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Archived questions from: 12 October, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

If we did get together I'd be paranoid that he'd cheat on me the way he cheated with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

12 October 2014 (F) - Over the last few months I've been speaking to someone I used to work with and we've been out a few times. He has a girlfriend so we've always made a point of saying we are only friends. Then when we were out with a group of mutual friends we ended ...

Should I just get over the fact he kissed another girl while in a relationship with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

12 October 2014 (F) - Things between my boyfriend and I haven't been the same since he admitted to kissing another girl while he was on a night out earlier in the year. He kissed her in April and told me in June. To be honest, I couldn't truly believe it was just a kiss ...

Recently diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome. Will this spell doom for my career aspirations?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

12 October 2014 (F) - At the age of 24, 5 years into my degree qualifications at a top university, I have just recieved the devastating news that I have Aspergers Syndrome. I am very intelligent and hardworking but after getting fired for the 3rd time I went to see a ...

Should I initiate some subtle moves to let my 41 year of Professor know I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

12 October 2014 (F) - Its kind of a winding story but I just feel I need objective opinions from people I dont know. I am a foreign graduate student at a very prestigious university in country A. I was fortunate enough to receive a scholarship to come and study here...

How do I politely turn down invitation without closing doors to further invitations?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

12 October 2014 (M) - Ok, I have a lot of friends, like a WHOLE lot. Some are casual friends who I had fun with, some are useful professionally, some are genuine friends I can go to, some are going out friends, some are culture friends. I amassed many friends but I do...

I have a lot of anger towards him. We both shout at each other a lot. How can this be resolved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

12 October 2014 (F) - My husband has been shouting at me and sometimes hitting me and calling me lots of names. I have put up with it, now I feel like a very angry person and I shout back at him a lot and I can not speak to him nicely and even when he tries to be nice ...

I miss her. She was my closest friend. How do I move on from the sadness I feel now that our affair is over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

12 October 2014 (M) - I had an affair with another woman that lasted a very long time. Our affair lasted 12 years. It was the right thing to do for both of us. She is considerably younger than me and neither of us thought it would go on so long...but it just never ended ...

What should I do about my friend who is condescending towards me? Is this a toxic relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

12 October 2014 (F) - This is a friendship question. I have a potentially toxic friendship. This friend (known her for about 7 months) has often corrected me in a demeaning manner when I make mistakes, likes to talk to people about how "quiet" I am and "shy", doesn't ...

Is it over or will he be back? Has he been telling me lies and have his family assisted him to get away from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

12 October 2014 (F) - My. boyfriend lived with me for 9 months..told me I was the best thing that ever hhappened to him. He said he wanted to marry me. The appartment people were not going to renew my lease, one reason was because he was there. I wanted to start ...

I need a way out, but my heart is in the way. Still living with her, but we've broken up due to my lie.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

12 October 2014 (M) - ok, had my GF for a year and a half. Six months in she revealed everything, and I mean everything, 401K, savings...everything. She expected the same from me and I wasn't comfortable with that so I just threw some numbers out. Obviously not th...

He's in a relationship. I think he and I may have a connection. How can I say it without sounding pushy or desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

12 October 2014 (F) - I have known this guy for about a year now. We met through working with a service organization and have been friends ever since. I like him and think there might be a connection . I have been wanting to tell him and see where it leads. However,...

The Perfect date to impress her? Any good ideas for an awesome first date, please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

12 October 2014 (M) - So I have a friend who i'm really starting to like but the only way in I have with her is that we agreed at some point in the future we will go on a date. We get on so well and I think if I could just organize the perfect date that the rest wil...

Should we share with family the trials and struggle we are going through in an effort to have a baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3491 days ago

12 October 2014 (F) - So my husband and I hit the one year mark for trying for a baby this week, and it has been pretty hard on us , me especially. I know its not a major panic at this point and there are many couples who have had to try much longer,so I don't mean to ...