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writes:i was with my boyfriend for four years, he cheated on me a few years back, we stayed together. Then he was flirting with people. He always kept secrets but id find some out now and then, also caught him out on a some lies.today i saw on his facebook that he'd wrote "just had a great and funny two nights with (a woman he knows).i did not trust him, so i called him on it. he denied it and i said ok if nothing is going on then you wont mind me asking her.he said to do what i want as we are done anyway.instead of just leaving it at that, i asked her, she was very nice and told me that nothing was going on between them and sounded shocked that i would even think she would go with him and that she was watching his child sometimes while he worked.why did he not mention her? she has been doing this for a few weeks now.why did he write that knowing i would see it? was this just his way of getting rid of me? he knew i didnt trust him again yet i feel angry stupid and hurt.:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2010): Like the previous people have said you deserve better forget about him. You should move on he's not worth your time and he's not appreciating you. Dont feel stupid you cared for him its not your fault he turned out that way. It might take you some time to get over it, but i say you should get out there and have a good time your still young. You will find the guy that's wonderful to you and he will show you how you should really be treated and you will be able to trust him.
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reader, alyssadiane21  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 sounds like a complicated relationship i wouldnt worry about it then if hes going to be that way. Relationships need honesty to and if he couldnt come straight to you to ask about your trust issues then hes not good enough for you. It SOUNDS like an easy way out. a poor excuse that is...Forget him hes not worth it.
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reader, CaliMoore +, writes (16 April 2010):
 to be honest, that doesnt really matter; whether he wrote those things to hurt you or not. The fact is, hes cheated and lied to you before, over and over again; i think that just about sums up the little amount of love and respect he has for you.
You deserve better, leave this man, he clearly isn't treating you right, go out there and find someone who deserves you. Don't stay with someone who doesnt care about you any less than you do them, good luck!xox
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