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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I have Dd boobs and I hate that guys like them more than ME! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 16-17 - i have DD boobs and yeh ok i don't mind but it makes having a bf really difficult. Boys say they like me gain my trust end up having more of a relationship with my boobs then me and then finish me, i want more then this. im not confident at all but showing my boobs makes me ... (173 words)

Why do they always shoot their load so soon? Is it me?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Why is it that everytime i have sex with a man they always ejaculate too quickly? Is it me or what? Im getting rather frustrated over this.... (27 words)

Really unhappy because he likes doing it the "un-natural" way... can I fix this problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend is really into anal sex and I am fed-up with it. We've been going out for over a year now so it is not as if I haven't tried. I am prepared to do it to please him on occasion but do not want to accept this as a function of our everyday sex life. It is extremely ... (216 words)

He has a nasty attitude so why am I so attracted to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 16-17 - Hi i really need advice concerning feelings i'm having.I'm 16 and have always fancied girls tbh. There is this guy i know who is 38 and married with a child, i met him september 2005 for the first time i didn't think anything of him attraction wise as he was,well, a man and i ... (160 words)

Am I bulimic like my friend was?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

5 January 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hey.. so i hve a problem a couple of months my friend started being bulimic and she lost about a stone and a half but she started couffing up blood now shes stopped but i think im starting to be - when i eat food it always makes me feel sick and if i am sick i feel good abou... (75 words)

I love him but his constant lying about this other woman is driving me crazy! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

5 January 2007 (F)

- Ok, I think I have a problem, but I would LOVE to trust my boyfriend more than anything. He started working for a window cleaning company a few months ago. There is this girl that is his "boss" and I guess they get on pretty well. For some reason, I've just had a bad feeling ... (527 words)

He boasted about having anal sex and I was hurt. Am I too innocent for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 537 days ago

5 January 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - well were do i start....i really love my bf, ive been with him for over 2 years. but he recently told me about him past. Were both 16 and he said he had anal, about a year ago. i felt really hurt. but he said he was sorry and he feels dirty when he thinks about it. the ... (107 words)

We've dated a few times and he's telling me to change my hair! Should I be wary and do I need to change for him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

5 January 2007 (F)

- Iv been seeing this man a few times and we get on really well,he told me that he found me very attractive and intelligent.Now my problem is this,a couple of times he has said that i would look better without my fringe and to cut my hair shorter and eat a better diet so that my ... (98 words)

He said "he likes me because it would be a laugh!" What the heck does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 545 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 16-17 - Theres a guy I've fancied since last summer, ive had abit of a fling with him ever since the first day i met him and ive grown to really like him alot.He was always flirting with me and catch him looking at me alot in lessons. Its taken me until this week to tell him that i ... (188 words)

Should I start a relationship with my school sweetheart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 22-25 - Ok, So my elementary school sweetheart pops back into my life about every 5 years. When we were kids we had a crush on each other but we did the usual kid things, he picked on me and I was mean in return. Both of our mothers are close friends so over the years of us not seeing ... (589 words)

Too embarrassed to hold his hand or show affection in front of other people. Why am I this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 16-17 - hi. this boy just asked me out a few days ago an i said yes. he goes to my school and im too embarressed to hold his hand or kiss or hug or anything infront of people like my friends and just people from my school. i can do all those things not infront of anyone but i cant do ... (108 words)

Just casual sex buddies..but now I think I like him a bit too much! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - im need ur help plz ppl!!!! went to uni this year, drunk nite out, 1 nite stand. I dont want you to think i have one nite stands all the time, but it felt right, i wanted to and i REALLY fancied the guy, so i did. Anyway, he carried on texting me and came back again a couple ... (238 words)

Our arguments really scare me and I get so hurt...am I over sensitive here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Two weeks ago, I finally got together with the guy that I've been in love with for the last year. We've been close friends for two years and even though I told him how I felt six months ago, it's not been until recently that he's realised that he's in love with me too. The ... (243 words)

I don't want her back, but is there is a way of putting it so she will still sleep with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

5 January 2007 (M)

- Ok Got a Problem. my Ex girfiend txt's me yeserday and ask's me if i'm really over and she think's i don't love her anymore. i told her i still care and love her. but i'm well over her. she tell's me she's horny like mad now. so i offer no string's just friend sex toda... (518 words)

My ex was better in bed---how do I dump my brand new boyfrend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

5 January 2007 (F)

- im 18 and just had sex lastnite with my brand new boyfrend he is kind,nice,gentleman,a bit too quiet and boring,21 yrs old and i work with him. he was not as good as my ex in bed. i feel selfish but i miss my ex bcoz he was way better in bed. i know sounds bitchy but i cant get ... (130 words)

