out my girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me 2 years ago. It took time and I was heartbroken but I got over this and forgave her. Then I found out that she was still speaking to this guy - she had told me previously that she wasn't anymore. I asked her to stop ... (254 words)

After 5 years I am still completely crazy about him. Do I ust forget him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

6 January 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - With pain and in tears I'm writing this, feeling like my world has been torn to pieces. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We are both young (20 and 21), probably too youngh but it did work out well, we both love each other deeply and we still do. I was his 3rd ... (468 words)

I want revenge on my ex gf and best friend. Advice please before I do something dumb?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - My girlfriend cheated on me with my best-friend 3 days after she told me she was pregnant. Now they are living together. I want revenge, but i'm not going to jail. I don't know how to deal with it without getting my own back somehow. Please advise me before i do something ... (54 words)

He's separated with 2 teen kids. Am I nuts to consider a realtionship with this older man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6333 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) - Hi there, I am getting myself into a dilemma, and I need advise quick. I recently met a man who is 16 years older than me, has 2 teenage kids separated from his wife, and she seems to be living in the same house on and off...funny set up really. He says she doesn't want a ... (198 words)

Is she going to end it with me or should I just ask her whats wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - I have been going out with my girlfriend now for a litle over a month, we met at work but since then I no longer work there. I love being with her so much and I have very strong feelings for her. I have met her parents and a few of her friends (and she has told me they like ... (346 words)

His girlfriend hits him and his girlfriend's brothers might beat him... surely he'd be better with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - This is really getting me down.. i no i am only young but... i met a really nice boy on holiday... we connected really well... and we were all over each other... before anything got too serious he told me he had a girl friend at home... so i was a bit upset about that... but ... (109 words)

Is there any such thing as being too young for an long distance relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Is there any such thing as being too young for an LDR? I'm 18 years old, fresh college student, and I've recently become involved in a very very long distance relationship. I've waited a long time to be with this guy and now that I have something I don't want to throw it away ... (85 words)