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writes:why is he and his mother so nasty ?ok guys heres my problem . my family split years ago i never knew my aunt or uncles children ( my cousins ) until i was about nine years old . Sandra ( uncles daughter) came across to me as really nasty and had a chip on her shoulder . like always got an opinion and bossing people around . she just irritates me . well Sandra has two sons mick (20) and Dan (18) mick is really confident and like thinks his better than everyone eles - just because he went to grammar school . Dan i have more time for like he has problems that are simular to me . well Sandra keeps going on about Mick and how wonderful he is and like his all that - i just see a spoilt pompus little idiot . well anyways Sandra always upsets me one way or another . when i was a young teenager i was bullied at school - even sexually harassed by another boy . i told mick about this and like in some twisted way one night he kept saying he loves me and like trying to play with my emotions - well it gets worse . last year when i turned 18 i was sexually abused by my uncle (Sandras dad ) i couldnt deal with it even spent some time in hospital and when i told Sandra she just said why dont you just let an old man die happy .i have never forgiven her for that (in my heart) . anyways mick is always odd and my sister thinks its me who has an issue with them - but it so isnt .
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your response . i just dont like Mick and what he tried to do like play with my emotions . even when im on msn and like i tried to be nice he just ignores me and like when he does speak to me his off somewhere - i just think get on with it . when i was learning to drive he was really nasty like being ultra competative - well when i got my car he was just so nasty - truth is i dont need it . best to not speak to him ever again
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reader, PinPrick  +, writes (20 July 2010):
I can relate to your story. My mom has a friend who is really bossy and she believes her son is perfect and they both have treated me badly over the years.
If I was you I would just sever ties with them, they are posion to you. They aren't going to do you any good.
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