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Are we having too much sex?

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Question - (16 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey, ok so i guess this isnt a huge deal but me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months. im 17 hes 21. every single time we see each other we have sex, at least 3 times too, we see each other about 3-4 times a week, is this too much? we have good conversation but at the same time we dont seem to go out as much we usually just end up goin bak to mine and do it all night. is this unusal i thought the honeymoon stage would be over by this point not that i want it to be! i just dont want it to become that we love each other so much but if we cant even walk through the park and not have sex isnt there something wrong!?!?!?!

thanks x

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (16 April 2010):

chigirl agony auntDo you enjoy it? If so just carry on. People have different sex drives and perhaps the two of you are a good match of equally high sex drive. There's no one who can say how much is too much. Only you decide. If it's so much that it keeps you up all night so you can't concentrate in school, or that it inflicts with other things in your life, perhaps it's time to slow down. But as long as it's good why not. Been there done that and it didn't harm me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2010):

by the way im young but learned about sex see if u hve sex a to many times its not good for ur body .the body becomes week by doing too much of sex doing sex 2 times a month is ok because if u do toooooo much of sex u may get wringes n dark spots n may fall sick from minor diseases n be careful now a days theres a danger of AIDS so take my advice n live in a happy relation and dont forget to use condoms.

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A female reader, terrifenby United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2010):

terrifenby agony auntHey alot of people would be jelous that you two are still at it like rabbits. I tell i am! There is no right or wrong when it comes to how many times you have sex!

Just make sure that the relationship isnt based solely on the sex. Maybe dont give him it for a day and find some thing that the both of you can do together other than ending up in bed.

I tell you this though if you end up in bed every time you see each other, then you dont give him it for one day. You can imagine what it will be like the next time you hook up, espiacally if its a few days later. EXPLOSIVE!

Good luck and all the best

:)

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