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writes:If a married man's body language is lusting after me yet he is being very professional in his approach towards me - does this mean there may be a problem in his relationship?One of my old work colleagues has a sincere attraction towards me. I am quite an attractive women and men are always looking at me. I have been having relationship problems and I feel an instant attraction towards this guy that has been growing and growing. the chemistry between us is so intense. For this to happen do you think he too is having relationship problems?As a women, when I am happy in a relationship I do not see other men. Are men different?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your responses. Thanks Karen, I would never let any man use me - particularly married ones. i have a lot of self respect. I will see ho this goes. xx
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reader, karen1989  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Possibly,he is most likely missing one important componant in the marraige and its quite an obvious one-the sex. if hes not getting any of this then he might start to stray.
I suggest you don't act on this, if hes missing sex in his marraige he is looking for you to fill that gap,buts thats it just the sex part. Everything else in the marraige is most likely fine its just after a while sex drive disinter grates in marraiges particually on the womans part.
I wouldnt go near married men if i was you. Its not worth it,being somebodys bit on the side is never fun-you will never be his number one,his wife will always come first...always.
Good luck :)
Karen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): If your man doesn't work and always at his friends house he never calls u and is home around 8 or 9 do u believe he is cheating. Plus if u haven't had sex in like 20 days and then want to and he can't get up what does that mean he says he's not cheating but idk
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reader, Simi813  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 Men are different in many ways having a bad relationship may not be the reason he is looking at you its just that maybe he is not satisfied with his wife and he is looking for someone who could help him with this, i mean he might want his wife in all ways and as well as you "in a way"... All i can say now is to be carefull because men are such a smart a** when it comes to getting a woman in his life and chucking her out at the sametime .Just find someone who is single or divorced but not married ...yeah bad idea..
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 July 2010):
A man can lust after other women. It doesn't mean there's a problem in his relationship. However if he acts upon it, there clearly is a problem.
BUT, you talk about chemistry. There is the worse alternative, and that is that he loves his wife and isn't getting sex, so may well just use and abuse you.
So I will tell you what I tell all women who are considering an affair with a married man, or are involved in an affair. He doesn't care about you emotionally at all. He will just use you. Then when he does, you'll have a tainted reputation and you'll be untrustworthy.
In other worse, no matter how much chemistry there is, don't get involved. The mistress always loses one way or another.
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