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writes:i have been seeing this guy for 2 and half yrs never met his family or children. he stays with me and goes home on a Wednesday to see his children, 2 weeks ago his mum died he never told me he hasnt been in touch at all. i sent him texts he hasnt answered, as i didnt know what what was going on i thought he dumped me and i destroyed his records that he had from a very young age and left them outside his front door. i feel guilty as i didnt know what had happened please could you give me some advice thanks
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (22 February 2010):
From your age I'm assuming you mean music records? If so, then go on the web and shop around on ebay and other sites for replacements. Sorry is not enough; you have to get them back. If he hadn't already seen them then remove them quickly because the dog did it. If its too late for that then start shopping.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): i agree with caring guy but at the same token you have absolutely no right whatsoever to destroy someones things. If you had bought them then yeah maybe, but friends family and others bought these. these are things he can never replace. God forbid some of these may have been given by his mother. I am not trying to make you feel bad but good lord woman. How old are you?
if i were you I would start heading to the store and start buying back some of the records to replace what you broke.
this shows him how very sorry you are and how far you are willing to go to make a mends. it may take time but maybe one day you two can continue the search for replacements together.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 February 2010):
Errr. Not sure what to say on this one. I think you need to explain that it was a knee jerk reaction because you thought he had dumped you. Explain that you didn't know his mother had died and that because he hadn't replied or said anything at all you were hurt. Then say you will do what it takes to prove that you're sorry (within reason of course). Hopefully he'll understand.
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