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He dumped me but still wants to be friends! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - Why would a guy who dumped you want to remain friends? My ex was my best friend but not long after we went out together, and particularly after we had sex, he lost all interest in me and became quite mean, but now he has been saying he wants to be friends with me. He knows ... (78 words

My brother and I was a new sibling! Is it wrong to ask our mum or dad to make one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 January 2007 (F - hey all, heres my question. i really want a baby brother or sis. i have one bro whos 12, and its only me and him, im 15....... i think dat a baby sis/bro would be really awesome but i dont think my dad would be to into the idea, my mother loves kids and wouldnt mind having a ... (106 words

I don't get any attention from him when his 3-year old daughter comes to stay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - My bf has a 3 year old daughter and has joint custody. When we have her it is like I am not even there. I don't want him to get upset because I know how much he loves and misses her when she is gone. But it is putting a strain on my relationship and making me jealous that I ... (217 words

He is going on a cruise with his best friend, who is female and not taking me with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ok here is the story... I meet this guy when I was in a bad marriage. A few days after meeting him, I finally got the courage up to file for divorce. Realizing without a current job it was not worth being miserable anymore. I started dating him and countless others, but he w... (475 words

I love my GF to pieces but I'm losing my feelings for her and I don't want to!

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16 January 2007 (M age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I have been with my girlfriend for about 2.5 years. We have a lot in common, she has a great personality, a sweet body, and I know she'd be a great wife. So I'm at a loss as to why I'm losing my feelings for her! I feel more like a friend than partner and have... (113 words

We've only been married 8 months and he is acting like he hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - I need to know if I should just give up on my marriage we have only been married for 8 months and my husband is really acting like he hates me I really love him I don't know what I should do.... (42 words

The affair is over and we are working on our marriage but I am worried about my ex-lover!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2794 days ago

16 January 2007 (F - After 20 years marriage my husband turned cold on me and I thought he didnt want me anymore - I did ask but always got the nothings wrong answer. Predictably, a close friendship turned into an affair and I spent the last year being very happy with a man who was everythi... (752 words

My husband works away from home and we only see each other every 3 months! It is tearing us apart!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - Married 6 years. Lived together 1 1/2. My husband left our home state for a nursing job in Cal. 9 months ago. He rooms with 3 other guys there. He was coming home 6 days a month. He works there for the $$. Of course, I do not like this situation and I am ready to give up. My ... (191 words

I really like my BF but sometimes I think he acts and looks really gay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 January 2007 (F - I like this guy and we hang out sometimes but sometimes when he talks i think his voice sounds retarded even though he isn't! he is amazing and then sometimes the things he does looks gay like or this screen name i have he said he likes so i thought that also was gay but i ... (128 words

She has a boyfriend but we agreed to become 'shag buddies'!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - Hi there is this girl at my work and one night me and her got drunk and admitted over the phone we really like each other. Her boyfriend is in uni and she will be going to uni this year. We speak to each other on the phone for like long periods of time. Then we start talking ... (156 words

After his amputation he uses cannibis several times a night and I hate it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - my husband and i have been together for 6 years, been married for 7 months, have a 4 year old son and a baby due in 3 weeks. we have had hard years, my husband was in an accident and wasnt able to work for a year due to amputation, i have stuck by him through his depression, ... (209 words

I like my boyfriends best friend but he is going out with my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2800 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - Ok. My boyfriends best mate is going out with my best mate. Confusing right? Well. I like my boyfriends best mate. I drew a portrait of him. I stare at his numbers. I cry over him. My heart literally aches. I never felt like this before. I think i love him, i r... (183 words

Been with my partner for 3 years and he just doesn't make me feel 'alive' anymore..help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for 3 years. We have a 27mth old boy. We didn't know each other really before I found out I was pregnant. Shortly after the birth we got engaged. We were happy before the birth, but then it was a new, young relationship. Since the birth we have ... (259 words

My best friend nabbed the guy that I like!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - One of my best friends just started going around with a guy I was dating. I have strong feelings for this guy and I would tell her all about it and she still went ahead and turned around and went out with him. What do I do? I feel betrayed. ... (50 words

