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*hesmylife517
writes:I have been in denial of my problem. I am very jealous with my bf and its wrong.. I have had problems with him in the past and i don't trust him. I'm tired of being like this and i want to change. I question him about everything, like where is he going, who he is with, an when is he coming home.. His problem is that he lies a lot about small stuff, where he thinks that he has to lie, because of the way i am.. It hurts me because i know he is not cheating, and i'm going to push him away :( he doesnt understand me sometimes. When he calls or texts me i answer all the time, and he doesn't, so i get aggravated and i call multiple times.. I need help bad or i will lose the best man i ever had.. Pleaseee help i need advice
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reader, Shesmylife517 +, writes (26 April 2011):
Shesmylife517 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo he has never cheated that i know of. He is the best man i have had so far. He just does not understand me sometimes. Yes he expects me to answer the phone or his text an i always do. I've known him for about 10 years an we been together for almost 3 years. We were friends so i know alot of stuff he done in da past. Im not an angel myself but if i love a man i will try an please him in every way to make him happy.. Your right he does get annoyed but if he would answer i wont keep calling.. I feel he is great for me. I never had a guy so respectful, well mannered, and very sweet an lovable that is why i say the best man i had. Im pretty sure there are other guys like him. Our relationship is good the only problem well the biggest problem is my jealousy issue.. Thank's guys an i will try to losen up a little.. :)
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reader, Just simply me +, writes (25 April 2011):
Well.., 1st. Off, u say u have had problems with him in the past! What kind of problems? Did he cheat? Or do u mean just because of u being jealous ? And he should answer the phone when u call. I'm sure he expects u to answer when he calls. And I noticed.., that u wrote, u will lose the best man U've ever had. So.., do u feel , that he is the best man for u? Or just the best man U've ever had?
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reader, mima  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 How do you know he isn't cheating when he is always lying over simple issues?Tell him you don't believe him bluntly each time he lies to your face, it could help reduce or stop his silly lies.You have every right to not trust him since he gives you reasons to, but it's no big deal, if only both parties could sit and talk maturedly, you would understand more.Believe me, Lost trust is hard to regain but with love and time, it gets better. Try talking about it.
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reader, Yarrup +, writes (25 April 2011):
You just need to relax and let go a little bit. It's fine to worry about what hes up to but you cant constantly bug him about it. And to be honest he can't be the best man you ever had if you have constant trust issues. just losen up and if he doesnt answer to your texts and calls just leave him alone for a while and try again later, if you keep trying he'll just get annoyed and angry with you.
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