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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like him but I Have to ask...was he trying to give me an 'out' from dating him? What do you all think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age - I met this man on true.com and he lives locally by me but his work takes him to the middle east and Russia consistantly. We had this instant connection and things have been going wonderful and even talking about commitments and we even both cancelled our account for true. ... (184 words)

Do I just ignore the rumors about him and his exes and begin trusting him or is he even ...trustworthy? Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Ive been dating my bf for a year and a half. Since the beginning I have been hesitant to trust him. I dont know if it is an intuition about him, if its the small shady things that have happened, or if I am just scared. He has never cheated on me but he still ta... (160 words)

Could lots of sex do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Does having a lot of sex make a womens labia big. Or is it because she has been with "big" men. Or are you just born with it. Please edjucate me!... (31 words)

His attention and kisses don't feel as special as before...why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Hey The guy i really like, and he really likes me, asked me out and we have been hanging out a fair bit. I get along with his family really well and they make me feel so welcome. He is my first real bf and i do really like him but since we have been going out and iv got to k... (102 words)

I have trouble trusting bf's.. so I'm paranoid about my current guy. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I have always had a problem in past relationships with being paranoid and have had trouble trusting boyfrineds. I have been with my boyfriend a year now and have never had problems trusting him, mainly as he has never done anything to break that trust. The problem is that 2 y... (262 words)

Do I tell him about my two kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - i am 35 years old woman i have 2 kids from both diffirent father,why is that happen well its a long story.but for sure i have a reason for that.im not bad'im honest and sincere person,things happen,happen you know'but i am not that looking bad, but also not that pretty, just ... (306 words)

We recently had sex-I'm worried he'll loose interest .Any good ideas to keep him interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

7 January 2007 (F)

- Hi, Im 17 and have been dating this guy for about 7 months, we have a good relationship for people of our age and have very recently starting having sex (it being the first time for the both of us. He says he loves me loads and is very affectionate and caring towards me. Howe... (159 words)

She wants to give it another go with her ex-so I hang in there and wait or let this one go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - It's a LONG story.. but the short version is this. I meet girl, we become instant best friends. Girl is in unhealthy controlling relationship(looking through phone email etc and not letting her hang out with friends..things of that nature) and I become her biggest confidan... (304 words)

I hate my bf's ex as she spreads nasty rumors about us. What should I do about her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

7 January 2007 (F)

- Okay right now i'm fuming so sorry to all the readers if this doesn't make sense...Basically i've been with my boyfriend quite a while now but his ex from 3 years ago who is also my ex best friend started spreading all these rumours saying when they were together he hit her I ... (503 words)

Am I actually 'coming' or...these odd feelings just leading up to one good orgasm? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - am i getting an orgasm or are these feelings just steps up to one?! i dont think it could be a g-spot orgasm cause i dont go in "the hole" but i mean it is like a build up,.... my muscles in my legs, arms, stomach, everywhere tenses up then i start to kinda writhe then alm... (226 words)

When we talk on msn messenger, he always ends up ignoring me. Is he chatting it up with other people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F)

- I am mates with a guy at college. We have been messing around (physically, but not having sex) after college alot the last few months. When we are at college, he is great with me and a good laugh. He takes me home after college a lot and we spend lunchtimes together nearly ... (409 words)

I like this guy but another girl is claiming she is 3 weeks pregnant. Can you tell that soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hi i am 22 years old i have started seeing a mate of mine but he has a girlfriend he says he really likes me but the thing is she has just found out she is pregnant but they have only been 2 gether 3 weeks and she is 3 weeks pregnant is this posssible he says that he is happy ... (85 words)

I lied to hurt him! Now he says I am a slut he can't trust me...what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - hello, I have been seeing this guy for a year we or engaged and going to get married in May but we live in two differnt states tell March I am in college and he has a job somewhere else he has 1 child and i have 2 our children love each other and we have a great relation... (204 words)

My older gf doesn't want to committ and have children. Should I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Hi I am a 32 year old man, I have been in a relationship with 41 year old woman since I was 26 I now have realized that she doesn't want to take the commitment to the next level and well I do love her and I don't want to hurt her how is it that I should break it off with her? I ... (89 words)

