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writes: Hello iv bin with my boyfriend 8 months and he is in prison we were only together for a short while before he went inside but we really do get on well he says im diffrent to any one else hes been with and that i make him want to change he says he loves me and wants to live together when hes home weve evan talked about kids geting engaged having each others name tattooed on each otherbut iv heard storys about hims past thats hes a bit of a player and carnt stick to 1 girl and that when hes had a drink he can bit abit nasty if you get on the wrong side of him i havnt mentioned anything to him.but now im thinking what if hes going to be like that when hes back home and is every thing hes saying to me just jail talk how can i tell what he says is genuine
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): Hi Shauna.
I have the same scenario as you - I am writing to a guy who knows I love him and since he has been recalled to prison - his letters seem much more lovey-dovey!
I too am unsure if he is genuine or not - I just have to hope he is!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni no what you mean i want my kids to have the best dad not some one who isnt there
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for you advice i think your idea of leaving him is a good idea as like you said it wil prove to me if he really does care its going to be really hard to ignor him il feel really mean
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (10 June 2009):
 thats the problem you can never tell if he is being genuine he maybe saying this because he feels lonely in prison.but he's had a violent past and now he's in prison?that really the type of guy you want your kids to have as a father?i mean prison now who knows when next.what if he gets violent towards you because someone told you about his past?you can't start a family in a situation like that.i think you should just leave it hun better off this way.find yourself a decent bloke one who you know you can rely on :)i mean he's not very reliable now in jail is he?Hope this helps hun. you deserve alot.x x x x
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reader, yourhandholdingmine  +, writes (10 June 2009):
 leave him! he should come chasing after you but ignore him for a few months and see how it goes...he might be going after another girl by then. i mean, if he truly loves u enough, he'd do anything to try to win you back. he might even do the silliest thing you'd ever imagine him to do. endure for that few months, DONT GET SOFT-HEARTENED, as that is the only way to find out if his feelings for you are strong and genuine enough.
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