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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

When he went for my penis I pushed him away! I now regret it..does this mean I am gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

26 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im confused. about 2 yrs ago i went on holiday with my cousin and 1 nite he started acting gay and wanted 2 do stuff with me. anyway i secretly wanted it but when he started 2 go 4 my penis i pushed him away pretending i didnt want it. we have barely spoken since then and ... (77 words)

Does this guys just want to friends or does he want more? Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

- This guy , seems to make a big effort to chat with me, like he'll talk to me on msn when he's offline , and look for ages in the play ground to find me . Does he just wanna be mates ? ... or ? ?... (47 words)

They both have said they like each other. Should I be annoyed with my best friend or my ex bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with this guy for 8 months like a year ago now, but we have been on and off since last June, but recently one of my mates told me that he liked her... we have been mates for ages, and she has been with her bf for a year and a half, so she told me that she didn't like ... (196 words)

I've been waiting forever but he still won't marry me! So should I call it off and marry this other guy who's offering?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been engaged for 1 1/2 years now to my fiancee, when i mention to him about getting married he goes to a bad mood so i just stop and keep my mouth shut cos i don't want any arguments.i feel he doesn't wanna talk about this, but for how long do I have to wait before he ... (210 words)

There was a slight misunderstanding between us but then she threatened to have me arrested!!! Is it just me or did she over react?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (M)

age - I am a divorced man, live alone, and have my kids every other weekend. There is a woman who lives a few doors down in my same complex. She appeared to be friendly, and we spoke occasionally outside when we ran into each other. The other night at 10:00pm she knocked on my ... (433 words)

I asked her if she would accept a Valentine's gift from me and she said NO! She sees me as a friend, but I love her. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I'm quite desperate. The fact is that I am in love with a colleague.We share quite a close relationship.We use to speak about our personal problems. In fact she is trying to get over a love affair and she does agree that I helped her a lot in getting over this. Lately I... (209 words)

She is having doubts about us. What can I do to reassure her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

26 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been out with my girlfriend for 2 years now. However the last few days she has been doubting us and thinking about finishing us. It is both of our first serious relationships and she says she is confused and is doubting everything. I think the main problem is that when ... (98 words)

How long does it take for people to fall in love with each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello im 16 and just started going out with my boyfriend. he is crazy about me. its just obvious. i really like him aswell. im just wonering how long does it take people to fall inlove with eachother?... (39 words)

Can I reach my girlfriends G-Spot without breaking her hymen?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

26 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is a virgin (no sexual intercourse yet) and I was wondering if it's possible to reach her Gspot with my fingers without breaking her hymen.... (27 words)

I'm a virgin but my girlfriend isn't... but I know what she's done with other guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

26 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is my first sexual partner, I've been in relationships before but choose not to have sex. The problem im having is dealing with the thought of my girlfriend and her previous sexual partners. I know their names and even what she did to one of them in the bedroom. I ... (69 words)

I really like this guy but would I look desperate if I make the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hello, hope you can help. Everytime I go down town I see this man I really fancy. He is the same age as me and goes to the same indie gigs as me and he always comes up to where we are standing up next to me at the bar but never says anything. My friends say he seems shy but I'm ... (115 words)

My girlfriend has gained weight, but if I say something she'll hate me! How do I tell her?!

This question has 50 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) - My girlfriend is gaining weight and won’t do anything about it. I need help with my communication. How can I help her? I have a wonderful girlfriend whom I’ve been dating now for the past 13 months. Since the day we met she has slowly been gaining weight and is looking ... (272 words)

I slept with my manager but later found out he was married! I'm gutted! Everyone at work is gossiping! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - Hi, My problem is I have recently started a new job about two months ago, which was going really well. However at the Christmas party I ended up sleeping with one of the managers. This was made worse by the fact that he is married and is alot older than me. We carried ... (168 words)

I give good advice, so why are my ratings bad?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear agony aunts, I am feeling a bit down at the moment. Why? Because like you I am an agony aunt but unfortunately my ratings have been going down and it makes me feel well (excuse my French)…“sh***y.” I don’t think I give bad advice so I don’t understand why someone would ... (324 words)

How do I get rid of my 'double chin' without surgery? Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m in my late 20s and not overweight, but I’ve noticed I’m getting a double chin! I’m developing low self esteem because of this. Does anyone know of a product I can buy for my double chin w/out surgery, or any exercises I can start doing. I’m in such desperate need of help ... (71 words)

How do I tell my fiance he should only invite close friends to our wedding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

- Ok so I am engaged and in the process of planning my wedding. I am working on the guest list and I am having some disagreements with my fiance. My fiance comes from a small town where everybody kinda knows everybody. He used to date this girl for 3-4 years in high ... (180 words)