Worried I'm becoming obsessed by this guy who left me in the lurch... especially after things seemed so good!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 47 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) - Hi, I can t' beleive the way I am feeling. I was seeing a guy who I met back in August and for a few months everything was so great and we were seeing one another 2-3 times a week. He told me he really liked me, thought I was amazing, etc. We slept together after a month... (281 words)

How do I approach my husband again about this delicate matter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - when my husband and i first talk about anal sex, we both agreed we were not interested. its been about a year now, and i think i want to try. what is the best way to approch him about trying anal sex? ... (44 words)

Snooped a look at my hubby's emails and didn't like the flirty messages I found!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - My husband left for a 3 day business trip a couple days ago. He was in a hurry to leave and forgot to log off his work email. I sat down at the computer and there it was. My curiosity got the better of me and I peeked. I found that he recently received an email from a woman ... (189 words)

Got pregnant. Going to terminate. Should I tell him I had an abortion while he's on holiday... or wait until he returns?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 538 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 22-25 - I have just find out I am pregnant. My boyfriend is away on holiday on the other side of the world for another month and I am going to terminate the pregnancy, which I am happy to do. I was wondering whether I should tell him while he is on holiday, and potentially ruin his ... (87 words)

Away in Iraq, he grew tired of my constant need for re-assurance and ended it... where do I go from here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - In april of this year I met a guy online who i got chatting to. It wasn't even remotely romantic to begin with and at the time was very into someone else. Usually if i logged off and cut the conversation short i would return to a message saying he enjoyed chatting. Afte... (1024 words)

Is he just using me or does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 22-25 - Is he just using me or does he really like me? I have been friends with a lad for 6 years and we were best friends. I got a boyfriend and he got a girlfriend, we still did talk but we weren't as close. He split up with is girlfriend about a year ago and then i was still with my ... (376 words)

My girlfriend gets in a mood if I don't act super excited about what she's talking about! It's annoying putting on an act, though. Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (M) - I feel most of the time when im with my girlfriend (of 1 year) I have too put on an act. Im not a loud hyperactive speaking person and just say it as it is. But my girlfriend is the opposite and when im not jumping up and down over somthing she is talking about she notices and ... (167 words)

He gave me money for my birthday. Now his mom thinks I'm sponging off him! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 22-25 - my partner is away overseas and i have recently had my hours cut at work.he gave me money for my birthday as i was having troubles paying bills. his mother now thinks that i am "sponging" off him. both myself and my partner are hurt over this comment and it is straining our ... (58 words)

After four years, my divorced ex tracked me down. He's my soulmate, but under the circumstances I'm very confused about what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I have been dating a man on and off for approx. 10yrs. The first time we broke up it was so he could move due to the fact that he missed his child who lived several states away. The second time we broke up because the ex he dumped shortly before we got back together showed up ... (249 words)

He isn't being straight about his feelings towards me - what's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - So, i got dumped 8 months ago, he said he didnt know what he wanted. then came back to me took me out planned to go on holiday then i got rid of him ( fedup of not knowing where i stood) he then went back to his ex, went on holiday with her. Then i bump into him 8 months dow... (102 words)

My bf broke up with me out of the blue! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 26-29 - my boyfriend borke up with me on new years eve via sms, one minute he sends me I love you, the next we should break up, we havent spoken face to face yet, I dont understand why he broke up with me, there was no signs nor fights! What shall I do?... (52 words)

My husband pre-ejaculates - what could be the problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 26-29 - Thank you to everyone who answered my last Q. Maybe you can help me with another. My husband always pre-ejaculates and doesn't know why. what would his problem be. Maybe then he wouldn't be so insecure when it came to loving me.... (42 words)

My husband and stepson have physically abused me. I want to leave, but fear hurting the children we have together. And where would I stand financially?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I have been married for 17rs and have suffered some physical abuse from my husband and from my stepson, whom my husband stuck up for. We no longer have any common interests and i need the courage to leave but am frightened to lose everything. We have 2 children of our own and ... (65 words)

He broke up w/ me and I feel he still cares but is too proud to admit his mistake. Can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Bf and i split 8 mths ago. I was devastated. We're still very close. Slept with him in aug and dec. He bought my shopping over when ill 3wks ago. He came for dinner on 1st jan. I hoped he'd stay. He didn't. He left my place of wk yest. We never said goodbye though i saw him. I ... (107 words)

