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writes:I am a 25 years old male. Last night, I had a sex dream about my friend's sister who is 14 years old (my friend is 24 years old but his sister is only 14 years old). In the dream, both of us nude making out with each other. In the real world, I would never do anything too her since she is only a young teenager, she is my friend's sister, it is illegal, and just plane wrong to try to do anything with her. My rule of thumb is "If you can't legally buy beer in the United States, you are too young for me." So my question is why would I be having a sex dream about a 14 years old girl when I know there will never be anything between us? Is there any way I can keep sure this type of dream will never happen again? Any other advice you want to give? Reply to this Question
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (22 February 2010):
Our subconcious minds do this to us. The important thing is to not dwell on it or beat yourself up over it. Pay no attention. It was just a dream. I have had similar dreams; I remember once dreaming I got raped. It was after I had been watching a movie with rape as a theme. This doesn't mean I want it to happen. Its just that my subconscious mind took it and twisted it into something I could never consciously desire. So dont beat yourself up over it. Its unlikely it will ever recur, especially since you are not lingering or toying with the possibility.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (22 February 2010):
 First, just recognize it was only a dream... and just because you dreamed it, doesn't mean that you've got some deep-seated desire to get intimate with a 14 year-old... it's simply a dream... If your conscious mind rationalizes why you shouldn't have sex with a minor, then I wouldn't worry about the dream actually happening. You know it's wrong, you've rationalized why you wouldn't... I'd say that you're done.
As far as preventing it from happening again, I'm not sure there's anything you can do about preventing the dream from occurring again in the same way that you can't force yourself to dream about anything.
What would be more interesting here is if it's the start of some reoccurring dream with her. Then maybe you might want to go dig into a few dream analysis books and see if you can get any clues there... but, I really wouldn't worry about it.
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