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Archived questions from: 19 February, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Why will my boy friend not trust me. I live a good clean life now.

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19 February 2011 (F) - Hi my boyfriend is really hung up on the fact that I took drugs years ago... I don't now, as I've grown up, it was a phase I went through as some people do. Its just every time I have a drink he thinks I'm on drugs too!! I earn a honest wage, and...

My boy friend has proposed. What age can we marry in UK ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for quite a bit now... He's 16 and i'm 14 :). He's going into the army soon and he has proposed to me. I said yes because i thought it was right :) . the only thing is i don't know how to tell my parents and ...

Does he still like me? Even though it's a long time ago

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - i'm not a confident girl at all.i just want your advice about something.i just want to know how i could possably get a particular guy to want to talk to me.something that would get him to say something first. i don't want me or him to feel unco...

My boyfriend has a very controlling ex-wife. How can he still see his child but also allow us weekends together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Any advice appreciated. I have been dating a man for a year; he is separated for almost a year and recently filed for divorce. I am also separated for almost 2 years. He has a 10 yr old daughter who lives with the Mom. The daughter and Mom live ...

How can I improve my self confidence, stop worrying, and be better in school and relate better to others

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hello, I am only 15 at the moment and I have a slight issue with my self confidence. I know I'm not really thin but I don't think I'm fat, I have an hourglass figure and have a little larger reir end and thighs, which is difficult to get rid of...

She broke up with me, but she wants to check on me. Why is she doing that?

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19 February 2011 (M) - My ex broke up with me but wants to maintain contact every couple of days. She said she does it just so I know that she still cares, yet she is already interested in a new guy. We were together two years. why does she still text me?...

I don't want to stay friends if she can't guarantee to be faithful. Why is she upset about MY attitude to this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

19 February 2011 (?) - I made contact with my ex about a year ago and we were both single. I made it clear to her that if she ever hooked up with another bloke that I would walk away because I don't want to cause any problems. I kind of hoped that she would want to try ...

What will I say? He wants to know more. But I lied about me on the dating site profile

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hey all. I have been chatting to this guy I met on an internet dating website. my profile was set up as a joke so i had no problem checking it out as it had nothing properly on it about me so being nice i tried to tell some quiet shy boys that they ...

Should I now apologize for my past actions? Or is it too late to do so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I am mulling over an issue and need some direction from the Aunts and Uncles. I'm a MM who fell into an emotional affair with a co-worker a few years back. Prior to that, we had known each other for years with no issues. Just acqu...

My husband is too close to a girl at work. So why am I being painted as the 'bad guy' in all this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - So I have a problem. My husband has this girl at work who likes him. He admits now that she has a crush on him, and that they flirt. I found out about her a few months ago, and the fact that he had been having lunch with her (and sometimes s...

Is FWB all she really wants? How could I encourage it to be more than that?

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19 February 2011 (M) - I met a woman on Halloween and we spent a couple of weeks having sex almost every day (I'm currently getting a divorce). 5 weeks into our 1st meeting on Halloween she was hinting on wanting things to be a FWB but I didn't catch on because I was ...

Our finances mean we both have to work. Will it be OK if my wife keeps working as a prostitute?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - Hi,to all, my wife looks cute,healthy, and sexy, but i have to work alone (away from home), as we can't fulfill all our financial requirements. My wife has to work too and my wife likes to work as prostitute. If i allow my wife to continue to ...

What can I do? my sister can do no wrong, I'm always to blame.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - family problem my sister is 2 years younger than me and it always feels like my parents love her more. It doesn't matter what she does, it's never wrong. But whatever i do is wrong. She crys when she doesn't get her way and goes to her "mummy" ...

How much 'space' and time should I give him? Or has he just said we might get back, to soften the bad news?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - About a month ago I started to get to know a guy from my class in college a little better. We first started talking online, and then he offered for me to sit with him in class, so I did. After that we started talking more online - in fact, he hardly ...

She's still the one for me. Do you think she will ever come back?

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19 February 2011 (M) - It's been a month and a half since my break up with my girlfriend (ex) that was a 3 year relationship. the only time she contacted me once saying she missed me, a week after the break up after she asked me on a date and cancelled it because ...

If I get the help my boyfriend says I need, will he still stay with me when I get better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - My fiance and I we were fighting over a stupid phone.. he turned it on and then i over reacted. he told me he wasnt doing anything, but he said i hurt him so much that now, he doesnt know what he wants from me. Meaning, like about the marriage...

Should I lie? Or wait a while before I reveal my problem, when I date someone new?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Ive asked about my memory loss before but this is a little different. I'll cut the story short i'm 20 and only have memories of the past 7 months, everything before that is gone and i've been told it wont come back. I was just wondering if i were to ...

