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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear CupidToday is my bf birthday. I called him several times from the morning to wish him, he didn't pick up the call and not responding to text. He is in his parents house now. I know he is not sick nor busy, got the information from common friends. He is kind of avoiding me since the day he left to go to his parents place ( he is just visting them). He is getting angry unneccessarly and calling me names. Getting annoyed and irritated even if i call him once a day and is not picking up the call most of the time.What should i do now. Please help me.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (18 April 2013):
 Hi, Dont call him again, everytime you call and he ignores you, I am sure you feel worst.
Honey its time to let go this relationship and find someone that can truely love you and look fwd to your calls. Its just going to continue to hurt if you dont make this break.
I know its difficult and yes you love him but its just more pain for u until he ends things or you do it now.
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reader, HeresBoo  +, writes (17 April 2013):
 Do not let someone have power over you like that. You can call all you want but you know he won't pick up, and every time he rejects your call it puts him a little more in control and leaves you a little more rejected and out of control. I gives you a 'small' image to him that all he has to do is press a red button on his phone to control you and make you more and more desperate for him. Take control of the situation and stop calling him.If this isn't the end of your relationship with him, he may just want space and the more you call/text the more annoyed he will get.It's not appropriate for him to call you names but you still need to give him space, even if you don't want to. I know it's heart sweetheart but it seems like the thing you need to do here to either make or break this relationship. Best of luck and keep us updated xoxo
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 April 2013):
 You should just leave him alone. I too think this the end of your relationship. Why your BF is being such a wimp about telling you is the big queston. Let him contact you next, but I would definitely consider it kaput. Chin up Sweetheart, he sounds like a loser to me anyhow.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (17 April 2013):
 From your submittal, I would conclude that your "relationship" with this guy has ended, or is beginning to end..... YOU hold the key.... IF you truly believe that there's something innocent behind this guy's unacceptable behaviour, then hang in there (and drag out the ending....). If you want to avoid wasting time, make the break now, and get on with your life....
Good luck....
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (17 April 2013):
When you see him again have a firm chat with him telling him that you will not allow anyone to call you names.Also the reasons Why he is not answersing your texts or calls.Let him contact you first.Best Luck Nora B.
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