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anonymous
writes:Today I searched on google my boyfriend's mail and the results that appeared all where from comments he posted on porn blogs for girls to contact him (for webcam sex and I don't know for what more). One of them had the date of four days ago and we have been in a relationship for a month. I'm so disgusted at this. I also discovered that he was exchanging naked pictures with a girl, three days ago, he knew that I knew, and asked for my pardon, and I forgave him, but now that I discover this... what I should do?
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reader, linzey  +, writes (2 March 2016):
 well there is certianly a lot of things you could .first have you asked him why he did it.
second let him tramp all over you
or third break up with him its what he deserves.
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reader, blondebitch07 +, writes (8 October 2010):
 Your only a month in? Get out as soon as you possibly can. Especially since you forgave him, it made it seem like he can walk all over you, like you'll forgive him for things like that. You don't want that.
Things will get serious, and it will get harder to leave.
This is terrible to have to put up with, TRUST ME, it won't change.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): Hi
Get out now why the going's good, only a month probably not much emotonal investment put into the relationship. You can bet later down the line this will be a constant battle and more so when your old perfume, and you may find it harder to end it. Do you want this? i would get a guy that is into you, you desrve much better than this.
spunky monkey
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reader, person12345 +, writes (29 September 2010):
 You forgave him once (for something most people probably wouldn't), and now less than a week later he's betrayed your trust again. This shows that he basically only feels bad for being caught. He can only treat you badly until you stop letting him treat you badly. Meaning dump the jerk until you find someone more deserving of your affections. Good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 September 2010):
You're young. You can find someone better. Do that. No more forgiving.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 Well first off you should never pardoned him for naked pictures in the first place, because this has put it in his head that he can do whatever he likes and you will forgive him, dont be a walk over, as for the webcam sex, has it happened within the last month of you being together? if it has then you cant trust this guy but if it was before you got together then really there is nothing really you can say or do about it. If you dont trust this guy get rid of him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): Hey!
I feel this man isnt ready for a relationship and is still needing to get some things out of his system. You def dont deserve that. Chances are he's looking to play the field, and this is an increased possibility because of how young your relationship is, only one month. Good luck.
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