I have split personalities, all of which are ruining my relationship! How do I show my partner the real me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I dont know what to do about my current situation, I've went through many hard times in my life, as most everyone does, and I feel emotionally "un-fit." I've been with my lover for almost a year and a half and we've also had our share of up's and down's. But ... (234 words)

I'm concerned about my friend, she's the 'no sex before marrige' type and yet she's willing to give herself up in a relationship that has no future. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

- HI. This is actually about a friend of mine, I hope that's alright. Also, while it is a long story, I'll do my best to keep it as brief and concise as possible. Ok, here goes... This friend of mine is almost 24. She has had two boyfriends, before the present one. Both of those... (667 words)

She finally agreed to go out with me! But how should I interpret this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have this friend of which I would like more, I get on very well with her and we often go out with her sister and husband of which are my best friends. I have asked her out a few times over last six months but she is busy or tired. However, this week she seemed a little down ... (92 words)

Had one relationship with a woman, in my life and feel too shy to approach other females. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

26 January 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am really nervous. I am 28 and have only been in relationship once (with a woman). I have however been curious yet too embarrassed to admit it and or even do anything about it. As hard as it is I've had a physical relationship as I feel shy to approach. What s... (65 words)

Do I try to make it work with my alcoholic husband?

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - O.K. here it goes......My husband is an alcoholic. When I fell in love with him it wasn't a problem. We met in our early 20's so we partied together, nothing uncommon. We have since had 2 boys (5 and 3) and I have matured and calmed down. He has only gotten worse. He has ... (295 words)

Can I learn to deepthroat?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

- my boyfriend says that the only time a girl is good at giving head is when she can deep throat. how do you do that? he's fairly large in the trouser department. 8 inches. so i'm guessing it wont be easy but i want him to enjoy it so i gotta learn how to do it since he says ... (123 words)

Can we be more than just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i kinda like this guy, the problem is hes 4 years older than me.And i dont know if hes into me.he knows my deppest thoughts and i know his,we have talked about our problems and i told him my deppest darkest secret,and he also trusted me and told me his past problems.Ive known ... (82 words)

I want to lose 1 and a half stone by August. Am I getting enough excersise?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

- I'm going on holiday in August, and I'm starting to excersise a bit more now. I go out for a mile run twice a week, and eat relatively healthily, eating chocolate about twice a week. I'm 5'7'' now, and want to get down to 8 stone by august. I'm currently 9 1/2. How long do ... (70 words)

I'm using the contraceptive implant - but do these symptoms mean that could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am on the contraceptive implant but i think that i could be pregnant. over the past week or two ive been bloated, constantly feeling ill and continuous heartburn and its hard to describe but my lower tummy feels strange. i got the implant nearly a year ago and since then ive ... (83 words)

I left my wife for another girl, but the other girl now refuses to give up her "lifestyle!"

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

26 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I recently left my wife, for a girl, I have been having an affair with for two years. she always promised to move to my part of the country, as I have children. Now, she refuses, because she can't bear to give up her life or lifestyle. This "lifestyle" among other ... (176 words)

After I helped her financially and the birth of our child, she texted me to say we were finished! I'm devistated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I met this girl at work. She admitted that she was with a woman with 2 children. we started relationship, got engaged and after 5 months she fell pregnant.7 months after the birth, after I helped her financially, and built our 'nest', she texted me to say we were finished. Then ... (113 words)

How do I get my new bf to stop being so clingy w/out pushing him away altogether?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am at university and in my final year. I have recently got a new boyfriend and he wants to see me all the time. How do i get him to chill out a bit but also not make him want to leave me as i really like him?... (49 words)

I'm attached to my guy on the side even though I think he may be using me. Should I walk away?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am 32yrs female, married, but have been having an affair with a 48yr old single guy. I am confused as I really like this guy alot, may be falling inlove with him, we have been seing one another for 4 months now, and had sex in the last 2 months twice. When we first met ... (236 words)

I'm still in love w/ my ex - but he's talking w/ my mate! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - right so this is kinda complicated but it's doing my head in. I USED to go out with this guy called Robert* and we've started getting close again, but he's talking to my mate Angela* and I found out they've been talking for ages now. It really pisses me off cause she knows ... (103 words)

He asked if I was happy about our split and I said yes. But I really want him back!! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - Oh guys I want my ex back so much. I posted about this the other day - I am 27, he is 30, we had a long distance relationship for two and a half years and he then called a break, saying he felt something was missing and wasnt sure if he could see us having a long term future... (244 words)

I don't get enough sex. Is it because I am too easy-going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

