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writes:I am sixteen years old and pregnant...my boyfriend is 15. I am sixth months and i am really starting to worry about the fact we dont live together. What do you think I should do? I dont want to move away from my mom and his mom says i can move in with him but he cant move in with me. I need some advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007): i understand what it's like to be young and pregnant. but i can tell you that just because you and the baby's father are not living together doesn't mean anything ya'll can still raise a child together in separate homes trust me somehow it all comes together when the baby comes.
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reader, babyblue20027 +, writes (19 January 2007):
babyblue20027 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt matters to me because i dont feel like we would have much of a family if we wasnt living together. I dont want to share my baby like divored parents does like i have the baby one week and he has the baby the next..and he will be 16 in a month. he does help me alot...he has gotten all the stuff for the baby that we have so far.
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reader, CarrieMagdelene +, writes (19 January 2007):
 Hey, good question! I think you should talk things over with your mother and your boyfriend and discuss moving in with him. If he has a job, he can support you a little, but that doesn't mean completely. :) You'll have to discuss expenses and sharing them with your mother, and also, be aware that you will probably see her very often. Visits and such, you know? Good luck! -Carrie
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (19 January 2007):
 What difference does it make if he lives with you or not, he's only 15. He can't support you. You need to worry about how you're going to raise a child. . . even though you're just a child yourself. . . .
I'd stay with your mother.
Good luck.
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