When I have sex, my vagina smells weird...why is is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - im a little curious about this sex thing..uhm..why does everytime i had sex with my bf..my vagina startin to smell weird..is there anything i can prevent the smell?..i need some advice please!!... (32 words

Everyone says I'm not over my ex...how can I tell if I am or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 January 2007 (M - Valentine's Day is nearly ere. my ex girlfriend and myself r getting so close on our friendship, she wants me to buy her a Valentine's Day card and gift. and she wants to spend Valentine's Day with me. 5 week's apart and today at the trafford centre i made a joke " ... (585 words

Judging by his emails to her..I don't think this girl knows I exist! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F - my bf says this girl is just a friend from a long time ago, i saw his emails with her and he never mentioned anything about me or having a gf, but when i asked him he said that she knows, but i don't think she really knows that i exist. One of the emails she asks him to go out ... (222 words

My parents were pissed off when they found I paid my own way, with this guy on our first date. Did they over-react?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - I am 18 and I have been in a relationship with the same guy for over four years now. My parents have known about the relationship the whole time, but have never let me actually go on a date until I turned 18. Anyway, now that I am 18, my parents let me go to see a movie with... (170 words

We broke up and he's had several gfs'...so why does he still insist on remaining in touch with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, having ex problems!! Had a really intense relationship for five years, then he broke up with me, saying he still loved me but needed to sort himself out on his own, job, money, etc. etc. He had never had a girlfriend before me and he admitted he wanted more experience ... (237 words

What's a stellar smooch?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (M age 22-25 - What is a Stellar Smooch?, and how to you give/do one?... (11 words

Husband is diabetic, never wants sex but loves his porn! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age - Husband is diabetic and very caring and loving but never wants sex with me but watches lots of porno videos ... (22 words

My bf can't make up his mind between me and his son's Mother! Should I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi i am a single mom since the breakup with the kids dad i found someone i like we have gone out a year.well he has a son and he goes back and forth between me and his son mom. he leaves me then comes back in a week or 2. well he tells me me and him are just friends then turns ... (87 words

My husband never defends or supports me! Does this mean he has no respect for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - My husband never supports me. He always seems to take everyone else's side on everything and it seems he always thinks I'm the one who's wrong no matter how small the problem or question. He will defend ANYONE before he tries to even put himself in my shoes. Does this mean ... (60 words

She has told be she has cancer and I think she's lying! How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (M age 36-40 - I have been in this relationship a year now and we both love each other very much. The thing is I think she has lied to me about somthing big. She has told be she has a serious cancer and it is fatal she wont give me any specific detail on it, but I think it isnt true at all. ... (69 words

Tips needed-to tell me what to watch for, when a guy likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - heyz..i need sometips..u know i'm in the stage just learning about relationships with guys n stuff.well to cut to the chase..how can u know if a guy likes u ..some body languages? u look at him, sometimes see him looking back..what shud i do?? keep looking at'em all the time ... (82 words

My very rude friend..I hate the way she talks to me! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 January 2007 (M - Me and my girlfriend were having a mini debate about what clothes matched on me and what didn't. We disagreed and I said 'I will wear these shoes' and she just answered 'Fine then Enjoy!' really horribly. She does this often!! And it upsets me when she answers me in that w... (58 words

My assumptions are ruining our seven year marriage! How can I get my insecurities under control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - How can I become more secure than insecure,my assumptions are ruining our seven year marriage-can that saying be true"Assumption is the Mother of all screw ups! Seriously in trouble-Patricia Martinez... (30 words

We have problems ...all due to her friends! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - im in a lesbian relationship,which has been very rocky since it started,we both completely love each other,but we have so any problems,we have been together very on and off about 19 months,im very insecure about her really good friends which are her exs thats the main thing we ... (170 words

He doesn't know that I'm aware that he's a cross dresser! Do I tell him I know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2800 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for some time and never really had a great sex life with my husband. I think I did not really fancy him enough from the start and probably should not have married. We went without sex for most of our marriage (due to me)and are now seperated (due to me). ... (249 words

