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30-35,
*JE47
writes:Okay. There is this girl I really like. She's a family friend so she came on vacation with us this weekend. While we were there, we hooked up twice. We've been talking for about 2/3 months now and that was the first time we hooked up. We also sat up for hours talking. We can relate with one another about a lot of stuff. But only one problem. She is a big flirt and I am the jealous type. All of her friends are pretty much guys. She flirts with a lot of guys but swears that she is always thinking about me no matter what guy she talks to and stuff. She calls me every night and stuff so I kind of believe her. But I want her to commit to just me and she doesn't really want to yet. She says that we would be forcing it and forced things never really worked out. I just feel like she she changes her mind about me every day. One day she loves me, the next she barely talks to me. I do believe the stuff she says like she really cares about me and stuff but as I said before she won't commit to just me. Whenever I ask her about it she says anything can happen and stuff. I asked her today if she considers us at least "together" and she said no. She always talks about us going out though in the future and stuff. I'm just so confused. I think I might actually love her but she is sending me mixed signals. It seems like I want her a lot more than she wants me. What do I do? Please help.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 February 2010):
She's not sending mixed signal. She's told you the truth. You're not together. She doesn't feel the same way as you do. Now you've got to be brave and move on from her.
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