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Archived questions from: 10 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Bessie mate becoming a bit obssesed with lad, its becoming a tiny bit annoying....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - hey :) now, this isnt really a problem, well, its kind of is seeing as im writing about it but i think im making a big deal out of nothing, im not sure. well, me and my friend are 15, were best friends and dont have many secrets lol, so were c...

I want to be sure that he's not going to leave me for her... but how can I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - ok... I'm not sure how to do this...so i'll just keep rambling till my question comes to mind. =) i'm 16, and i'm in my first relationship. it's been three months, and i swear on my life i've never been happier! the boy i'm with is amazing in ev...

What does she want from this if she doesn't say she wants to break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - I have been with a girl for two months, went out on a few dates before we got involved. We are not officially broken up, but she revealed to me that she was worried because she hasn't been having strong feelings for me. I don't have them either, but ...

How to get through to my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I have no idea what to do! I've had enough. This is basically the low-down: - He takes me for granted: For example, when I do things for him just because I want to, he doesn't assume that he should do something back for me to be fair. It's as if...

Can someone please tell me what's in this man's head?!?!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - ok, I went out with this guy (ill call him John)for a year. I was 22, him 23. Both living at our respective parents house. I was sleeping at his place quite often since my job was near by. I knew his mom, step dad, grandma... and was getting ...

How can I break up with him when I love him so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - hey well i ve with my boyfriend for 10 months and i feel i can t easily forget him or break up but he's in a military school. he comes only on weekends where we spend the most beautiful times together but it's really hard to see him once a week ...

I regret my decision to leave him! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - After a 14 year relationship of ups and downs in and outs we still love each other but he said it just won't work because of Family and the disagreements and things said in anger.... I believe that it could be and would be different, I was going ...

Do I let him explore his fantasy of being with a man? I don't know what to think!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Hi there, I have been in a relationship with same guy for several years. He just recently started opening up to me about how he is interested in being with another male, as well as wanting golden showers. He has become obssesed with anal sex.It...

I'm confused! What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for about 2 months, everything was going good and all of a sudden he wont answer my phone calls. The last conversation was a good conversation, he sent me a text message the next day that was so sweet and it has been ...

I'm in a friend mess! I miss him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I had a friend that I was really close to and I fell in love with him he was my really good friend...so I told him how I felt now he hates me and I can't get him off my mind...how can I make him listen to the fact that I never wanted things to end ...

Personal freedom and rights in married life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - I am married for 2 years.I have a 14 month old baby. This marriage was settled by my parents. They chose the girl and I agreed. Before marriage I had some psychological problems. I was studying Masters in IT in Dhaka, Bangladesh in 2007. Both m...

I want a boyfriend, he wants a partnership - how can we find a happy medium?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I'm in a position now where I am stuck. I really need some help with my situation, so those who can offer some, don't hold back. I am currently dating the most wonderful man I've ever known. We've been talking for more than a year, dating for...

Has he changed because of the steroids?

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10 June 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and up to a week ago we were very much in love, we both felt we had found our soulmates. about a 6 weeks ago he started taking steroids to beef up and quickly gained mood swings, two weeks ago he sto...

Boyfriend fought with my brother and I find his actions very disrespectful

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Yesterday my boyfriend started a fight with my 32 year old brother who lives on my property as to why he doesn't work and can't get off drugs. A discussion would have been ok but this was an all out screaming match with him calling my brother ...

Do friends have oral sex? Can't girls make their own choices now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - i have one question... do friends have oral sex? like normal friend, with no relationship at all. just friend. and is it wrong if the girl wants to stop it and try to value herself more and don't let him touch her anymore... is that a bad thing? or ...

A lot has happened between us. Now I'm pregnant and he doesn't want it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - right I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months, in the very short space of time alot has happend. soo when i met him he had only been single for 1 week. he split up with hes ex as hes in the army and she called him all the time was very needy an...

She can't seem to connect with me at all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - We met 3 years ago in july. Moved in together that december and were happy until around April 2008. She became distant, withdrawn and didn't seem to want to connect emotionally with me. She wouldn't tell me she loved me nor would or could she ...