He dumped me! How do I get past all the anger and start to respect myself again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - My exboyfriend of 2 years and I have been broken up for 9 months and I still cannot get over him. He completely broke my heart and has destroyed my self esteem. How do I get past all the anger and start to respect myself again? ... (46 words

Whenever he ditches me I try to talk about it and he says "shut up"...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend was always with me but now he's distance alot, he told me we shouldn't have space, now that he is talking with this girl that is only a friend (supposably) he said that he just wants a little space, but everytime he makes plans with me (almost everynight) he ditch... (122 words

How can I be less shy and more confident around girls... ?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1502 days ago

16 January 2007 (M - dear cupid i would like to know how can a boy who is shy get more comfortable around girls without going red and speak clearly, as it am shy and not confident around girls and plus the fact that every girl and sometime the boys say im ugly and i will never get a girl, is t... (88 words

I'm having an affair with my best mate's Father! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - i have started a affair with my best mates dad... i really like him but i am scared what will happen if my mate finds out what shud i do?... (30 words

My partner shows me no love or affection

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - my partner does not show me any love or affection or tells me that i am important. this has been going on for around 18 months now and he knows how i feel but he tells me its alll in my head. i have asked if we can go to relationship coulcelling but he shows no interest ... (142 words

Would this stop you from marrying her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (M age 30-35 - Open question would you date a young lady who does oral sex once in her past,would you make her be your wife or girlfrend. Would you date her... (28 words

Accidently sent a text to my bf that was intended for my ex! Now my bf is mad! What can I do about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F - ok so on friday night i was watching tv and fell asleep on the sofa, i woke up 2 hours later and saw i had 3 text messages - two from my boyfriend and one from my ex just saying hello how are you really. i replied to my ex's message first just because he had sent the text first ... (281 words

My Mom's bf smokes weed and I hate breathing in the stuff! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F - right...heres me im a young teenager, and everything has been going wrong, i even moved schools! i started off in Tywyn, gwynedd now i'm in Dol, gwynedd! my mates hate me, i'm stressed with school work, this 17 year old lad keeps bugging me, i've tried to tell him i dont like ... (173 words

Starting to get feelings for the guy I'm messing with!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - I have been messing with this guy for awhile know. When we started we both agreed thats all it would be. I expected him to call once in awhile and ask for me to come over and do are thing and leave. But its more than that. We hang out almost every weekend and during the ... (139 words

My bf never wants to kiss me on the lips..why is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2348 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hey people!! I love my bf alot but im actually attracted to his best friend (who is going out with MY Best friend) more then i am to him. My boyfriend never seems to want to properly kiss me. I never kiss him properly cos he doesnt seem to want to, hes f... (264 words

My new wife will not accept my adult kids! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (M age - Good Day. Five years ago I met my present wife and after a short time she moved in with me and we married shortly afterwards.Unfortunately between my wife and I meeting and living together,my daughter was the subject of abuse by her partner,and I brought her to live at my house... (317 words

My ex wants to reunite...should I give it another try?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - My ex left me two years ago and after a messy split I thought I was moving on with my life (although I stil loved him). We ran in to each other and arranged to meet, we did and he wants me back. Now I'm not sure if I want him. I'm worried about other peoples reactions as my ... (125 words

We're tired of the same old sex positions! How do we spice things up a bit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2798 days ago

16 January 2007 (M age 22-25 - hi, me and my girlfriend have been going out for some while now but we have jus been using the same sex positions over and over again and frankly we are getting bored of them, the positions are, doggy, 69, missionary and spoons, please help us to spice up our sex life. thanks ... (53 words

My mom found my bag of birth control! Now my parents are threatening to kick me out, stop paying for school, and say they've lost their trust in me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - I hid condoms, birth control and papers from the clinic in my bedroom. So today I was going to throw out the condoms and papers so I put it in my bag. Without me knowing my mom went into my bag and found it. She flipped on me and she told my dad. I made a B.S. story about how ... (370 words

Did he say he liked me so I could be a back-up incase his gf broke up w/ him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - Okay... uhm, well there's this guy. i *really* like. and i think i love him, 'cause i've never felt this way with another guy before, not even close! well, he's said he likes me, although i don't know if he meant it. i asked him out in Spetember, and it took him two weeks to... (316 words