When she's at Uni, it feels like she doesn't care about me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i feel like lately me and my girlfriend are not that good, its only when she goes to uni it all messes up, i start this october and will be nearer to her, but while shes there alone she goes out alot and it scares me cause i dont know who shes with etc, i hate it and i feel ... (119 words)

I'm 19 and never had sex! I want it so what do I have to do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Ok here's the deal I'm nearly 19 and I've still never had sex with a guy or even had oral. I know loads of you are gonna give me rubbish bout not popping my cherry with anyone and how special it is and how normal I am but no offence I really don't want to hear about any of that ... (269 words)

Dated once and sent her a text but she hasn't replied. Any ideas why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Hi, advice please! Met a great girl on a night out last weekend, kind of a set up by her mates. Anyway, we got on well and spent the evening together. I sent her a text to wish Happy new Year ect and never got a reply, now I'm wondering whether to text again and see if she's... (103 words)

I can't help it-I love my current girl and ex gf! Why am I this way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

7 January 2007 (M)

- Hi, my name's Joe, and I have a dilemma.. Is it natural to fall in love with two people? I mean I've been going out with this one girl for 6 months, thinking that it's going somewhere.. and then recently, after meeting up with my ex-girlfriend for a chat, I'm getting what wou... (158 words)

Ex and I split so I began dating again and now he's jealous! What's going on here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My bf ended it recently, we'd been getting on so well it was something that was unexpected. Our sex life was great and always very enjoyable.He told me he loved me and though we hadn't made any long term plans for a future together ie marriage etc there was commitment. So it ... (210 words)

I'm 14 and not confident about my size 34A breasts! What can I do about this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

7 January 2007 (F)

- hi im 13 , 14 in February and i really want to wear tops but im not confident about my breasts. there 34a and i just want to go out with a top and not a jumper to cover up . I would find myself more attractive by not covering up as much. What should i do is this a normal size?... (63 words)

Are guys/girls really mean to the ones they love...this has me confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Who do u know if someone likes u or just hates u becuz mnay people say girls and guys are mean to the ones they like or luv how do u know when they like you? Or then they hate u? im so confused... (47 words)

I do not want an online IM relationship_I want a real one with him! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I met a guy a while back and we're both really keen. Thing is, I hardly ever see him, and when I do it's quite awkward. It seems the only time we're really comfortable and chat away is on instant messenger, and I don't want that kind of relationship! Is there anythi... (69 words)

I told all my friends "I'm NOT a virgin' and I'm so worried they will find out the truth! Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I've got a huge sex problem. This is going to sound incredibly pathetic and I wish I'd never started this whole thing. I'm 18 and a virgin. Thing is, I lied about it: all my friends think I've been having sex for a while. I know the obvious answer is to come clean, but... (181 words)

He ex told her 'it's me or him'..now she wants space to decide! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) age 36-40 - hi, im just after a bit of advice. i am 23 and ive been going out with a 20 yr girl for about 3 months and we have been spending most of our time together since meeting, but she is originally from stockport so has gone home to stockport, about 100 miles from where i live (sh... (428 words)

I recently came out to my friends... Now I'm in love with one of my friends and not sure if he's just inquisitive... or more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6330 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - I'm 18 and about 4 months ago, I came out to my group of 5 friends as gay and thankfully, everyone was more than OK with it. Then, about a month after me coming out, we started talking, and he explained to me that he got turned on by men and ever since I came out, he's been p... (453 words)

My mum told me that if I didn't settle down with someone now-I never will. Im only 23! Any thoughts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My mum told me this morning that if I didn't settle down with someone now then I never will. Im 23, single and at the moment Im happy just focusing on my job. I have lots of friends who I go out with every week and have a really good time but I havent yet met someone who I ... (135 words)

I love my ex but he keeps making jokes about us ..reconciling andf it's hurtful. What's his game?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I want to get back with my ex but he said he wanted to be single for the moment but why does he go all gooey eyed on me, when Im talking he smiles and grins at me (half time is in a world of his own), contacting me all the time, playing footsie with me. Telling me Im ... (198 words)

