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We have great sex but he can't come! Is it me?

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Question - (19 January 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 January 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend never gets off during sex. He says it like his whole body just relaxes and then he is limp. Hes hard the whole time and then just goes limp and doesnt get off. this is a first for me,is he just not attracted to me or does he have something wrong with him?

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (19 January 2007):

cd206 agony auntI once went out with a guy who had this problem. It made me feel awful too, really unsexy because he couldn't come with me. He went to the doctors and had to have a small operation which he never told me much about because he was so embarassed but after that he was fine.

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A female reader, yourstruly United Kingdom +, writes (19 January 2007):

yourstruly agony auntHi there sweety!!I can see how you would think that his problem is related too you but trust me it isn't if he was simply not attracted too you he would not get aroused in the first place!!Maybe your partner has things on his mind that maybe worrying him and may enter his mind while you are making love maybe he is simply scared that he may not be pleasing you or maybe it may even be a health problem i agree with the previous answers the more it happens the more he will become anxious about it try talking too him and asking him what the problem is, if it still does not improve maybe he should seek medical help!!I hope this helps yourstryly .x.

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A female reader, Shadow_Addict United Kingdom +, writes (19 January 2007):

Shadow_Addict agony auntI think he should def get it checked out. I very much doubt its anything to do with you. It could be it's happened once and he's been worrying about it so much it keeps happening..but ya get him to get it checked out

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007):

I think he should go get checked out, that's just not normal. I really doubt that his problem has anything to do with you. if it was you that was the problem then i doubt he would still be around. don't stress out about just ask him about it and let him know how the situation is making you feel.

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