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Should I tell my ex I still have feelings for him even though we split up 5 years ago?

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Question - (16 April 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2010)
A female Botswana age 30-35, *ingle gal writes:

should i tell my old flame that i still have feelings for him, though we broke up 5 years ago. and there has been others after him?

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A female reader, single gal Botswana +, writes (20 April 2010):

single gal is verified as being by the original poster of the question

he was not my first love,

we broke up because i was sent to a boarding school and wouldnt come home for months at end. so i decided to end it as we were nt allowed to have cell-phones or visitors, so it became impossible to talk to the outside world. and i felt it was unfair for him. so i asked him to break up.

we never had problems in our relationship apart from that.

@lerokiya, women dont just forget men. especially if what they had was special.

when i saw him the emotions soared .

he however said we should be friends, i havent told him yet how i feel.

we have been on a couple of dates, but i feel he was just extending a friendly gesture.

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A male reader, lerokiya Canada +, writes (17 April 2010):

why do u still have feeling for him after all these years? just curious. I thought most women forget men they had relationships so long ago. thanks.

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A female reader, terrifenby United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2010):

terrifenby agony auntIs this your first love? If so then at some point or another they will always creep into your mind. But like the other post says...What have you got to lose from telling him? :)

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2010):

What have you got to lose? What have you got to gain?

Good Luck!! xx

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