I feel guilty for finding sex pleasurable. I think it's because I was abused when I was younger. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F - I feel a lot of guilt when it comes to being pleasured during sex. It's like I feel bad when they're doing something to me and I'm not doing anything to them, even though my partner enjoys giving me pleasure. We've chatted about this and come to the conclusion that because of ... (141 words

My boyfriend implied that I was bullemic after I was in the bathroom for 5 mins after dinner! This has me questioning his trust in me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F - I saw my boyfriend this weekend, we've been together 8 months now and have never been happier. Saturday, I was telling him about a Psychology course I'm on which had a section about anorexia and bullimia. The subject passed, and Sunday after dinner I had a sore stomach, and so ... (236 words

We used to contact each other daily, now she only replies every 3 days. Is she forgetting about me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I have been with my current girlfriend since around November/December and we contacted each other daily, spending all our credit on each other. Recently though she seems to be ignoring my texts and only replying every 3 or 4 days when I text her daily just to see how... (135 words

How can I orgasm during sex? I only can from oral and manual stimulation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F - I have never orgasmed during sex, and I want to so badly! The only times I will have an orgasm is if he orally or manually stimulates me, but when it comes to sex the only one who orgasms is him. Even in different positions it makes no difference. We have tried so many dif... (100 words

How do I let her know I want her back... even though she's moved on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (M age 30-35 - my girlfriend of seven years left me in november and is now seeing someone else i was just wondering how i let her know i still love her and that i want her back.... (34 words

How do I know if this guy is nice... and rebuild my trust in men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F - I am 18 years old. My bf of 1 year broke up with me 2 months ago. For most of this time and still now I thought no one could ever be as good as him and I didn't think I could trust anyone ever again. Yet now that I am interested in someone else i am hesitant about starting a ... (194 words

My bf gave me a black eye! He says he'll change. I don't know what to do.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hello,im 21 and i have been in a relationship with an amazing guy for 4 months. We planned to get engaged this year and i really know i love this man. But just over a week ago we had a row, to which he hit me in the face and i still have (a week later) a huge black eye. The ... (164 words

How should I bring up the subject of my husband visiting porn and porn chat sites, with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - While looking at the history on the computer i have found quite a lot of porn sites which my husband has been looking at, i dont mind him having a look and we have looked at them together before but what worries me is that some of them were ones that you could talk to the women ... (103 words

After 4 months, I'm bored of this relationship and don't know why - should I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - I've been seeing this guy now for almost four months and at first I was really into him. Now I feel like I'm going off him but I don't know why. I know I have problems with commitment but I really thought it would be different this time. I just don't know what to do. Should I ... (96 words

My bf says marriage and kids are too expensive - I feel like we're going nowhere. How can I change things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - hi guys, hopefully you can help or at least just tell me i'm being silly!! i've been with my boyfriend for nearly 5years, we recently moved into our own place after living with his mother for a year [hes 36 and this is his first time of moving out of home] i've been thinking ... (113 words

I tend to get very clingy with bf's and friends and they pull away! How do I stop doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F - Hey guys, I need some advice on how to not get too attached to people and depended on them. I have a really bad tendency to get really really really attached to my bf's or even friends who I like more then just friends...and I become exstrmely dependent on them, so much tha... (243 words

He cheated and now..he texts me all the time that he loves me! Does he really love me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2670 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - My problem is extremely complex! Me and my fiance split a year and a half ago after I found out he had been cheating on me. I had some tell tale signs to warn me but simply chose to ignore them. Since our split we've had a very tempramental relationship. He swears he has learnt ... (307 words

Was I wrong to confide my relationship problems in a friend? My bf thinks so!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (? - My bf and I are having problems in our relationship. I have tried talking to him about it but he doesn't want to discuss it. A girlfriend called me and asked why I was so down so I told her. My bf found out that I had told her about us, and was very angry that I confided our ... (94 words

I love him a lot but now...I need some space! Where did this feeling come from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Dont know where to start or how to word this,so here goes. Ive been with my partner now for 18 months.Its been a happy relationship and next month (valentines day) we are due to get engaged.Im happy about that thrilled infact and i feel they are the right perso... (127 words

