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*reezyBoo
writes:i had some problems with a guy in september,october,and early november. we solved those problems and we are now boyfriend and girlfriend but no one will let us forget about what happened in the past. we have moved on and have now been dating for allmost a month;i really care about this person and he cares about me. how do i let people see how happy we are? Reply to this Question
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reader, fishdish +, writes (6 February 2010):
 if these people are your friends, i would address it next time it really bugs you, say something like, listen guys, i really like this guy and i haven't been this happy in so long, please be happy FOR me and drop the drama of last month. i think if you guys give him a second chance, you will see the things i like about him and maybe change your minds, too"
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reader, problemmaganet  +, writes (6 February 2010):
 I don't think your relationship is any of their business. If it's over and in the past, then that's that. Just be yourself with your bf and in front of everyone else, and hopefully they will see that what happened doesn't matter anymore. I agree with the Realist, don't bring up anything negative. Good luck!
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (6 February 2010):
 Be happy with your new bf. It will take time for people to forget about what happened but they will eventually. Don't let them see or hear about any arguments you two may have, just let them see all the happy parts and how happy you two are together. Also tell them all about the good things over and over.
Good luck to you and try to be patient these people will come around eventually.
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