He flirts with his ex-girlfriend and doesn't care that it upsets me!

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19 February 2011 (F) - I see my boyfriend everyday flirting with his ex-girlfriend. I tell him how I feel and I tell him I get jealous but he doesn't stop. He says he 'loves" me but I don't think he does. What should I do????...

My boyfriend is possessive and mean to me. Now he has told me about a woman he finds attractive. Is it time for me to move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together a long time, around 3 years. He's always said "I'm it" he wants to marry me, etc. However, his actions speak differently. He put a deposit down on a ring, but later got a refund, which hurt immensel...

While drunk I sent her a really angry text, how do I make amends?

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19 February 2011 (M) - Look I need advice. Last Tuesday, the day after Valentine's, I had a little fight with my girlfriend. We had never fought before. We had plans for Valentine's Day. I bought 2 tickets to go to a concert, also I bought flowers and chocolates, but my g...

What to think about my boyfriend's female-friend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - My bf and I had just gotten to our 5 months when he had an emotional affair with a new female friend. Now all I ask is if he could tell me when he goes out with friends and I would do the same. Well during that whole period I found out he went wit...

After I got angry with my bf, he cheated, and now I wonder if it I my fault!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. When him and I fight, one of us says "its over" and the other one always ignores it because in the morning it doesn't matter. My son had a doctor's appointment valentines day at 12 pm, we...

How do I get over all my securities? My guy says this could ruin our relationship if I can't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - how do i get over my insecurities? My insecurities hold me back from a lot of things as far as my relationship with my boyfriend. i feel embarrassed at times when we make love and when we partake in other intimate activities. he constantly tells me...

He's sooo perfect. I think it's love at first sight. But does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Last night I went to my school dance with my best friend (who is 2 years older than me and goes to the other middle school in town). We were dancing around and having the time of our lives when it happened. Her friend (lets call him Ty, two years ...

I would like her back. But will she ever realise how good she had it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - If i treat a girl like a princess and she thinks it's weird, because she has never been treated like this, will she come back?. I have cut all contact if she texts me, i don't respond. will she ever realize what she had? Will she ever come back...

My feeling is that this phone call was suspicious. Could I be right?

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19 February 2011 (F) - i was outside of my room and my husband was in the room laying with blanket on his face and i heard him talking to someone and when i entered the room and said, 'what you doing?' He quickly cut the phone, and said, 'oh, i was just talking to my ...

How do I deal with his financial secrecy and his constant criticism?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I've been dating a guy for close to 2 years. We have a 6 month old baby and I asked how much he was getting back in taxes and he flipped like I shouldn't know. Then he proceeded to say all I cared about was his money. And when I said, "our taxes," ...

He's unmotivated, unemployed and I'm feeling emotionally detached from him. Should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I need some advise. I am 23 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. He is such an amazing man. I have never been treated so well in a relationship. We do EVERYTHING together. If we are not working or in ...

My fiance and I have been together a year and I'm a virgin. But is he a sex addict?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hello, i've been in relationship for a year, and then got engaged to a guy, but i feel inside he is sex addicted. we 've never been in a sexual relationship and i am still virgin, even in my thoughts about love.. last time we went out we were exc...

I told him I'm pregnant today. He became abusive and aggressive with me. Where do I go from here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - hi everyone, im 22 and this guy is 20. i need some good advice here. today i found out that i'm pregnant this is my first time being pregnant and the guy im pregnant for he's a player. its been nearly 3half weeks i havent heard from him. he's been...

I am gutted. Is he fobbing me off, for doubting him? Or is he angry with me? Or is it over

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Been going out with my fella for 6 months now and we just had our first fall out - need to say sorry which i have done several times - don't know what else to do he sent me a today to say he can't come sunday - was gutted as i only see him once a we...

I'm not interested in relationships. What affect will that have on me in future?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm 15 years old, I haven't had a boyfriend, I've been asked a couple of times but I'm not interested. Every boy I know behaves in unacceptable ways. They're cocky, or not sensitive, too sarcastic. Don't get me wrong, I can tak...

We talk a lot. He makes suggestive remarks. Is this guy's behavior weird? Or does he like ne?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I have bit of a dilemma and not totally sure how to move forward with it. I have become very close to a male friend, who I have known for years and currently lives at the opposite end of the country to me. We talk every day on the phone for ove...

Am I just a booty call? Is he messing me around? Or is he genuine

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - i met a lad at boxing a few months ago, and we've always had a bit of chemistry. recently last month he in boxed me, giving me his number, because he quit the gym. we've been texting ever since, he comes into my work at his break just to see me, ...