How do I tell my friend that she smells of BO?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2241 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hey my friend smells of BO.I don't want to hurt her feelings but I reaaly want to tell her, because she's my friend and I care for her a lot. I don't want things to change between us if I tell her this. I don't want it to be awkward. Could you please suggest a nicer and poli... (110 words

When I get close to O, my vagina muscles pop him out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I was just wondering if anyone had heard of this before, or could offer me some advice. I have a sex problem. I find it really difficult to orgasm, unless I am on top of my boyf, or doggy style. However whenever I do get close to orgasm my vaginal muscles contract... (116 words

My partner is so preoccupied with his child (from a previous marrige). I feel neglected, should I leave him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2515 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - My partner has a child from a previous marriage, although I have always felt left out whenever the child came to stay things have become worse just recently. We have been together for 3 years despite this there isnt one photo of me in his flat (we live together) but the walls ... (175 words

Hurting and confused because my boyfriend broke up with me and is going to marry the mother of his child. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi all please help me i am hurting and confused. My boyfriend broke up with me and he is planning to marry the mother of his child. Its totally over, but can you please help me with the coping mechanisms coz this is relly hurting me. I know i have let him go but the pain in ... (65 words

Update: The boy who called me a whore has texted and asked for forgiveness. Do I or don't I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - hi i asked 4 help on a issue b4 and i want 2 add to it as something has happened recently (this was the wat i posted before) hi, ive bin goin out with a boy for 2 years and we were really serious, he always made me happy and feel special. but last month he insulted me and... (341 words

What is meant by multiple orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F - What is meant by the term multiple orgasm? How can a guy cum multiple times? I thought it was just all at once? I'm a little confused........... (28 words

My girlfriend says I mean as much to her as her friends. I thought I meant more than that. Am I wrong for feeling hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (M age 22-25 - Hi , my girlfriend says that i mean as much to her as her mates do and that we are equal but i know that i could put her before any of my mates or family. Is it selfish of me to feel hurt? should i rethink my views on friendships. I remember someone said to me 'There's nothing ... (164 words

My partner is acting suspicious, he's cheated on me before but am I worrying over nothing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2795 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 36-40 - my partner is still texting his ex and tells her he still loves her and that we are not together. we have been together six months. he also hides his mobiles or puts them on silent or turns them off when im around. he spends every night with me and i see him every afternoon am ... (75 words

Boyfriend fouund out I chaeted on him with my ex, I'm afraid he might dump me. I need a solution quick!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - I have lied to my boyfriend about not having sex with my ex as i was afraid that he would dump me. Right now, he has found out somehow and i need a solution to make up for this big mistake or he'll never come back to me. Please help me with the huge soultion to make up for this ... (62 words

My boyfriend broke up with me and is with someone else. It hurts like hell! How do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F - I don't know how and i don't know why i fell for him so hard! Please bear with me it's an emotional subject for me! I was in a one sided love relationship with D where i really wanted to love him back but the only love i felt was friendship! Then he went over s... (442 words

Confused, scared and alone... lied to a bunch of friends that I was no longer a virgin when I am!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2793 days ago

16 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - Recently I lied to a bunch of my friends about being a virgin. I know its childish and inmature of me to do, but when I was confronted with the question flashes of rejection from every girl I've ever liked dating back into gradeschool flashed in front of me (currently a ... (131 words

My boyfriend is planning to marry the person he got pregnant. I don't want him to and I don't want to let him go. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2802 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is planning to marry the person that he got pregnant. wE ARE BOTH IN OUR 20s This girl was his ex, which we found out she was pregnant with his child. He did not cheat on me, they have broken up for real, and she discovered that later The problem is that I really ... (602 words

I have a lot of guy friends and when I get drunk I end up sleeping with them. Do you think they are taking advantage of me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2790 days ago

16 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - I have a lot of guy friends, and when we all get together we get really drunk. I usually end up having sex with one of them. I love my friends there my emotional support. I am starting to second-question that? I live with my roomate (who is guy) we have beem friends for 4 years ... (151 words

My boyfriend doesn't want sex anymore, and whenever I make an effort to look good for him he has negative things to say. Should I leave him?