She never told me about her "friend"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - my gf of over a year has a "friend" that gets out of jail soon. she says they are just friends, however they have slept together. she said that was a mistake and they are just friends. she didn't know him that long before he got locked up. she has ...

He's sent e-mails to another woman...what do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I know I shouldn't but I've been hacking into my boyfriends email account and recently found emails to another woman which imply they have had a previous encounter (not sure how long ago) but my boyfriend has told the woman I will be working away ...

Really paranoid boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Okay, so before i even met my 3 month boyfriend of today, i met my seriously best friend ever, but he is a boy. I tell him every little thing, and i honestly dont know what i would do without him. So i started dating my boyfriend and whenever i ...

Is it just jail talk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (?) - Hello iv bin with my boyfriend 8 months and he is in prison we were only together for a short while before he went inside but we really do get on well he says im diffrent to any one else hes been with and that i make him want to change he says h...

Violent past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - My new partner is really lovely and kind to me but i recently found out in his past relationship he was really violent and abusive. Do you think he will be the same with me or do you think he has changed? ...

Should I stay friends with my ex who takes drugs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - hi i need to ask if i did the right thing. my x boyfriend has a drug problem and it seems that he wont change. yesterday i found out that he,s been asking for money from his friends, and his father give him too and he spent them all in a week he ...

Girlfriend depressed has no idea what she wants

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is depressed. She has no idea what she wants. I ask her if she wants to breakup and she doesn't know. I try to support her and stay positive but I get one word answers, and sometimes it feels like she doesn't even want me around. ...

Everytime we fight he goes to the adult website

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - i have been with this man for just over a year. Everytime we fight he goes back onto the adult site where we met and sends a few messages to different girls. We dont have sex very often (not my choice) I have recently discovered that he has now paid ...

Please tell me if she is manipulative or do I expect too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - Please, forgive me for the lengthy email, but I need to get the facts straight here. I have dated this woman for 1 1/2 years. She is 29 now. A few months ago I caught her lying to me. She told me - she actually set up her lie for a week!!! - that ...

His mother hates me because of untrue rumors, how do I deal with this, or should I just drop him?

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10 June 2009 (F) - im really into my boyfriend of 8 months, everything is great between us except for the fact that his mom hates me. she doesnt even know me, only reason why she dont like me is because the girl my ex husband cheated on me with is talking alot of ...

My girlfriend's choice of clothing is too revealing, we argue, any suggestions how to deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - I've been dating a girl for some time now, and she's been putting on some clothing i don't like her to wear because it is a bit revealing. I tried talking to her about it, but we just ended up arguing, and she said that it was what she liked an...

Together for almost 4 years, I want marriage, he says "I'll look into it", what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I have some serious concerns about my relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. We own a house together, own vehicles together and we have 2 children. Our oldest is not his biologically, but my boyfriend has been her "step ...

Boyfriend asked " if I need to borrow $200, would you do it" , after 5 years I said, he's angry, was I wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of one year asked me "What if I needed to borrow $200, would you let me?" I responded, "Maybe after we have been together for 5 years." Now he is mad and thinks I would never be there for him. Am I in the wrong for saying this? I love ...

Why do I feel bad about breaking up with a lazy abuser?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Why do I feel like crap just finish breaking up with my man who has an anger problem and also wants me to accept him doing illegal stuff as long as I don't know about it. Mind you I'm a single mother working and going to school at night to get a ...

I love him but he doesn't love me back and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I am a sixteen year old gurl and i love this guy, i cant stop, I cry over him a lot, I've liked him for almost this whole year and he said he doesn't like me and I don't know what the hell to do! Help me plz I am going crazy here!...

Is he with me out of guilt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I just wanted to know what you think it means when my boyfriend tells a friend of his that he doesnt feel anything when he kisses me... does that mean he's not really in love with me? He had a one month affair before and apologized for it but ...

Jealousy that is leading my relationship to an end..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for 14 months and broken up twice, and it's all because it's extremely hard for me trust him.I'm really on my last chance to keep him with me. He makes it clear to me he won't cheat, flirt,ect. I also can't stand it ...