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We talk a lot online but face to face it seems he doesn't want to talk

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Question - (4 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So, I have this best friend who is a guy that I have been really good friends with for about 5-6 months. As you have probably guessed, I have really fallen for him and basically just want to know if you guys think he feels the same because I'm unsure and don't exactly have the guts to tell him until I know if he even might like me in that way.

We text each other all the time, like everyday and talk on msn etc as well. We talk about everything with each other and we really just get along so well. But, at school when i see him, we don't talk as much and it seems like he doesn't want to talk to me as much in person. He talks to other girls more than he does me, but I don't know whether this is just because he is shy around me in person or whether he just doesn't like me that way. It just seems odd that we talk so much and are such good friends, yet in person it's a little more distant, you know?

Please let me know what you think, I would really appreciate opinions and what you all think.

Thanks (:

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010):

Hey guys, thanks so much for the replies so far, I really do feel like he might feel the same but he's just shy so I think I will do my best to talk to him a lot in person and see where it goes. Thanks again!! (:

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2010):

He's shy, so make a point of talking more to him face to face. A lot of guys are shy, and hide behind technology nowadays. So the best way to get to know him is ask to meet him and just talk to him. Ask him a few questions about himself and see where it leads.

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A female reader, Nina :)  Australia +, writes (4 February 2010):

Nina :)  agony aunthey, im nina, yeah i will try to help, hehe. i think he's shy or he doesnt know how to talk to you in person, you know? he maybe thinks its enough talking to you know on the phone, and chatting.

why dont you try to talk to him in person more and dont chat to much with him on pc then he might miss you so when he sees you in person, he'll want to talk to you..

Lol sorry if thats silly, but thats what i think..

i had this with a guy i liked. i liked to chat with him but in person i just. . well i didnt know what to talk to him about.

i hope everything goes well at the end.. i hope i helped :)

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