Is he cheating or am I just being insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Ok ive been with this guy for 1yr and 5mo.who is being distant b/c we have total different work schedules it was'nt always like that, because he would work on cars in front of his house( his house that we shared) or at the customers house. 5months ago him and his brother ... (95 words)

Getting really frustrated in my sex life with my partner. I need help and advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F)

- I'm getting really frustrated in my sex life at the moment. Me and my partner have a good sex life but lately, I'm getting bored. We make love and, although he tries to make it about me too (we have toys and he gives me oral etc), I never come during intercourse. I know many ... (194 words)

Married man dilemma! I am hooked! What should I do now?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age - Hi, I am in a dilemma - divorced 5 years ago, several opportunities for relationships along the way and always declined. A co-worker that I have known and talked to daily for the past 3 years - and purely work conversations - for never an instance anything more - well - we wer... (375 words)

I love her more than she knows. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - I am madly in love with my best friend. We used to go out at the start of 2006, and after 2 months going out she has been the last thing I think of before I sleep at night. We have stayed close friends and during the summer we did end up making out a lot and acting like a ... (128 words)

It's all so complicated! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - i like this guy,but his best friend likes me, my best friend likes my crush and i'm friends with his ex. i don't want to hurt any one but i really want to ask him out. what in the world can i do... (43 words)

He keeps wanting to see me even though we have broken up. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - first of all, i want to thank those who answered my question coz i could assure u i took all ur opinions into consideration!!xx now i hav another prob!(surprisingly enough)...i told my bf how i feel about wanting to be single and he didnt take it too bad at first. he respected ... (246 words)

How do I fall out of unrequited love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - How do I fall out of (unrequited) love? In October I met a girl on the internet. Something I have never done before. We got on really well and within a couple of weeks we were talking all the time. I mean almost every moment that we were available we were talking and usually ... (277 words)

How do I know if he's in love with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hi i have just started going out with a boy the same age as me. we have been going out for a week now and its been great! but my mates are always like "i really actually think hes like inlove with u!" so how do i know if hes actually 'in love' with me or just fancies me... (107 words)

New boyfriend and I want to hug him but don't know when!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hi. i have got a new b/f and we have been together for about 3 days lol. well i want to hug him and hold his hand and stuff. he held my hand the other day. but i really wanna hug him when i say goodbye to him and stuff. but what do i do, do i just suddenly grab hold of him... (98 words)

We both have respective bf/gfs, but we get on so well, I want to know if we're into each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - hi, a quick question to any boys reading - if you have a boyfriend and you meet a guy and become good friends with him but don't tell him about your boyfriend for a long time, it pretty much means you like your friend a bit too much, yes? and if you then find out that he has a ... (109 words)

Some advice for a virgin please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Hi me and my girlfriend tried to have sex a couple of days ago but i couldnt get it in .... are the any positions that will help us two virgins?... (31 words)

I'm so excited when i'm with my boyfriend. Why do I constantly think about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hi i ave a new b/f an we have been 2gether for 5 days so far. i went round his house yesterday for our first time seeing eachother outside of school and i was there for the whole day! from about 1.00pm till 10.00pm at night. then when i went home i really really wanted to... (182 words)

Been with boyfriend for 4 years, but am getting on so well with another guy. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - I am 39 years old and divorced and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We have been quite happy together and I trust him, but I have always got upset and made unhappy by the fact that he will never move in with me, he says that the time isnt right. He met me when he was ... (220 words)

Should I dye my hair brown... or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6330 days ago

7 January 2007 (F)

- At the minute I have dark blonde hair yet recently I dyed it semi-permantly a dark brown and loved it. The colour has faded now and I bought a permanent colour, also dark brown. However, I'm scared to use it as without bleaching and spending lots of money, I won't be able to ... (89 words)

We both can't see us growing old together. Can anyone help us get past this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) age 51-59 - My wife informed me that she had kissed one of her female friends three weeks ago. prior to this i had expressed my feelings, that i did not trust this woman and i did not think she was the good friend my wife thought she was. Now i am can't get past the feeling of betrayal(not ... (119 words)

Can a woman fancy you without you knowing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Can a woman fancy you without you knowing or not telling you? thanks for your help folks!... (20 words)

