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Archived questions from: 26 October, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

My fiancé has been hiding our engagement because he's afraid of what his friends will think!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3478 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years and I just got engaged about 2 months ago. Since becoming engaged, he has told me that he thinks the word "fiancé" is stupid and he's not going to say it…so he continues to call me his girlfriend instead. He is also ...

Unhappily married. Is this younger man interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - Is this younger man interested in me? I am an unhappily married woman who is re-considering her options. One of the main reasons I am still married is for my 2 young children. My husband suffers from a mood disorder, depression and anxiety. In ...

Do I tell Friend A what is going on? What about Friend B's partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3478 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - I'm a pretty liberal person, so am not trying to be the morality police, but am worried about my friends and am being burdened by this knowledge. One of my friends (Friend A) has been in a casual but exclusive relationship since January, with th...

Big difficulties ahead. Will this relationship last? What other options are open to me, to consider?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - A year ago, I was ready to move to another city, transfer to finish school and leave sex work behind. I had been an escort for over 2 years, had a failed marriage and a child not living with me because of my unstable and crazy lifestyle (he lives ...

Have I already ruined my chance to ever be aroused by a man because of my porn addiction and my enjoyment of masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - I don't know if this question is appropriate for this site, but I really need to talk to someone about this. Please help. I'm a 19 yr old girl addicted to pornography. I had never had sex (or anything sensual/intimate with anyone) until last ...

Online dating - need some advice on how to proceed? What sort of photo would be most suitable to send to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

26 October 2014 (M) - OK, so I've been talking online to this woman for a month and a half now, she's who she says she is (sent me an email from her own personal domain). She's kind and seems like a good person, lives about an hour from me by road. However, now she's as...

I have trouble with eye contact with people and I look down or I stare. What to do? I Need help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - Omg, i am terrible when it comes to eye contact! I am 15 now but ever since i started secondary school (11yo) i've had trouble keeping eye contact, especially with teachers. I used to NEVER make eye contact, look down etc. except when i spoke to ...

My ex chose to become engaged 6 days after we broke up. Should I even listen to her explanation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

26 October 2014 (M) - My ex left me for another man who is fat, creepy old, and has a 19yr old daughter. The next day after breaking up, shes in a relationship. 6 days after, they are engaged. She is 23, he is 36. She Is a model and gorgeous, and he is disgusting. I su...

He's lied to me multiple times. And Cheated. Should I be 'over it' as he claims?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - I have a question that I need both male and female point of views on: My fiancé in the beginning of our relationship went around my back and began to be unfaithful. He had a second phone to do all his "dirty work" on. I noticed a change in his pe...

Only ever had sex with my BF so how could my BF have given me HPV? Is his excuse plausible? Or has he been cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - It seemed really strange I developed HPV from my boyfriend. I confronted my boyfriend after my doctor told me I had HPV. At this point I'm sure he was cheating, how else would he get it, how else would I get it. We lost our virginity together, so I ...

At 27 is my lack of experience with girls and no dating experience a red flag and an impediment when trying to date girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3478 days ago

26 October 2014 (M) - I'm 27 nearly 28 in December, and I've never had a relationship with a woman. I used to be the gamer guy who played too much up till I was 26 and I had enough and wanted to change my life. The thing is I only really started asking women out only ...

Should I somehow try to take this to the next level? Or leave things as they are at present?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3478 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - I'm currently a college freshman studying abroad, and there's this guy who's a senior, also from my country, whom I met back in May, when he finished his junior year and flew back to our hometown. It turned out that he lives at a 5-minute walk from ...

He's abusive. Why do I take him back, even though I know he is not good for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid Where do I start? I was with my ex was 4 years. Earlier it used be fun, for past few months the verbal emotional abuse is more than I can take. He withdraws affection and love. Makes me beg with him to even talk to me, at last talks to...

What should I do about my partner of 5 years who has recently become aggressive and has come close to fighting with my family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3478 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years now We live together but are not married nor do we have children Recently he has become very aggressive to the point where he has been nearly getting into fights with my family I feel lost and heart brok...

Will my Bf care that I lack close friends? Been studying and establishing a career.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - I've always been an independent person but I'm wondering if my boyfriend would be concerned that I have no close friends. I graduated this spring and have been working since. I enjoy my job which mainly involves communicating with customers an...

How can I deal with the pre-cum that occurs, despite my best efforts to deal with fact I'm easily aroused by pretty girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

26 October 2014 (M) - hi, i am single man, 29 years old. i never had a sex or even any kind of relationship. please i don't know why i easily get erection. so, i got this idea— when i see a nice girl or think about sex, i relax my body and my penis just to prevent erec...

Why has he turned off sex, with me, yet initially he was enthusiastic?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - Good day everyone!! Im in need of some advice. Im a healthy 36 yr old woman who is engaged to a 32 yr old man that I of course love to death. We have been together for just over 2 years now. And sad to say already having problems in the bedroom. W...