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Archived questions from: 18 October, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

He's not speaking to me. Not calling me back. If he cares so little should I be worried about his car insurance premiums?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - My bf of 4 yrs hasn't spoken to me properly since last sat when he as meant to come down for weekend. he works away. I'm actually and have susected he's actually found someone else... but only the other week he was taking about spending xmas her...

Enjoyed our first date together.Is it too much to send her a card wishing her well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - Just a quick one. Went out with someone (first date if you will), and had planned to meet up again soon. She's since postponed this, I think she has a lot on with work - stress etc. Is it too much to send her a card wishing her well? Have sort ...

Why does my significant other prefer to hang out with her girlfriends instead of me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - I have been seeing this woman for several years now, and I wonder if anyone can shed some light on this matter. What would make a woman hint at making plans with you on a Friday night only to tell you that day that she's going to hang out with her...

If a guy texts me every day is that an indication that he might like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - I know it might be a little trivial but if a guy texts you everyday, does it mean he is interested in you? Recently, I got into contact with an acquaintance (who used to be my eye candy!!) and we've been texting everyday since. Both of us are...

I think I'm over him now. He broke up with me. Why is he now reaching out to me, considering he has a new Gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - My ex dumped me about 1.5 years ago. He's in a relationship with someone else 3 months after our breakup. I was desperate and couldn't move on. I spent over one year to put myself together and decided to move abroad. The last day before I left ho...

He says my nature is bad. That was his reason for breaking up with me. What was my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - I met a guy online 3 months back. On the first day itself I had phone sex with him. Initially he was very loving. We were even planning to meet. He used to say if I make you pregnant I will marry you. He said we will make videos while having sex...

First my Dad cheated. Now I don't know how to face my Mom now that I know she's having an affair with a married man. How can I face this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3485 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - please help me, my mom and dad are divorced my dad cheated on my mom when I was 9 years old. I went through what I thought was the darkest moment of my childhood. Because of this my relationship with my dad is almost non-existent. I survived thi...

Was it strange that my Bf's Ex was checking me out on FB and discovered that I'd blocked her? Then she rang my Bf to ask why I did that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We have had a couple of discussions about his ex. She is gorgeous (I thought she was pretty but reasonably average but his friends and him seem to think she's the hottest thing in the world). I ha...

Does she truly love me? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - I have being dating a girl for about two years now and I love her very much. before we started dating she had a boyfriend but I loved this girl because she is so jovial,sweet voice and easy to go along with and so respectful. so I started getting ...

I love my BF. A flat mate seems to have a crush on me. Though not interested, how should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - I am 22 and live with my boyfriend,a gay couple and a single guy. Recently I have begun wondering whether the single guy might have a crush on me. He's really shy and never had a girlfriend. We get on really well but I don't want him to get the ...

After I married her I found out she had worked as a hooker. Can I make this marriage work? Or should I divorce her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - A year and half ago i happen to know a girl through her relative. She was living in (Country 2) and i was living in (country 3). But we both were from (Country 1) She was there since she was 8 or 9 living with her parents and two siblings. ...

Despite all the troubles, why does he keep on coming back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3484 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - i dated a boy for nine months, we broke up publicly in may 2014, however soon realising the mistake we had made and that we still loved each other. We tried to continue our relationship in secret. however one night he held a party, but he spent mo...

Does it mean anything that my boyfriend's family still have photos of his ex in their home?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3476 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - I stayed with my boyfriend at his parents place recently. We have been living together along with another couple for a year and together for two years. I went to put some clothes away in a drawer for him and found a photo of him with his ex girlf...

What can I do considering it seems that I am in another abusive relationship and pregnant too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - I am so depressed and need some help/advice... I am 22 on Thursday. I have two kids (3 and 5) and I am 23 weeks with my third. I have messed up my life up so much... I was with a "man" for 5 years and he physically and emotionally abuse...

It was an awkward first kiss, but does that make me an a pathetic 24 year old loser? What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - So I just got home from a sort of first date with a guy. We hung out at my house last weekend just to break the ice so I cooked lunch for us nothing major. Tonight we went out for drinks and when it was time to drop me off we were just chattin...

Is it ok for me to send this message to a guy I like? In the closet now, but should I just come out to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - "Hey decided to just be honest. I’m not gay but I am bi, and I kinda want to ^^^ you off. It doesn’t make you gay to let a guy ^^^ you off, like i said i’ve had friends it happened to and they honestly couldn’t tell the difference. I’d be 100% dis...

Ten years later, and despite being in a relationship, I am still obsessing about this guy from the past. How can I move on or resolve this ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - This is taking over my life. I think about this guy constantly and torture myself by looking at his picture on-line a lot! I hear through the grape vine he's a bit of a player (I hate that in a guy.) But still can't stop thinking what could be if...

I feel like I always mess things up with my Bf, due to my jealousy. How do I get over feeling so jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - I really feel like I'm messing my current relationship up... or going to. I was cheated on in my previous relationship and it left me broken. I am a very passionate and loyal person so it caught me off guard. It's gotten to the point where if I...

Turns out that my mother is a prostitute and everyone at University and school knows. Should I move away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - Turns out that my mother is a prostitute and everyone in school and my university knows. OMG!!!!!!!! what can i do? should i move? i cant believe this, i cant even go out! my life sucks, hope no one other than me ever has to experience this. Every...

Could I be Bi? How will my parents react if I tell them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3486 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - I'm very curious with boys at the moment. I'm madly in love with a girl (A) and she lives far away and she is very hot but there is also a boy who goes to my school, all boys) and he's called (B) I fantasize a LOT about (A and B). I don't kn...