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writes:My girlfriend me dumped 14 months ago, saying I would never get a good job thus wouldn't be able to give her financial stability.She used to call me a loser which would make me laugh. I am still doing smaller paying job and I am fine with this loser term because I am loser. Now the problem is I used to miss her like hell, but for the last six months I haven't been missing her at all. Now I am missing the very fact that why am I not missing herAm I normal person? Your suggestions people would be appreciated . Thanks !
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 October 2011):
 sounds perfectly normal to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2011): They say it takes a month for every year you've been together to get over someone. For instance, if you were together 6 years you would want to take about 6 months to recover and then move on.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (7 October 2011):
 "sounds" to me like youve finally gotten over giving a damn about this gold-digging broad (note: You wrote: ".... thus wouldn't be able to give her financial stability")....Count your blessings that she is gone, your are over her, and get on with your life.... NO WOMAN who would belittle her man-friend is worth even a whit of your time, attention or mental energy!!!!Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2011): It is normal to stop missing someone. It is a sign of healing. A sign of moving on. It is healthy because you don't want to be missing a girl who isn't interested in you forever. Clinging to a memory is not healthy. Just because you have a low paying job doesn't make you a loser. Sorry to say, but not everyone can be rich or even middle class. It is impossible. Some people just end up poor in this life, but that doesn't make you a loser. I don't like judging people on their paycheck. A loser is someone who is cruel, negative, never tries or takes chances for improvement when they come along. A loser is someone who beats up his wife, thinks he is better than everyone, cheats on his partner, or is disrespectful to others. A loser takes for granted all the blessings in his life. Losers can be as rich as kings or as poor as dirt, finance doesn't matter in my opinion. Some people put finance as high priority for a relationship. I have a niece who was dating a man whose family is extremely wealthy. Her mom was very proud of her daughter for finding such a "catch." Not only that but right out of school he was a partner in the family business and an heir to all this money. Then we found out that he was beating and raping my niece, and she had to sneak away from him. He was stalking her, etc. That man is a loser. All the money in the world can't buy good character.
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reader, KittieS  +, writes (7 October 2011):
 Your very normal and your over what was a very un-supportive girlfriend! Your going to find a nice lady who appreciates you I'm sure, from what you say (and I don't know the whole story) she's possibly the looser!
Good luck to you - your find a nice lady I'm sure!
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