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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. He still talks to his ex-girlfriend. They've been apart for years now and she also has a boyfriend. I know he has no feelings for her and I know he loves me, but it still makes me feel uncomfortable that he talks to her. In addition, he says they are best friends. And also, he lost his virginity to her, which was years ago but it still makes me feel even more uncomfortable. It drives me crazy. He honestly does not think there is anything wrong with talking to her because they are just friends and nothing more. I have told him several times to stop talking to her because it clearly makes me feel very uncomfortable and a bit jealous. He says he has stopped and hasn't spoken of her for months now. But sometimes I think he's lying. This is so weird for me. Is it wrong that I told him to stop speaking to her?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 February 2010):
I'm not a fan of ex's keeping in contact. As far as I'm concerned,an ex is the past and it's best to move on. I think you did do the right thing, because to be that close to an ex is a little worrying.
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (4 February 2010):
yes it is wrong you should trust him and believe what he says your jeolousy will drive him away if she has a boyfriend then you have even more reason not to worry as she is not interested in him and him not in her
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