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Is it over or will he be back? Has he been telling me lies and have his family assisted him to get away from me?

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Question - (12 October 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2014)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My. boyfriend lived with me for 9 months..told me I was the best thing that ever hhappened to him.

He said he wanted to marry me. The appartment people were not going to renew my lease, one reason was because he was there.

I wanted to start packing because the plan was to move out of this town which we both hate and go with his brother to work in another state,but when I would pack he'd get upset and say he would take care of it

I was getting stressed out.

He would say l don't know what kind of boyfriends you've had before but I'm not like that..then he starts going to his brothers and acting suspicious about it.

I gave him the benefit of the doubt, but he wondered why I wasn't worried or upset about him going over there.

Then one day he went there and didn't come home.

I went over there and his brother pretended like he was in jail while he was hiding in the bedroom.

His brother's wife is telling me that he is a liar and sleeping with her and her sister?

All very confusing.

They went to the other state..he never talked to me since..but the morning I last saw him we said our I love yous and he wrote me a note see you in a while love you

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2014):

Thanks for the answers they help. l don't know how to get to the reply to answer page,but I am the one who posted this thing about my boyfriend.

Anyway he was planning on coming back Im pretty sure because he left behind his birth certificate and social security card. He had borrowed my phone and took the keys to my car cuz he was gonna get it ready to drive to the other state. His brother is a big drinker and lm sure that has alot to do with it.

I hear from one of the neighbors how they were loudly partying. Guess he got with the brother's sister which he apparently had before.

I called the jail..not there and even went to the bail bondsman. I asked them if he could please return my keys and phone.never got them,and I am kinda sure he took my moms wedding ring and ?? his bother called still saying he's in jail,the women would call saying sorry you had to find out he and his bro are liers and theifs. One to say l need to come over and confront him cuz he is scared and terrified of me. And another to say they were in bed togeather and to call her. They all were drunk I never heardany more fom them or went over there again. gGuess iI will never see my stuff again,nor he his.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (12 October 2014):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntSo much drama described... but down at the "bottom line" it's clear that you have fallen for a philanderer who's not worth a whit of your time or attention....

Put time and space between the two of you... and be happy that this "thing" never went any further....

Good luck....

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (12 October 2014):

CindyCares agony aunt Why, would you really take him back after he has ditched you in this way ?It does not matter if he does come back ( he won't... unless he needs money or shelter )- the plan was all another, you were supposed to leave together.

And.. you go seeking him , and he HIDES in the bedroom ?! Does this say " I love you " to you ?..

As for his supposedly sleeping with these rwo other women :

1 ) either it's the truth, so that only should make it

" game over " for you

2) or it is a lie that he has concocted with his SIL in order to get you off this back. Not that good either.

He IS a liar. And probably a moocher too. I imagine he wanted somewhere to live and once that came to an end, see ya.

be smart- make it a lesson learned and stop waiting for this guy to come back. If he comes back, he is not coming back suddenly changed into loyal and committed !

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