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writes:Dear CupidMy bf of 3.5 years is always mocking me whenever we go out (like i look like an ape, or i look at him like a dog,....), its hurting me and i told him several times not to do it, but he always does. Nowadays i feel very self-conscious even to go outside and i started believing that may be i walk that way or look that way. I cant even go for a walk without being self-conscious all the time.Please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 April 2013):
 ok so he's so cruel as to not care about your feelings and he clearly does not love you or want to make you feel good about yourself.
you can't fix him you can only fix yourself.
and the best way to do that is love yourself enough to not accept this behavior from him.
so stop going out with him.
oh and since you aren't going places with him, stop having sex too....
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2013):
Sweetie.. He the one with an inferior issue.. And the only way to keep you with him.. Is for him to make you feel like crap ( he's doing a good job, isn't he?)
So here what you do.. Tell him to shut up and grow up. Tell him only person who looks like a ape is him and as for the dog comment , when he says it laugh out loud and say oo honey that must mean your my Bitch!! Tell him if he every slags you off, that's it Game Over!! You will not be made to feel like poo..
For me I would do all the above and then leave his sorry ass and I wouldn't look back..
Your too good for this guy and do you know what he knows it, hence the itchy remarks at your expensive..
Take care, walk tall..
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (12 April 2013):
 Hi
Dump him and find somebody who treats you in a healthy way.
Get your self respect back, this guys a loser, not you
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 April 2013):
 Yep this one has a quick fix, lose the loser.
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reader, Ariel's in the house +, writes (12 April 2013):
Whatttt?....and you are still with him. Peolple like your boyfriend are usually very insecure about themselves and like to make themselves feel better by making others feel insecure. Next time he says something like that,say "Really!! It's not what you saw when you looked in the mirror a minute ago" and tell him, that he needs glasses or a doctors perscription.
If you stand up to his comments he will soon change.If he gets worse....dump his ass and find someone who treats you better.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (12 April 2013):
Dump him and find someone who will respect you.
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