Feel upset that he took mine, but I didn't take his!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for a little more than 1.5 years. I love him a lot and it's obvious he loves me a lot too. A month before our relationship established, he broke off his relationship wit his ex that went for a little more than 1.5 years on and off. They lost their ... (175 words)

She lies all the time-I cannot live with someone I can't trust. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with a woman for 6 years. We have only been married for 1 year. I am helping raise her son who is 16 years old. We are doing an awesome job with him because we are open with him about everything in life. He is really a becomming a good young ... (168 words)

I want to meet her but she says she's 'confused'! What the heck does she mean by that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Hi, I am having an online relationship with a girl from another country. We have not met in real life, but we have spent much time chatting on msn messenger, and we have built up a really wonderful friendship. I have fallen in love with her, and in the past she has stated h... (244 words)

I hate being compared to his ex! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - dear cupid, i always ask about my boyfriend's ex, but he can't even tell anything about what they've gone through and they were together for 1 yr. and 3 months. did he even love her? all he says is that she's really pretty she looks like this one artist, but he said i'm pret... (430 words)

I want to move out but my familys says to wait? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) - I'm planning on moving but my family keeps telling me to wait a couple more months.. do you think I should take their advice or just follow my heart!? ... (29 words)

Why does he suddenly feel he's a 'myspace pimp' after he told me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) - I'm so confused! My x and I broke up 6 months ago. When we ended things he wanted to continue talking with out the title. I thought that was dumb and obviously he wanted to see other people but he wouldn't admit to it. He was hiding a myspace account but now I see that he has ... (127 words)

He's 7 years older than me, but should he be acting "more maturer' than I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - This is probably going to be a stupid question but I figured I'd ask anyway. I've noticed it's really common among women dating older men to say "Oh, they are SO much more mature than guys my age." I'm dating a guy 7 years older than myself (don't worry, it's all le... (166 words)

My husband blames himself! How do I help him with guilt--re: future in-laws, and moving away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - How do I help with guilt, future in-laws, and moving away? My better half blames himself for everything. He also comes from a large family who treat him like the family scapegoat. Guilty that all of his siblings are moving away and that he would like to do this as well but... (166 words)

I want to meet women but am intimidated by the other guys! How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 and I have problems approaching women, especially when other guys are around. No one ever really intimidates me for any other reason (not to sound like a hard ass), but when it comes to women, other guys just make me feel like I have no chance. I need a way of ... (76 words)

We're loves and both married to other people. How can my lover get over his guilt of cheating?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age - Both my lover and I are married but there is no sex for either of us in those relationships. We have been seeing each other for a few months and have recently started sleeping together. However, my lover is finding it difficult to deal with his feelings of guilt and I am not ... (126 words)

He's separated and still pays the mortgage on his wife's home! I resent this..am I being unreasonable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend of almost two yrs is still married and he was separated when we met. He has yet to get a divorce. He's been waiting for his soon to be ex to be able to afford the house that they have together. He's been paying the mortgage all this time and she's not helping. I ... (160 words)

We want to kiss, but we've never done it before! I'm 12 and he's 14. Does that matter?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 weeks now.And we have said that we wanted to kiss each other.It will be my first kiss and his.We both said we were going to kiss the next day but I guess we both got nervous and didn't.He then told me he doesn't know how or how ... (127 words)

My bf, his brother and I all live together. How do we tell his bro we want our own place w/out sounding like jerks??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

7 January 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys I need abit of help well my boyfriend does not me My boyfriend (23) I (21) live together with his brother (20) but after talk to wach other, we are decided on getting our own place, but the big problem is we don't know how to tell his brother with out sounds like... (215 words)

I'm being tretaed like a doormat..I need to gain respect from others.. how do you get this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I have noticed that I have been unable to express negative emotions towards friends/boyfriends (for fear of them not liking me and looking like I haven't got a sense of humour) and as a consequence I have been treated like a doormat to such a degree that the ... (215 words)

Why doesn't he call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

7 January 2007 (F) age 51-59 - Why doesn't he call? I have fallen for a guy whose works too hard and loves spending time with his mates. Ohhh things were sooo rosey in the beginning and he always had time for me. He tells me he likes me and wants to be with me and wants to work things out but he doesnt ... (140 words)