My bf proposed, but then I had a dream about my ex. I can't get it out of my head - any ideas what this could mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 22-25 - a dream is really playing on my mind. Right now i am very happy in a relationship of 3yrs - and my partner has recently proposed and everything is wonderful. My ex boyfriend of almost 5 years left for someone else 3 and 1/2 yrs ago, I am over him and I have been for a long ... (188 words)

How do I become friends with a guy who finds single women a threat? I think it may be from being abused as a child.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I know a man who I beleive was abused as a child. I don't know him awfully well, and can only guess about this. Some of the effects seem to 'tie' in with his behaviour. (I have read a little about it) Mind you I could be well off the mark here, I do care about this person ... (187 words)

My bf goes out all night w/ his friends. I get nervous thinking he might still do this if we have a family - any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 26-29 - Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years we are both 26 live together and have a great life. The one thing which is stopping it being perfect is the way i am when he says he is going out. He goes out twice a week at most with his friends to the local pub. I start being ... (253 words)

I told my friend I like him, but she kissed him in front of me! She's seeing two other guys, too. I'm so confused about what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - I have what I think is a major problem. You see we hang out in a group of about six people me and my best friend Rachel are the only girls and I've been friends with one of the guys (Justin) for about 2 years now but we all started hanging out together about 3 months ago. ... (223 words)

He said I brainwashed him into being gay... I have feelings for him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

5 January 2007 (M) age 16-17 - ok...I'm in my sophomore year and I started talking to this guy during my freshman year. This guy seemed like a normal every-day-life boy and we like talking to each other on msn. We never really talk to each other in real life(for some unknown reasons) but we would talk for ... (465 words)

SITE NEWS: Moderators in Australia or New Zealand wanted!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (M)

- Hi I'm looking for moderators in Australia / New Zealand to cover the time Zones when everyone is in bed in Europe/USA. Please, ONLY reply if you live in Aus/NZ and have been on the site a few weeks. Thanks! A. (site guy)... (55 words)

His gf cheated on him twice and I like her bf. I'm friends with them both, so should I say something to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - I've been friends with this guy and we hang out every single day. He has a girlfriend that lives in austin and I know things about her bc she tells me. She ended up cheating on him twice. And I feel stuck in the middle bc I don't know whether to tell him or not. And what makes ... (123 words)

After our messy relationship ended, I just feel numb. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 18-21 - OKAY! Here is the deal....my ex and I went out for 6 months....during our relationship he cheated on me with some girl that I know. He begged me not to leave him and I gave him a second chance...bc I loved the man. During our relatipnship we shared intimate moments and he even ... (375 words)

He's everything I've ever wanted... except for these negatives

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 16-17 - my boyfriend ignores my fone calls is allways late to meet me and sometimes stands me up i get told he's cheating and find texts on his fone from girls he allways has an excuse but when were together its perfect he's everything i ever wanted i love him so much and the sex is ... (83 words)

She is sexually experienced, I wasn't!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

5 January 2007 (M) age 18-21 - I am an 19 year old college student and have been with my girlfriend for 7 months. We are very serious and I love her to death, but I have a problem getting over her past. She is 21 and has had sex with 5 guys between age 18 and 21 (lost her virginity at 18). I understand ... (190 words)

Should I be concerned that she never wants sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (M) age 22-25 - my girlfriend and i get aong great. she is wonderful. but she never wants to have sex and often refuses my advances. even when i try to rub her or kiss her she does not like it. we have a relationship that is long distance at time due to college. should i be concerned that ... (139 words)

I'm 16 and pregnant! My bf wants to keep the baby, but I don't know if I'm ready.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 16-17 - Me and my boyfriend have only been together for 4 months and im 16 and pregnet! I dont no if im ready to have a baby but he rele wants one he is 18 and has lived his teen life and mine has just started but i no that i want to be with him but im afraid that im goin to keep the ... (87 words)

My bf ignores my calls and stands me up. I've been told he's cheating - but when we're together it's great! Should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 16-17 - My boyfriend ignores my phone calls, he's always late to meet me but always comes up with a good excuse and he sometimes stands me up, i get told a lot he's cheating on me and i sometimes find texts from girls on his phone that he acts suspicious about, but when were together ... (92 words)

I'm 16 and going out with my ex-teacher, age 34...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 524 days ago

5 January 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok so heres my story, im 16 nearly 17 and im going out with a guy who is 33 nearly 34, we've been together almost 9 months now and things are great..its also a long distance relationship, he lives in another country but i plan to move there with him when im 18. My dad found ou... (301 words)