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16 January 2007 (F age 16-17 - Hi I'm writing because I'm very, very unhappy in my relationship!he won't have sex with me!! in two months!!! and I don't want to cheat should I stay or leave him? I've been with my partner now for two year when we met he said that he wanted to change his "street"lifestyle and ... (194 words

My girlfriend is being really distant. I've told her I feel forgotten but nothing much has changed. Should I give her a taste of her own medicine?

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16 January 2007 (M - Okay so my girlfriend has been home for the past month due to Christmas break. She and I have been dating for almost a year. I truly love this girl but since she's been gone she's been very distant. She doesn't call and when I'm lucky enough to get her on the phone she ... (253 words

He blows hot and cold!

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16 January 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now.We live in the same house and are getting married. My question is Why does he not seem to care how I feel at times and other times he can be so sweet? I am not sure how to read him.... (52 words

My dad hurt me in the past and I want my family to meet up with my instructor so we can put it behind us. Any advice?

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16 January 2007 (F - HI, this is kind of complicated and really long, but I was hoping someone could help me. Last Saturday I was at a youth confernece for my church in which I am a junior youth leader. I am 21 years old. I was enrolled in a seminar called "Helping Teens in Crisis". The instructor ... (667 words

I love my girlfriend but she is too loose. Why? This is a real problem for me, it takes me ages to reach orgasm.

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16 January 2007 (M age 30-35 - Good Day everyone. I have a problem..this is linked to my sex life.. Most of the time, when ever I have sex with my gf, I could hardly feel her. It is so loose that I dont know what to do and due to that, it takes me ages to get an orgasm....sometimes I fake it since I use a co... (235 words

Bought my boyfriend an xbox for his b-day, now he never comes off it! Should I leave him?

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16 January 2007 (F age 26-29 - Should I stay with my boyfriend or should i leave? I bought my bf the xbox 360 for his birthday and now he is never off the thing. We have been together now for 3 years and live together. it may sound stupid but we never go out any more and when we are home together we are ... (134 words

I really like my female friend but don't know if she feels the same. I'm scared to ask her out, I don't want to loose her friendship

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16 January 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi I have a female friend who I regard as a close friend. We met when we were in USA working at the same place on a student exchange program during summer 2006. (We are from the UK) We talked all the time about univeristy, movies etc.) We have not seen each other since Sept... (171 words

How do you figure out if a shy guy is more than a friend to you?

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16 January 2007 (F age 22-25 - I know that shy guys are the toughest to figure out, but does anyone have any idea to figure out whether or not a shy guy likes you as a just a friend or more than just a friend? ... (39 words

My ex wants to keep having sex with me but he wants to continue living with another woman! Help me out here?

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16 January 2007 (F age 30-35 - I was in a relationship for 7 yrs, but have since seperated. He left me for my friend and neighbour. Its been 5 months now that "tom" has been living with my old neighbour "carry". Tom came over on the weekend to pick up our 2 kids for his visite but imstead he decided to stay ... (109 words

My gf got back with her ex, now I'm feeling lonely and used. Any advice on how to cope with this?

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16 January 2007 (M age 26-29 - This is the guy that posted a question a while back about his girlfriend stating that she wanted space and islolating herself from me and not knowing what to do, and I have to thank cd206 for all her help, but its official, we broke up, i found out from a friend that shes ... (160 words

Thought she and I were doing well until she said "another guy" spent the weekend with her! Any advice?

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16 January 2007 (M age 41-50 - known some lass for about 4 months now get on like a house on fire always great laughs and jokes etc always something to say never ever does the convo dry up and fallin for each othere , well till the bombshell hit me tonight not seen her about for a few days nothing what so ... (224 words

Had sex with my best buddy's ex-gf and now...she's pregnant! What should I do?

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16 January 2007 (M age 36-40 - I'm in a bind. I recently had sex with my best friends ex-girlfriend and she is now pregnent. We aren't in a relationship and live across the country from each other. I want her to have an abortion and she doesn't. What can I do to convince her having the baby isn't such a ... (73 words

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