A
female
age
51-59,
*oncerned_mother
writes:Aunts I need your help.My daughter is 18 yrs old, when she was 16 she met Ryan and they dated for 6 months and she got pregnant. Ryan was very supportive during the pregnancy but once my granddaughter was born he was inmature, spending a lot of time with his friends and they broke up. He still comes around to visit and such. About a month ago I over heard her telling a friend that she "hooked up" with Ryan at a party. When I asked her what she meant she said they just hung out. Yesterday when I came home from work they were alone in the bedroom, when they came out they looked like they were doing more then just hanging out. When I tried to talk to her about it she said "were friends mom." I don't want to be the over bearing mother but I can't have her having sex with a guy that can't commit to her, How do I get her to see that a relationship like this will only leave her hurt.
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reader, themisses  +, writes (6 February 2010):
Tell her that you understand why she is attached to him but to think of if he cares about her. As the mother you can tell her who not to have in her room. But if you're not always around she's going to do what she wants. Also bring her to her ob/gyn and have her put on some kind of birth control.you can't afford to have her get pregnant again though.. And tell her that.
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