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*oloved89
writes:Dear Cupid,Me and my fiance have only been together for about 1 1/2 or 2 years. Of course we have our ups/downs like every body else. But, he says that if we ever break-up he will never come back to me.He said if we break up for any reason at all. When we first hooked up, he said the only reason he would leave me would be that if I cheated on him. Why wont he give me another chance if we do? Not saying im gonna cheat.
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reader, themisses +, writes (6 February 2010):
Well for me im in the same situation. If he says tht he means it. He probably thinks if you break up your going to mess around with someone else or that's happened to him before. Also it could just be that if u break up then there should be no reason to get back together. That would mean the relationship is really over and he would definatly not consider marrying you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 February 2010):
He's simply saying that if it went wrong, he would know you are not the girl for him. And he's right. If it did go wrong, then it wouldn't work out again.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (6 February 2010):
 I dont understand why you see this as a problem, you say you are not going to do anything to cause a breakup, it would appear your boyfriend has very strong ideas on the matter and is also unlikely to do anything to cause a breakup, why are you worrying.
I can understand his point of view to a degree, for a couple to break up would mean one or both people did something very hurtful or untrustworthy. Why even get back with somebody who cares so little they will do that?
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