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Archived questions from: 5 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Boyfriend says that he can see no future for us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Hiya! I am a little confused! My boyfriend has told me that he could see no future for us. I thought that we were getting on fine, I live in Dublin and he lives in Northern Ireland which is about 100 miles away. But I go there at least once a ...

I have a boyfriend I care about, but a friend I prefer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - hello, i'm Shadow Tears, i have a problem. you see, I've been dating this guy for a while now, (a little more then 2 months) and i care about him, (i'm not madly in love with him but I've known him for like five years, so i care) but i ...

How to stop his communication with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I had been married for 5 years. My husband has this "friendship" with another woman, but she is really manipulative. He denied having communication with her, but I had found information that show that they are having communication. How can I made ...

Should I tell his new girlfriend what he is really like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Help me ive been texting my ex bf from a different number under a name ? which is a girl, thing is hes got a gf and he says there happy but whys he texting this girl ie me with i want to suck yor tits and do other things ive shown him pics of her as ...

Problems with my husband - help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - My husband hates my brother in law, before marriage we are like friends he doesn't have any intention but he speaks very jovial to me, but my husband hates whenever he speaks with me.i told him if u din like him u dont speak i will speak but he got ...

How long can I hide it from my parents that my dad is my boyfriends boss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - ok i am in total fix i need advise asap!thanks so here it goes i am 20 years old and my bouyfriend is 21 he is a hotel management student,he is done with studies and now interning in a hotel for experience but here is the problem my dad owns a fe...

What are all of these girls really looking for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - hi.. i met this girl we connected instantly.. we hung out after we met and we kissed and had a great time.. we talked on the phone and she told me that she did have a boyfriend but that she really liked me.. we talk all day every day for a week ...

He says his feelings haven't developed as much as mine!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - im 19 year old guy, hes 24, we have been seeing each other for about 4 months now (not actually in a relationship way). he has just came out of a long term relationship (3 years) as well as his bit on the side leaving to go home (far away), well ...

I hinted that I wanted to be his girlfriend and now he's been distant

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5 June 2009 (F) - Hi everybody, I started seeing a guy I've known through work for about 2 years 6 weeks ago. He's absolutely lovely as in paying his way, taking me to the cinema and generally looking after me. However, this is when we're together. We live about 45...

He didn't seem to excited over the trouble I made to bake him a birthday cake

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Should I tell my boyfriend of (4 months) that this bothered me a bit? Ok, so yesterday was his B-day. I baked him a cake and took a long lunch to drop it off at his house. I would see him until late so I figured I'd leave it with his sis early an...

With my girlfriend, but still in love with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I first met her at my high school. I was in the 11th grade and she was a grade below. She had just transferred to my school. She was single,I was in a long distance relationship with my present girlfriend. We met up alot because she was friends ...

Everything is really getting to me..I don't know whether to just pack my things and go away or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Hi I basically just don't know what to do. I don't know whether to change my life completely. On New Years Eve I made an oath to myself that this year was going to be good. So far, its been awful. So here goes: 1. My nana died ea...

We keep fighting, I don't want to, and I don't want to lose her but this is a vicious cycle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - Please help me! I have been seeing this girl with an 8 yr old daughter since February 2008. She had mentioned that she wasn't looking for a serious relationship so we kept it mutual. A few months later (May) she read a few flirtatious emails I had ...

Would he like it if I did what he is doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I'm not a jealous person and ive always taken it well when my boyfriends in the past have commented on a girl on tv or an actress and said how sexy she is. I dont really care, they're celebrities, you cant be with them, i like Daniel Craig as well ...

My boyfriend makes me happy but not as happy as his friend does!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I've never been one to break anyones heart and ive definitely never been a cheat or a sleep around. I've been with my boyfriend for just over two months now. Things have got really serious between us, we've moved in together and were getting along ...

Does he want us to be a family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I'm pregnant and living with my boyfriend. yesterday I was the happiest person ever as although it was a shock that I was pregnant, he seemed to get used to the idea and I was quite happy from the beginning until, and I know I shouldn't have done, ...

Her budget for the wedding is making me have second thoughts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I'm getting married in a year, asked her months 6 ago and now i'm not so sure on the marriage. I love her but she took the planning/cost too high for my taste and doesn't want to budge on any cost cutting that I come up with. I want to get marr...

She hates me, but I love her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - there this girl at my school, i dont really know her well, and thats cos, for as long as she's been her, she's always said that she doesnt like me, and i wasnt bothered but lately, i've been thinking about her in a sexual way, i saw her today , and ...

Is my husband displaying normal behavior for a man whose wife is pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I am pregnant with my second child and I spend most of my time alone. My husband seems to never be home and have time for me. I always wake up in the morning alone and he is barely at home. If he do be home he wakes up and an hour later he is gone ...

Been together for 7 years, quit his job 2 years ago and things have never been the same since then

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for more than seven years. We started out as really close friends in college. It's not a perfect relationshp but I'd say we're really both happy. It's near perfect until two years ago, he quit his job. Probably, that's ...

Lots of love but he's unwilling to get hitched

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I am in love with a man I have been living with for 2 years. We have been dating for 5 years before that. He is amazing, we never argue or fight, he is kind, loving , sexy and all the things I dreamed of. The only thing that he is not is the ...

He had a foursome before we were dating, I'm scared this can reocurr after we get married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - This is really bothering me... I'm 28, Been in a relationship with this guy for almost 2 years, he is great but sometimes its like i dont know him at all!! Before me he had a very ugly break up with a girl that had cheated on him a couple of times. ...

Is it normal to expect satisfaction from married sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I am getting married soon. My fiancee is divorced and I have always been single. She is also almost 2 years older to me. I have very high desire to have sex. She does let me love her not the way I want. My question is : Is it not my right to seek ...

Now that I found my true love, why is it so hard?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a few months now. The time span seems to be short and new yet so many things have happened already. Infidelity (on both parts), hitting (I will explain this further), and just disresp...

It's been a long time since we dated, should I still try for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I'm 19 and she's 18 now. We dated for a short time starting in December '06. Every few months she still reminds me that she loves me and would like a second chance, but I always said no because since then she has dated around 22 guys (not even ...

Is he in love, or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I've written you guys several times in the past couple days, and wanted to thank you very much for the advice ya'll have givin to me. It has helped me to take a step back, and analyze my life, and put some pretty important issues into focus. My ...

Should I stay with him or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about two months. He says he really likes me and almost told me that he felt he loved me. The thing about him is that he has a VERY rocky past. He has slept with over 40 girls and was the "player" type. Everyone insists ...

What I found in his wallet floored me!!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - this one is a toughy! So I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half! just last week I took out everything in his wallet while he was at work (it got all wet the previous day so I wanted to dry it all out) and found a............. sex ...

Straight guy with confused gay feelings and experience

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I am a normal straight guy with good job, beautiful wife, and kids. 40. Lately, I have been finding myself fantasizing about stuff that I wouldn't have even thought about untill now. Sex life with wife is great. But I guess I want more spice in ...

My friend's BF's cousin is forcing her to screw her man and check him!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Well Basically.. My best friend who is 14 years old has been checking this guy for about 2 months now, she didn't really want to go out with him but now its ok. But then we were on the bus to town and her bfs cousin come on he kept tryna flirt with ...