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female
age
30-35,
*oriNickole
writes:ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now,we got together right after his girlfriend/babys momma of 3 years left him,he constantly looks up her myspace,but tells me hes looking for updates about his daughter,when i know hes kinda stalking her,he looks at his ex's current boyfriend and says how he wants to kick his ass for being with her,he brings situations with her in it up when we meet people,and is always telling people how his ex of 3 years left him while im around,ive told him its not fair to me to bring her up around me and that it was rude and all he can say is okay,i dont know what to say to him to make him understand or what i should do, i care about him and want to have a relationship with him but this dumbgirl who broke his heart is still in his head and im tired of it,what should i do??
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reader, tella1  +, writes (6 February 2010):
they say "advice is what people ask for, when they already know what to do" Hey this guy has ex baggage and u dont want to stick around in that relationship. Kick him to the curb
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (6 February 2010):
 If you and he got together right after he broke up with his baby's mother, and its only been 6 months have you considered that he didnt give himself time to get over that relationship before he got into one with you?
Maybe you need to leave him for a while, see if he can get his head straight, and sort out his relationship with his ex. He certainly doesnt seem ready to be settling into a relationship with you at this time, or anybody else ...
Your age is lsted as 16 - 17, leave him be for a while, there is plenty of time left for you to be tackling the big issues of life
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