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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i have been with my boyfriend for 1 yr a couple of months at the beginning i found out the was on dating sites flirting with girls on the net and i asked him about it he said he wouldn't do it again and now i found out hes been doing it again what should i do?
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reader, Manya  +, writes (8 December 2009):
He doesn't sound like much fun! If I were you, I would look around and see what other fish there are in the sea... If you don't want to dump him yet, just drift away a little bit and see if he notices...
He might really like you and just want to check on his other options before he proposes, but that's a little !!!!! immature.
What is it about him that you like? Be honest with yourself. You are young and
perhaps could find someone kinda like him but someone who is more considerate and focuses on YOU!!! Be good to yourself!!! I think you should at least yell at him again!!
Love,
Manya
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 December 2009):
Get rid of him. You forgave him once, he has failed you and has proved he's not worthy. Now dump him and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): It depends on how many chances you want to give him. I take it you gave him the quit or i walk threat the first time...and what did he do? Its only a matter of time before he goes from flirting to meeting one of them. If he hasnt already. You could try giving him one more chance. Hes probably taking it for granted that you will because hes already done it once and you stayed with him. I dont think he will take much notice of more threats from you. It might be time to go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): you're worth more than that if he's not serious dump him, he sounds like a jerk!
give us some updates too when you've made your decition! xx
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (7 December 2009):
 What Emily said. He's had his second chance. boyfriend *poof!* gone.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 December 2009):
You dump him. You've forgiven him once, if you forgive him again he'll walk all over you forever.
This guy clearly doesn't care as much as he should so move on and find someone who respects you.
Good Luck!! xx
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