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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I am married woman due to my husbands abuse and very suspicous behaviour I felt all alone. My husband had his first love and he could not forget and my comparsion. Listening to dirt words. after a year of marriage i deliverd a baby boy who is twelve now.In my work place I fell in love with same age man. I didnt know even when I started liking him bcos it was not all of a sudden for months talking and one day we dated each other. I was so happy for two years things were very fine I left the company and thereafter he too left and opened his own company. He used to go to pubs which is did not like but I used to feel giving him the space. His parents got him a marriage proposal he went for it but didn't tell me. I happende to call him during the same moment and he was scared thereafter he started it cannot work my parents are priority. He again he left for holidays and met a girl while travelling he moved around with her and then decided to marry. He did not inform me and I was waiting for his call and wondering why he does not call me. He sends sms I am engaged and I was upset asking question what did he have for me. Then he gets to know the girl only want him and not anyone around him. he leave her and comes back to Bahrain and again due for financial loss he gets inolved with another girl and then he realised that his name will be spoilt he takes support from him to clear out. I have been calm though its all wrong bcos I am tired every man in my life does this to me y. Now 4 years passed everyday - I am not happy question is will I marry him bcos he knows i wil not leave my son alone. But if he truly loves me I feel he should wait the way I took all nonsense of his - he gives me one line its was situation and past. After every one week - I am not happy, I have too much stress. I am sleeping alone. I spend time two hours with him is not enough. I have relationship with him bcos my husband for 10 years not bothered about my needs bcos he is not interested. My question is does the person really love me or making an excuse to wringle out by taking marriage name.
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reader, erqz  +, writes (6 February 2010):
Leavethe situationALONE.nly person who can makeyou happy is you. Why are you still in both relationships. Let go and find you. Better to be alone than be lonely. It does not benefit your son to see you weighted down with sorry men. He will respect women according to your way of life. when the day is done all you have is you and your son. Live life don'tlet life live you
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (6 February 2010):
 You are still married. How long is this poor man going to be expected to wait for you? What if he would like some children of his own?
Are you saying he is looking to these women to provide for him financially?
I think you need to investigate ways of getting your husband to divorce you so that you can get on with your life.
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