How do I get dates aged 42?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I want to date again... but I don't know how. I'm 42 but everyone tells me I look much younger. I've been divorced 8 years and am I full-time working single mom, so I haven't dated because I've been working on loving myself again... and being a mom. Now I'm ready... but I ... (127 words)

My bf gets jealous and yells at my guy friends when I talk to them! I've lost friends and am embarrassed and ashamed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend gets insanely jealous when I talk about other guys who HONESTLY think of me as a friend. He spazzes out of them and says things like 'hey, why don't you back the f*** off?'...It embarasses me, and they don't talk to me anymore because people are afraid of setting ... (169 words)

Why didn't my highschool sweetheart call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I started dating someone I knew in high school (20yrs. ago). we hit it off famously, and I really thought there may be a future in it. Then he stopped calling and just emailed. for 6 weeks. the last set of emails was how much he missed me and loved me. I asked him to call.... (99 words)

I've only just lost my virginity but he says I'm too loose and he can't feel anything!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 22-25 - ok girls, I need some advice on a delicate subject ... Me and my bf started sleeping together a few weeks ago - first time for both of us. the problem is that i'm worried about whether there might be something wrong with me, and since he's my first, i don't have any way to ... (194 words)

My girlfriend appeared on an adult video site age 19... and I can't get over it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (M) age 26-29 - So my girlfriend confessed to me that when she was 19 she appeared on an adult website to earn some extra cash for school. She is 24 now and realizes it was the worst thing she could ever do and regrets the whole thing. We want to get married but I am consumed at the thought ... (101 words)

Ended up in bed with my (female) boss!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 26-29 - I am in a real dilemma. I am a openly gay lady with a fantastic job. My problem is that I could have just thrown all of that away. I went for a drink with my female boss the other night as she wanted to say a job well done on a project I had completed. After a few drinks s... (144 words)

He said he'd break up w/ his girlfriend...then his *wife* called me! I'm so confused and worried about trusting him now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I had a partner but the relationship was not so good. I met a guy in the work place and we both had the feeling of falling in love at the first sight. We didn't have too much contact but probably 2 minutes talk each time we met. When I went away for businese, he sent me an ... (232 words)

Does he want to break up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I want to know if my boyfriend wants to break up with me? We went away for xmas - we had a huge fight - the first big one. We have been together for a year. The fight was that i received a text on my mobile phone from a male friend and told my boyfriend it was a girlfriend. the ... (265 words)

I feel I'm only second best in my man's life. I feel he'll never see things for what they could be. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

5 January 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been seeing a guy on and off for about 10 years.he says he loves me and i care a lot about him.but he thinks i should be happy with things the way they are.he lives with a woman they share nothing together but the home they made many years ago together.he doesn't ... (215 words)

My family are dirty, messy and inconsiderate... they to that they do not need any privacy and they have no one to impress!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have a tendency to worry a lot and it screws up with my sleeping pattern. I find myself having night terrors and waking up with such horrible fear. My heart is beating so fast and I feel hot and slightly sweaty(I like to keep it cool in the house). I have bin having issues ... (359 words)

We're both stuck for words!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 26-29 - I have a new boyfriend since dec.21,06 and we never talk.I thonk its because hes REALLY shy and I just dont know what to say.When we see each other we dont ever say anything.I hardly dont know anything about him cause we never talk.What should I do?... (47 words)

He's never been able to get over my one-night stand... should I end the relationship before he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 22-25 - My bf of 4 years has just this minute told me he's not sure what he wants anymore. Im 21 and he's 22. We've had our problems in the past and 2 years ago I stupidly cheated on him which I confessed to the next morning. I know this doesn't make up for what I did but I realise how ... (158 words)

I didn't say anything to anyone about him being gay, so why isn't my friend talking to me anymore?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 546 days ago

5 January 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I think I just scared away the guy I have bin posting about. He is the one I have bin getting along with as a friend but had feelings for. We call eachother and our conversations are strictly friendship like or about work. He does not return any calls, hasn't came to work ... (233 words)

My bf ignored me and spoke to me angrily..not sure what I did wrong? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

5 January 2007 (F)

- my bf and I have been together just over 2 years, im 20 he is 25, the other day I come home from work and I went straight to the shower to cool off as the air con at my work died so I was hot and wanted to cool down, the problem is my bf ignored me the hole night, he did not ... (161 words)

Not sure who my baby's father is...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) age 13-15 - Hi! Help! i ve had a baby recently-it was very much a shock as i never found out til i was 28 weeks gone! but the question is, i slept with my boyfriend on the last day of my period,(unprotected) and the day after we broke up,but 3 weeks later i stupidly had unprotected sex ... (97 words)