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Is it love or is he after me just to get a mortgage?

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Question - (9 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age , *atface benson writes:

i want to know if my current boyfriend really loves me, or is just using me to get a mortgage

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (9 May 2009):

jessica04 agony auntHow would he do that?

If you have a house already in your name, keep it that way. And if you and he get married, have a prenup ready so he cannot take property that you entered the marriage with.

Buying property before marriage or a civil union (pretty much anything legal) is a very tricky thing, and I would honestly suggest seeking legal counsel to make sure you are covered.

If he shies away when you mention "prenup" or and legally binding contract ensuring your half of property, then you have your answer.

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A female reader, ErinPatterson United States +, writes (9 May 2009):

ErinPatterson agony auntgod thats an awful thought. make sure you cover yourself if that is how you feel. you know..dont put his name on it..or dont do it at all if you are not sure and are second guessing that.

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