- My b/f and I have been together about a year and we do lots of things together, hang out, watch movies, go shopping, work on the house together. But sometimes I realize that he doesn't hold my hand, or look at me in a sexual way. We have sex, but it's only about once or twice ... (210 words)

I just want to know, what is love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) age 51-59 - I just want to know, what is love? I am sorry if this may sound like obvious to many people, but I don’t know any more what love means. I lost hope of love!! I thought I did know that, when I spent close to 2 years with my ex-partner, even though she convinced me so ... (396 words)

My friend told me she didn't like my ex - but she told others she did!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i went out with this guy for 8 months like a year ago now, but we have been on and off since last june, but recently one of my mates told me that he liked her... we have been mates for ages, and she has been with her bf for a year and a half, so she told me that she didnt like ... (195 words)

How can i tell if my gf is faking it??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

26 January 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I've been seeing a girl for a few months now and have been enjoying a mutually very fulfilling sex life with her. Then, one day she told me that she used to fake orgasms with previous partners and regarded herself as a pretty good faker. I asked if she ever faked with me.... (182 words)

I have symptoms of pregancy but tests are negative!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having symptoms of being pregnant and haven't had a period in a while then all of a sudden I had started bleeding. I have taken 2 home pregnancy tests both negitive. I don't know what to do should I take caution till I go to the doctor..?? ... (49 words)

Love at first sight...but I never got in touch!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What are you supposed to do when you've fallen in love with someone you've never "officialy" met? I'm a shy person, i never act on my feelings, and it always ends up eating me up inside... i don't want to be like that anymore, i want to change. I was at an aftergame party wi... (314 words)

I was home-schooled and now I'm back in class I know nothing about boys!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been homeschooling since grade 5,... i've decided to go back to school now because grade 11 is quite hard to homeschool (i am 1 grade ahead of my friends). There is this guy i REALLY like,... he's charming, sweet, good looking... everything any girl could ask for. But ... (113 words)

Should I have told her more about my cheating... or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey well i have made a big mistake. i cheated on my girlfriend and was unfaithful in the first month and a half of our relationship but after i realized how bad i felt i told her about it. she gave me a second chance and i am greatful, but i feel like because she doesnt know ... (92 words)

Struggling to cope with my girlfriend who is struggling to cope with her ME and fibromyalgia...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hello, my girlfriend has got M.E. (Myalgic Encephalopathy) and Fibromyalgia. I love her to pieces but recently, things have started to go downhill. i respect that she needs her time and her space but im finding this all quite hard to cope with now. at the start of our rel... (229 words)

We're planning to get married but he doesn't seem to desire me sex-wise...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now and plan to be married August of this year. We are both 34 years old. I work mostly days and him nights. We get along well for the most part. The main problem is sex actually. I want to make love at least twice a ... (142 words)

Can't stop beating myself up over my past cheating...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - 3 months ago, I cheated on my girlfriend of then, 4 months with a friend from high school. I told her and she decided to stay with me, but I know that I don't deserve it. I never expected her to forgive me. We had a fight the night before it happened and I was drunk, but I ... (125 words)

How can I go from A to B?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i like this girl right..lets name her A.. ok ive gone out with her for the past month or so. i really liked her. i mean REALLY really, loved her she seemd like the perfect person. Unfortunatly there is this other girl..named B..haha i got to know B a year ago ..whent out ... (255 words)

Check out these 11 reasons... does dis homie like me?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - It's kinda long but does dis homie like me Okay there is this guy at my school, and I want to know if he likes me, so here are some things that he has done: 1)2day he saw me gave me a hug, and told me that i was lookin clean 2day (coo, cute, tite), and then he said ohh as alwa... (439 words)

I have fallen for one of the managers where I work!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - I'm 21 and the guy i like is 31. Him and i get along great. He is a manager in a different departmant in the store that i work at so hes not my manager. Well since i talk to him alot someone had 2 get in the middle of my business and i know who it was but anyways she had to s... (229 words)

After 2 years we broke up but I still love him! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6313 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ME and my boyfriend have been Goin out for 2years and 8months and we broke up but he still tills me that he luv's me and still calls me but he just dont know wat he wants and i dont want to lose him, i love him so much wat do i do ... (53 words)

Will being on birth control give you a 'false' pregnancy reading?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Will being on birth control give you a 'false' pregnancy reading? I was just wondering, (uh, yea, lol) if when you are on birth control pills and you take a pregnancy test, will the reading be positive because of the hormones? What about if you're on the week where you don't ... (62 words)

I'm the only vgirl he knows that is still a virgin and I think he wants it! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

26 January 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone am 15 years old and am talking to this guy who is 17 years old. he says that am the only virgin he knows. he always wants to talk about ''sex''. he always wants to know what i think or what i do since am still a virgin. he is very open with me he practically ... (131 words)